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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪

@pwr2dppl.bsky.social

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The liberated (and disabled) mathematician. Solidarity and accessible vibes only. Black + AuDHD + Not Open to Being Mistreated. she/they ∉ women. 🏳️‍🌈

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · Nov 17

If you are transphobic or gender critical or whatever you call yourself if you have anything nice to say about JKR or whatever other TERFs make headlines etc

I skeet not for thee! You don't get to laugh at my jokes! You can hang out with the nazis and die mad.

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 15m

There's no head 😅. I have contact info for one board member, but like a school that has uniforms I think they will just not think anything is relevant. This school is fully democratic with students voting on retaining staff, for instance.

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 26m

Me yelling at my thermostat for implicitly accusing me of hormones

Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 1h

Oh god I've let go of so many ideas I want to hold on to 18 for a bit longer😭😭😭

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 22h

*banging on pots and pans*

CAPITALISM IS BAD FOR YOUR HEALTH

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 1h

We're fine! I'm fine! Everything's fine! Lol. I just

oh right

I was raised to be opposed to reassurance. So I need it but can't get it. But it is vaguely reassuring when nobody has more useful advice. I used to assume answers were out there but that was years ago.

Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 1h

Yeah I mean mostly when I'm looking for help here it's like I'm just checking there isn't help 😅😅

Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 1h

The world wasn't made for us. I've made my world for him. But I won't have him for much longer.

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 1h

And sure I'm doing a great job blah blah blah lmao. But like. If everything comes crashing down on us, I will be the only one who saw it coming.

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 1h

So I'm just sitting here aware. Aware!! Of how the school could be better but isn't. Of the good and the bad happening at other schools. Of how much attention I needed and didn't get and how much attention I'm sure my kid needs but doesn't know how to ask for and high-key doesn't want.

Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 1h

But like he's in school now. I kept him out until last year. Finally found a school that agreed with our values. EXCEPT??? they completely do not understand neurodivergence. So he's not being exposed to normal stuff, on purpose, but I think his school is not holding up their end of the bargain.

Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 1h

Well so what I do is *nothing* and then I *confess to the internet in case there's something I could do* and then when there isn't i go back to doing nothing

Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 1h

Thanks!

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 1h

Yeah, he/him, but not a fan of gender

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Maggie Tokuda-Hall @maggietokudahall.bsky.social · 4h

We're all in this together (hell)

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 2h

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 2h

Haha thank you!

Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 2h

I'm scared for how we both lose time all the time. But not bc he currently has any deadlines. I'm just i guess having a bit of panic.

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 2h

I guess I seek a magic that allows us to discuss if he has goals and how we can assess progress but without him feeling judged or criticized. Maybe this isn't an ADHD thing at all. But I guess if he didn't have ADHD I would be less worried about his time.

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 2h

He is completely free and I'm fine with that except that there's no oversight.

I guess it's like most of the world is judgmental and cruel and time obsessed and I have shielded him from that but... shouldn't I also be preparing him? But I can't liberatorily prepare someone for oppression.

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 2h

If I ask if we can talk about something he wants to know exactly what. Which is not something I know until I'm talking.

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 2h

We're both AuDHD. We're both always right in the middle of something. I hate being interrupted, he hates scheduling personal things.

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 2h

Honestly I don't even know. I think I just feel like I only know One Way of learning and it involves a lot of Bad Things.

But on a basic basic level we can't even like

agree to talk lololol

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Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 2h

It's more like I can think "if nothing changes in three years he might regret that" without believing there's anything wrong with how things are right now. I can't communicate this. And I know things will change over the next three years but might they change better if I know what I'm doing?

Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 2h

Failure in the abstract nothing has been defined to even fail yet!

Dr ICE Scream Maker: Slasher of Fash 🔪 @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 2h

I mean I'm demand avoidant too but we're not even talking about me trying to get anything to happen. I'm just like trying to figure out.... I guess what support he secretly needs that he can't tell me lol. I have the ability to pessimistically predict failure without judgment but I think he can't