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Handy Dani Dyke
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If women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy.

Spinster, T4T polyamorous & polysaturated lesbian, dyke on a bike.
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Hello friends.

My wife has an upcoming surgery for a long-time health issue which will mean a significant expense to us even with her being on my employer provided health insurance. Any donations will be greatly appreciated by both of us.

gofund.me/68c65adb9
Donate to Support My Journey to Pain-Free Mobility, organized by Jennifer Pershall
Hi, I'm Jennifer a 41 years old disabled woman. My wife, Danielle, and I ar… Jennifer Pershall needs your support for Support My Journey to Pain-Free Mobility
gofund.me
I am still absolutely reeling from this experience.

I'm going to discuss one per day here by page numbers (7 is the first.) I won't reproduce the poem out of respect for the author and for her copyright, in that order.

Tonight the dedication, "For girls who love loudly." My love is never secret.
I feel...
It's like...like having the wind knocked out of me but rather than from my lungs it was from my soul and as if "Killing Me Softly With His Song" was about having read a book of sapphic poems.
February 16, 2026 at 4:59 AM
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When you’re a UK trans woman, you roll invisible dice every day before work. All sixes, and a coworker with billionaire money will take your employer to court over you, you will be on the news, and when you leave the country, men with abuse allegations against them will call it a victory for women.
February 15, 2026 at 2:07 PM
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"the entire body of anti-trans propaganda was workshopped in emails with the billionaire pedophile guy to facilitate twin campaigns of elimination and sex slavery" being both a.) true and b.) a thing no major news org seems interested in reporting is making me feel like I'm losing my fucking mind
February 1, 2026 at 5:54 PM
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:( Please help.

I just wanna keep us inside. And keep our things. Which we don’t have bc we’re unhoused. I am asking for so little after being deprived of so much.

linktr.ee/hiitsbritt

#MutualAid #HelpSky
#BIPOCMA #FundSky #MutualAidVoid
#MARequest
February 15, 2026 at 7:55 AM
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Been 2 months since this saw a donation, boost if you can to help a trans woman of color get FFS. www.gofundme.com/f/support-ar...
Donate to Support A Trans Woman's Gender Affirming Surgery, organized by Aria Balraj
Hi! My name is Aria, and I'm trying to raise funds so I can finally fix u… Aria Balraj needs your support for Support A Trans Woman's Gender Affirming Surgery
www.gofundme.com
February 15, 2026 at 2:09 PM
I feel...
It's like...like having the wind knocked out of me but rather than from my lungs it was from my soul and as if "Killing Me Softly With His Song" was about having read a book of sapphic poems.
February 15, 2026 at 2:13 PM
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Happy Sex Worker Saturday Valentine’s Day edition!🖤

Open ya wallets! 💵💵

Fellow SWers, post your tip links/needs below!

If using an img use alt text or put alt4meNSFW to be reposted.
🖤🧡

Everyone else, we pay and support SWers around here, so tip and share the thread!!
February 14, 2026 at 5:13 PM
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There was a closeted trans girl who said "I'm a girl" to her parents in 1977, when she was 2, and the result was over a decade of violent abuse. It would take 17 years for her to go to a psych for a hormone letter then 15 more to get that letter and prescriptions.

It shouldn't take so long.
There was a closeted girl in 1993 who went to her friend's house and played the board game "Pretty Pretty Princess", putting on costume jewelry. She ran home and bragged about how much fun it was, to indifference from her parents. It took her 32 more years to come out.

It shouldn't take so long.
There was a closeted girl in 1989 who booted up Baseball Stars and added "Amanda Johnson" as a player to the Lovely Ladies team. It took her 30 years to come out

It shouldn't take so long
January 22, 2026 at 3:19 PM
At breakfast this morning my girlfriend shared this image with my wifey who said "you already do."
February 14, 2026 at 5:18 PM
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Domestic abusers rarely lose control. Their abuse is controlling because it's designed to groom victims to learn, listen, obey or else.
January 26, 2026 at 2:50 PM
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The SAVE Act is an election power grab that could block millions of eligible voters.

Let’s be clear: we’ve already seen U.S. citizens detained by ICE despite having proof of citizenship. Now we’re supposed to trust this same government to police paperwork at the ballot box? tinyurl.com/yhwj7b77
New SAVE Act Bills Would Still Block Millions of Americans From Voting
The “show your papers” requirement is an attack on the freedom to vote.
www.brennancenter.org
February 13, 2026 at 8:04 PM
Years ago an acquaintance with several cats had one get a piece of tandoori chicken which he proceeded to defend in such manner from the other cats between attempts to eat it and smacking it for the resulting experience of spiciness.
February 13, 2026 at 8:37 PM
Walking into my home office this morning...
February 13, 2026 at 6:47 PM
US medical costs and insurance are so ridiculous. Her pre-op appointment was yesterday at which why 3 was provided with equipment she will need for recovery including a back brace that was $1,000 after insurance.
Hello friends.

My wife has an upcoming surgery for a long-time health issue which will mean a significant expense to us even with her being on my employer provided health insurance. Any donations will be greatly appreciated by both of us.

gofund.me/68c65adb9
Donate to Support My Journey to Pain-Free Mobility, organized by Jennifer Pershall
Hi, I'm Jennifer a 41 years old disabled woman. My wife, Danielle, and I ar… Jennifer Pershall needs your support for Support My Journey to Pain-Free Mobility
gofund.me
February 13, 2026 at 2:14 PM
I made the mistake of telling my parents "I'm a girl" when I was two. I endured decades of verbal and physical abuse because of it.
43% of trans kids outed to their parents suffer some form of negative outcome including abuse, confiscation of property and withdrawal of internet access. 9% experience actual domestic violence.
Heads up: this looks as bad as suspected:
February 12, 2026 at 5:01 PM
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"This study found that blocking internet access on phones led to better mental health for youth!"

Look inside

75% dropoff rate

hey so is there possibly a survivorship bias in that some youth don't have a viable replacement for the social outlets on their phones
February 12, 2026 at 3:22 PM
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Hello friends.

My wife has an upcoming surgery for a long-time health issue which will mean a significant expense to us even with her being on my employer provided health insurance. Any donations will be greatly appreciated by both of us.

gofund.me/68c65adb9
Donate to Support My Journey to Pain-Free Mobility, organized by Jennifer Pershall
Hi, I'm Jennifer a 41 years old disabled woman. My wife, Danielle, and I ar… Jennifer Pershall needs your support for Support My Journey to Pain-Free Mobility
gofund.me
January 25, 2026 at 3:28 AM
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If you propose regulations on e-bikes/e-motos/mopeds/scooters and don't discuss any sort of infrastructure improvements for bicyclists and pedestrians or traffic calming measures for cars, then I will simply not take you seriously.
February 12, 2026 at 2:29 PM
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In a functional country, this would be a scandal. A service suffering only from chronic underfunding was ripped apart because the media created a myth of 1000s of complaints of malpractice. The truth - as in my family’s experience - was very different.
www.thepinknews.com/2026/02/11/n...
NHS closed Tavistock over care complaints – there were only eight
An eye-opening FOI report has revealed that just eight people complained about the Tavistock gender clinic's care provision in 10 years.
www.thepinknews.com
February 12, 2026 at 12:19 PM
Far too many people feel threatened by anyone who is asexual maintaining that boundary while participating in kink.
February 12, 2026 at 2:33 PM
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Hot take; Skibidi Toilet and 6-7 aren't more stupid than the brain rot we consumed as kids, let the kids have their brain rot and stop acting like we had it better, we had this
Badgers : animated music video : MrWeebl
YouTube video by Weebl's Stuff
youtu.be
February 12, 2026 at 1:13 PM
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rotisserie chicken, the eternal food. served from the spit since times immemorial wherever travelers go and crowds gather. we crave that which exhibits slow rotation around a stable axis, for it Reminds us
February 11, 2026 at 10:38 AM
TFW other trans people decide that they are the experts on your life.

Yet another jumped into my DMs to demand that I go to pelvic physical therapy and have revision surgery to fix my mutilated pussy. I'm definitely not listening to unsolicited advice from someone who ignores my history.
February 11, 2026 at 10:19 PM
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Ghouls.
February 11, 2026 at 7:15 PM
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i've learned that most people who invoke the phrase "purity test" are using it as a shorthand for, and to diminish the entire concept of, "not tolerating overt transphobia and/or racism in a public forum"
Posting this in light of his recent dog piling of smaller accounts trying to get them banned.
February 11, 2026 at 6:23 PM