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Handy Dani Dyke
@sharpdresseddyke.bsky.social
If women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy.

Spinster, T4T polyamorous & polysaturated lesbian, dyke on a bike.
It's the old Apple 30-pin dock connector used by many iPod and early iPhone models.
January 20, 2026 at 6:38 AM
Moreover I noticed that it's invariably about the exclusion of trans people whom they dislike. Encountering the "it requires being happy with your vaginoplasty results" appearing after I struggled with a botched surgery made the motivation obvious.
January 19, 2026 at 3:08 PM
- want HRT
- be on HRT
- be completely happy with the previous
- want vaginoplasty
- have vaginoplasty
- be completely happy with the previous
- dress stereotypically feminine
- monogamously date men

There's undoubtedly more that I have forgotten over the decades.
January 19, 2026 at 3:08 PM
My personal favorite was "being transsexual requires being on HRT and have vaginoplasty and be happy with the results of that surgery" which was oddly specific.
January 19, 2026 at 2:26 PM
I don't see DIY and Informed Consent as mutually exclusive. DIY is critical particularly when there are various barriers to access otherwise.

I have been done with the term "transsexual" for a long time due to far too many definitions being used by various people.
January 19, 2026 at 2:18 PM
That's what I saw back when there was a contingent defending gatekeeping doctors and therapists and fighting against both DIY and Informed Consent.
January 19, 2026 at 3:40 AM
You are so smitten
January 19, 2026 at 3:02 AM
In the way my position was that therapy being available was great and the problem came when the therapists had to give permission to be able to access HRT.
January 19, 2026 at 1:53 AM
I noticed that one and I detangled the combined rhetoric about two unrelated screenshots in the OP I really was baffled at their point. It can both be true that risks get too much focus from some doctors and that taking HRT includes some amount of risks (and which may individually vary.)
January 18, 2026 at 10:55 PM
Likewise if you have surgery despite those doubts and regret it.
January 18, 2026 at 10:48 PM
IIRC when I encountered it in Pennsylvania public schools around 1990 then most that was suggested was that Croatoan might have been the name of a now-vanished island nearby.
January 18, 2026 at 8:11 PM
I love this! I found it useful to block on that basis. As it happens a bunch of the early ones with those profiles were the ones who had such anger at me for having a horrible bottom surgery experience, something which also literally didn't affect them but they claimed was a moral issue
January 18, 2026 at 12:38 PM
It's an interesting feeling, no?

A few years ago Wifey and I watched the late 2000s NBC show Chuck which licensed a lot of music particularly from the 80s and 90s. She was laughing about how many I could still remember the lyrics well enough to sing along.
January 17, 2026 at 4:09 PM