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CIS ALLIES SHUT UP AND LEARN A SINGLE THING CHALLENGE
I sometimes get the impression that people believe trans men to be at less risk of transphobic violence than they actually are.

By dint of being trans, both trans men and women are prone to being degendered and constructed as a predatory, sexual threat to women, against whom violence is justified.
[CN: account of serious transphobic violence in link]

I think people saying trans men should use women's public toilets to make a point should realise what they're asking trans men to risk.

www.them.us/story/trans-...
December 3, 2025 at 3:59 PM
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When it comes to conservative politics, even when attempting to hold it accountable to its own precedents, we must not ever expect any consistency.

There is a logic to these actions, but it is a reactionary, punitive logic. The logic states that we are lesser, and must always be put in our place.
March 23, 2025 at 2:07 PM
hello, it is me

a sad, trans millennial
December 3, 2025 at 4:18 PM
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This is explicitly what they want to do to ban even social transition for trans youth. Tell them that their lives will be so terrible and ruined that they can't be allowed to transition. That's the goal, make trans life so unbearable we cease existing. But we can't and we won't.
December 3, 2025 at 12:57 PM
I still haven’t even really interest in my resume since being laid off a year ago.

I don’t get calls back. I have warm introductions that lead to email runarounds. I have recruiters submit my resume and then I get nothing.

I am eating my retirement to survive now. Idk what happens when I’m out
When writing this piece, I kept thinking back to this Instagram post I saw from a trans woman the other day. This is what I'm talking about. Watch this:
December 3, 2025 at 2:29 PM
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When writing this piece, I kept thinking back to this Instagram post I saw from a trans woman the other day. This is what I'm talking about. Watch this:
December 3, 2025 at 12:35 AM
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I think this is my best essay on this topic (maybe my best essay). I'd like you to read it, if you haven't.
It also means (@lollardfish.bsky.social has ably written about this) that you as a parent are forced to concentrate on and narrate your child's difficulties just to get them what they need, which is damaging to your child and your relationship with them.
I Shouldn’t Have to Dehumanize My Son to Get Him Support
Instead of focusing on the challenges facing disabled people, we should emphasize goals.
www.thenation.com
December 3, 2025 at 1:01 AM
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There's a couple reasons so many IWW songs are set to the tunes of hymns and one is that the Salvation Army Band would show up and try to stop workers organizing by playing hymns to drown out speeches, so the Wobblies came up with words so they could sing along. SA has been trash all along.
It's that giving time of year again, so this is a reminder that no matter how they try to dress it up, the Salvation Army is not a charity.
December 3, 2025 at 2:09 AM
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it should probably be a bigger story that the richest man on earth and leading Republican is a fucking Nazi

media needs to stop beating around the bush. this is Nazi shit.
December 3, 2025 at 5:03 AM
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I am in desperate need of sci-fi, fantasy, and/or horror that feature transfem main characters. Especially if there are audiobook formats available. Please give me recommendations, and please repost to get more people giving me suggestions.
December 3, 2025 at 6:12 AM
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*stares indigenously*
We're doing pogroms in America now
Officials prepare immigration operation in Minnesota that would focus on Somali immigrants, source tells AP, as Trump says he doesn't want Somalis in U.S.
December 3, 2025 at 7:45 AM
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"It's too costly to stand up for you, but we pinky promise we have solidarity with you" is bullshit.

"We have no choice but to discriminate against you" is bullshit.

They could use their platform to spotlight Gender-Conservative hatred, or demonstrate actual commitment to their stated principles.
i hope every single person who still buys harry potter merch or engages with that franchise is happy that they're literally making girl guides cry

girl guides uk have been forced very much against their will to exclude trans girls. full statement is here: www.girlguiding.org.uk/information-...
December 3, 2025 at 7:13 AM
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Trans people are outlaws, in the precise and technical sense that we are beyond the law’s protection. We might successfully stay alive for a little while, but all it takes is for one person to come after us and then all legal and institutional protections vanish instantly.
"It's too costly to stand up for you, but we pinky promise we have solidarity with you" is bullshit.

"We have no choice but to discriminate against you" is bullshit.

They could use their platform to spotlight Gender-Conservative hatred, or demonstrate actual commitment to their stated principles.
i hope every single person who still buys harry potter merch or engages with that franchise is happy that they're literally making girl guides cry

girl guides uk have been forced very much against their will to exclude trans girls. full statement is here: www.girlguiding.org.uk/information-...
December 3, 2025 at 8:31 AM
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Organizers say that interest in local, grassroots initiatives to meet community needs has been growing.
When formal systems stop working, neighbors turn to each other in what many call 'mutual aid'
Organizers say that interest in local, grassroots initiatives to meet community needs has been growing.
bit.ly
December 1, 2025 at 9:00 PM
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December 1, 2025 at 3:10 PM
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KOSA is never about protecting kids. It’s anti-queer and about making sure kids don’t have access to information they need to survive - from health basics to knowing they are not alone and not broken. And it will destroy the internet as we know it.
🚨‼️As of yesterday KOSA is at 64 cosponsors with @vanhollen.senate.gov + @kim.senate.gov - who claim to support LGTBQ+ rights but are clearly okay with supporting legislation that’ll censor us off the internet- newly signed on.

You know what to do: www.stopkosa.com
December 1, 2025 at 2:25 PM
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one insidious thing about gen AI is it's not just causing us to mistrust dodgy images, it's also making us mistrust images that look perfectly normal. this is gaslighting in a very literal sense bc the technology is undermining the trust we have in our own ability to perceive reality!
November 28, 2025 at 8:55 PM
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It really is precisely the inverse of how much work you actually are doing
The numbers in here are hilarious.

Do you use AI on the job?
Execs: 87%
Managers: 57%
Workers: 27%

Planned investment by 2030: $5T
"Necessary" annual revenue to justify that spend: $650B
Current annual revenue: $50B
Three years into the generative-AI wave, demand for the technology seems surprisingly flimsy
December 1, 2025 at 4:26 AM
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every trans person i see post about the OU suspension knows that the suspended target is trans & a grad student, & has an innate awareness that this is about purging trans employees. every cis person i see thinks the target is a rando professor & that this is about giving conservatives good grades
December 1, 2025 at 12:04 AM
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I was born in Oklahoma, I grew up in Oklahoma, and I spent most of my life in Oklahoma. I wish it didn't feel like it was impossible for trans people to build a stable and secure life there.
every trans person i see post about the OU suspension knows that the suspended target is trans & a grad student, & has an innate awareness that this is about purging trans employees. every cis person i see thinks the target is a rando professor & that this is about giving conservatives good grades
December 1, 2025 at 6:40 AM
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Time to invoice the telegraph for using my illustration, I guess
A game where you can do anything and they’re mad that people are doing anything.
November 30, 2025 at 12:30 PM
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the primary thing that TPUSA provides to young conservatives is a blueprint for weaponizing the abject cowardice of university administrators against individual teachers and instructors, and university admins should take a long look in the mirror and think about what that says about them
OU has put the professor here on administrative leave:
November 30, 2025 at 8:51 PM
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you have to be able to look bad faith in the eye and say absolutely not, even if that bad faith is coming from the highest levels of government

if you can’t, you do not - in any meaningful sense - have an institution, and all the kids who go there will learn is to weaponize bad faith themselves
this is just rank cowardice, the student very obviously disregarded the instructions and the assignment to antagonize her peers and instructors and provoke this exact reaction, society simply can’t function when the people in charge scurry like kicked dogs every time some troll bully says boo
November 30, 2025 at 9:37 PM
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we may not all be witches but it is important that we all watch out for signs of cackling, in ourselves and each other

these are hard times and things can wear you down more than you think, until the kettle on your head doesn’t seem like such a bad idea after all
November 29, 2025 at 7:23 PM
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Discworld QOTD, from Wintersmith
November 29, 2025 at 7:17 PM