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jace cavacini
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Trying to maintain a thread of realistic optimism. The anti-intellectualism, anti-science, ignorance, antipathy, sexism, racism, & corporate/authoritarian-bootlicking in my country terrifies me. And it's getting so much worse.

Facts. Art. Music. Empathy.
I love that a lot of people are seeing this for what it is: A participation trophy and a quite blatant Freudian slip of the evil involved.

A bunch of severed hands grabbing at an ocean-depleted Earth does not read as ”peace”.

War of the Worlds & zombie themes all over this fuckin’ thing.
in the movies this is the screensaver on the computers at the world’s most evil company
December 5, 2025 at 9:56 PM
I love that the party that initiated mockery of ”participation trophies” has to give one to Piggy because his solid slab of overt pathology results in a whole fucking so-called “political party” treating him like an 80-year-old TODDLER. The 25th amendment is RIGHT FUCKING THERE, but they’re cowards.
December 5, 2025 at 9:28 PM
I’m 100% vegetarian, but I’ve been kind of a lazy vegan this year. When people try vegan substitutes for dairy products, they often say “ew, that tastes weird”. I feel ya, because I’ve been dairy-free for so long that REAL DAIRY TASTES WEIRD to me now 😅
December 4, 2025 at 7:13 PM
Like cats, babies throw shit on the floor just to watch gravity work. Unlike cats, babies get EXTREMELY ANGRY at the outcomes of their own actions.

#RowHouseLifeSucks
December 4, 2025 at 6:49 PM
I just watched my fucking phone delete the letter o in the word “to” because I backspaced to AFTER the o and ADDED an ellipsis. After I hit the third period, it replaced the three periods with an ellipsis character as it’s supposed to… AND ALSO DELETED THE O, giving me the completely useless “t…”
December 2, 2025 at 11:31 PM
“…sits at #18,128 on Amazon's best sellers list…”

Tens of thousands of books is not a “best sellers list”.
December 2, 2025 at 4:28 AM
Goddamn, babies are filled with such HATRED.

At what age do they finally stop hating everything on a 24-hour/7-days per week basis?

(row houses are fucking awful; this was the worst life decision I ever made and I hate my psych-drugged self of 2005 for buying this place)
December 1, 2025 at 9:13 PM
Reposted by jace cavacini
if youre trans and youre struggling to justify why you as a person should be allowed to take up space in the universe just consider that by your sheer existence you make a lot of the worst people on earth mad enough that they will die early deaths from stress. so thats a p good reason
November 21, 2025 at 1:37 AM
My reaction to this is tears & outrage at the irresponsible fascistic regime that put our people in a fucked-up position they should never have been in. If we don’t acknowledge our shared humanity, what the fuck is the point of resisting tyranny??
Sarah Beckstrom's ex-boyfriend told NBC News she dreamed of becoming an FBI special agent.

She didn't want to deploy to D.C.

"She hated it. She cried about it."

But she started visiting monuments and museums and started enjoying it.

May she rest in peace.

www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news...
National Guard member killed in D.C. shooting remembered for 'heart of gold'
The slain soldier’s former boyfriend recalled her empathy and generosity. “She doesn’t even have to know you and she’ll do anything for you,” he said.
www.nbcnews.com
November 28, 2025 at 8:58 PM
Don’t know who needs to hear it, or if it’ll matter, but fighting enemies of freedom, of the constitution, of due process… DEMANDS we NOT BECOME the enemy via righteousness. Yes, “they” deserve due process. NO, murder isn’t “justified if it’s against THEM”. This shouldn’t be an unpopular opinion.
November 28, 2025 at 8:04 PM
Conspiracy theorists are toxic to civilization. This thread might not be surprising, but it’s fucking maddening for anyone who sincerely cares about the work a government is meant to do.
Being among the first interrogated and ultimately fired by DOGE, I certainly felt we were facing the business end of a right-wing conspiracy theory 🧵
DOGE was not a money-saving effort. It was an effort to chase down and prove right-wing conspiracy theories. They went after USAID to prove conspiracy theories about foreign aid. Then they went after SSA to, again, pursue conspiracy theories about Dems paying "illegals" to vote. 1/2
November 26, 2025 at 11:01 PM
Coughing is fucking EXHAUSTING

Every cold I’ve ever had is the worst at the lung (and Eustachian tube dysfunction) stage. Even bad sore throats don’t bother me as much.
November 26, 2025 at 9:45 PM
Reminder and PSA (because I keep getting shit in the mail and I’m not sure if it’s BS or not): Medicare Advantage isn’t really Medicare. I’m not sure if the shit I’m getting is about it, but it reeks of trying to sell me shit I don’t want, while looking like they’re being helpful.
Medicare Advantage: Last Week Tonight with John Oliver (HBO)
YouTube video by LastWeekTonight
www.youtube.com
November 26, 2025 at 9:27 PM
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I still can't believe these goddamn fools are trying to get into a patriotism dick measuring contest with a guy who was a combat pilot and an astronaut and space flight commander.
November 26, 2025 at 6:03 PM
Not one iMessage I sent my friend this morning ever went through. I finally closed & reopened the app on my phone and they all magically vanished. Six messages, just wiped from existence because ALL SOFTWARE SUCKS SHIT.

SMS w/my GF waiting for her mom in hospital luckily worked fine.
November 26, 2025 at 5:23 PM
Apple Watch Tip #1: If you need to quickly pause & unpause your workout, you can press both the crown & button at the same time.

Apple Watch Tip #2: No matter how firmly you press these buttons, nor how simultaneous the press is, the fucking thing will ignore it ⅓ of the time because tech sucks.
November 26, 2025 at 1:41 AM
The sheer nakedness of the Trump regime’s corruption truly lays bare the foundational lawlessness of the USA, so long as you commit crime while Republican (or rich, white, and connected, on average).
November 25, 2025 at 3:59 PM
A merit-based system would have no stock market. If you want to hollow-out a business, take it public; merit will be strangled pursuing a perpetual-growth fantasy.

In a culture glorifying the privileged and forcing average people to suffer, one default is *scheming to join the privileged*.
November 24, 2025 at 9:04 PM
Someone at BlueSky explain why I have to fucking rapidly click on the like button multiple times to get it to fucking register one fucking like!! This issue comes and goes, day in and day out.

The most BASIC SHIT doesn’t work in tech, yet we allow civilization to be run by more complicated shit.
November 24, 2025 at 8:04 PM
Ranked-choice voting is one of the things that could dramatically help correct our fucked-up electoral process.
Dems Eye New Way to Shake Up 2028 Primaries: Ranked-Choice Voting
Here’s how it could happen.
newrepublic.com
November 24, 2025 at 7:06 PM
I have zero sympathy for Congressional republicans, regardless of whether they feel threatened by Trump’s cult. They CREATED this environment; they’ve BENEFITTED from it w/connections & wealth. These melting snowflakes would rather act in selfish cowardice than responsibility to their own country.
PUNCHBOWL: “.. GOP members messaged us over the weekend saying that they, too, are considering retiring in the middle of the term. Here’s one particularly exercised senior House Republican:

@punchbowlnews.bsky.social
November 24, 2025 at 5:36 PM
But it WILL further the toxic culture loop that makes fucked-up & broken children, and it WILL put a life-breaking burden on the mothers who will be essentially single parents in these arrangements. Making children doesn’t fix broken people; it just perpetuates the cycle.
I promise you, the gaping maw of loneliness & a lack of purpose borne of the mismatch between the self you truly are & the one-size-fits-all mold of patriarchal masculinity will NOT be filled by subjecting a woman to pregnancy, childbirth, and unequal divisions of labor just so you can be a father.
November 24, 2025 at 4:05 PM
When was it, Eric?

It was always police state authoritarianism under a mask of security theater. It grew out of bipartisan post-9/11 insanity, and many of us already knew what it was back then.
They should change the name from "Homeland Security" because that's not their focus any more www.nytimes.com/2025/11/16/u...
Homeland Security Missions Falter Amid Focus on Deportations
www.nytimes.com
November 24, 2025 at 2:51 AM
Does anyone know when & why Newman’s Own fucked up their Newman Os sandwich cookies? They used to rock, now they suck. This is only the 2nd time the company disappointed me; last time they reversed course on shitty plastic bottles for sauce pretty quickly. Are they headed to shit like all companies?
November 24, 2025 at 2:09 AM