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WonderWench
@psygeek.bsky.social
A middle-aged human. Outside of work i’m a parent, spouse, book nerd and obsessive yarn hoarder and fiber artist.
I want a fresh bread candle. That smell of yeast and baking and goodness.
if you could turn one food item that is not already a traditional food-scented candle into a candle, which would it be?

I think mashed potatoes and gravy candles would slap
November 10, 2025 at 9:36 PM
Hey @reptimkennedy.bsky.social Why are you being silent about your senate colleagues betraying the American people? Stand firm and vote no on this no good deal for the American people.
November 10, 2025 at 4:40 PM
I’m not crying, you’re crying
"it will be felt by each new yorker when they feel that the city they love finally loves them back"
November 5, 2025 at 4:44 AM
I am now contemplating the different lethalities of region sandwiches: cheesesteak vs beef on weck vs primanti brothers
Cheesesteak is only effective if thrown while hot as melted cheese can do extra damage. Primanti Bros confuses non-residents when french fries eject from sandwich on inpact.
It's not in this article but the government asserts that the sandwich was thrown at "point blank range", which implies subway sandwiches have defined effective weapon ranges of varying lethality, and I would like to see the government's chart of these ranges.
Trial Begins for Man Accused of Lobbing a Sandwich at a Federal Agent www.nytimes.com/2025/11/03/u...
November 4, 2025 at 5:34 PM
Fuck the Post. My children’s local Auntie has been as important to them as any blood relation and is currently battling cancer. She’s shown up and loved my kids for over a decade! @ravensnpennies.com is my kids Uncle, as beloved as any blood relation, and helps take care of my kids.
no joke: this line of attack is racist.

MANY people from MANY cultural backgrounds use “auntie” and “uncle” for older relatives and even close family friends.

the NYP knows this. this is just bad faith racist bullshit parading as cultural ignorance.
October 28, 2025 at 4:47 PM
@mostlybree.kitrocha.com got our discord group to share our local food banks and talk about donating to them. It was a real joy to see how many of my pocket friends are kind generous people.

shout out to @feedmorewny.org and Hope and Joy food pantry in particular for their hard work locally
Food relief orgs can do a LOT with a little. $50 to the Atlanta Food Bank provides 150 meals. $100 to the Greater Cleveland Food Bank provides 250 meals. Anything you can share will go a long way. Never feel like your efforts are too small to make a difference.
Heartfelt thanks to those who supported their neighbors with donations to food banks. I wish I could match them all! I'm matching the first $1K and reposted all the orgs. If you're looking for ways to help, check my feed and let the example of these generous folks inspire you. ❤️
October 28, 2025 at 4:23 PM
Please my New York City humans, please vote for Mamdani. Especially for all of us New Yorkers who live in the state but not the City.
This is incredibly deep and I am tearing up.

Andrew Cuomo and Eric Adams are the worst of us.

Mamdani is one of the best.

When you vote in this election, whatever your faith, you are making a moral decision that will reflect on your character and your soul forever.
Mamdani: "I thought that if I could build a campaign of universality ... if I behaved well enough or bit my tongue enough ... it would allow me to be more than just my faith. I was wrong."
October 24, 2025 at 7:13 PM
Help out my friend @pezyes.lol with some basic income to survive this period of income instability and Pezluck. (Pezluck is invariably bad and appears to be an inherited curse from an ancestor mortally offending the Good Neighbors).

www.gofundme.com/f/putting-th...
Donate to Putting the Brakes on the Breakdown, organized by Linda T
Pez. Potato. PezNo. PezYes. To know Pez is to know joy and laughter and occasionally needi… Linda T needs your support for Putting the Brakes on the Breakdown
www.gofundme.com
October 14, 2025 at 3:20 PM
In honor of spooky month, share a 4 word horror story that only someone in your profession would understand:

Hand score a Rorschach
In honor of spooky month, share a 4 word horror story that only someone in your profession would understand:

"Sudden loss of communication."
In honor of spooky month, share a 4 word horror story that only someone in your profession would understand:

Archives banned making copies.
October 12, 2025 at 11:57 PM
So, given my absolutely silly dietary restrictions: gf everything bagel, toasted until the cut side is crispy, plain cream cheese, red onion, capers, lox, a squeeze of lemon juice, a grind of black pepper, and caviar if i’m being fancy.
A lot of your bagel orders are fine but remember we are talking about what’s acceptable to the NYC electorate and many of you would lose your election.
October 10, 2025 at 9:06 PM
Having worked criminal justice adjacent for 20 years (until I finally burned out) I endorse this 1000% Take money away from lunatics measures and invest in robust community mental and physical health clinics, remove barriers to medication and non medication treatment options
Punitive is pointless. You can't unmake the past with a slap on the wrist. Rehabilitation, as often as possible, as much as possible--that's what I think will help society. To prevent further harm. 4/?

I have just outlined what I think is a fairly reasonable approach to defunding the police.
October 9, 2025 at 3:37 PM
May every sentient being from the most divine to least, heed Rabbi’s prayer.
Mourning those murdered by Hamas isn't incompatible with mourning those murdered by the Israeli state.

Demanding that the hostages return isn't incompatible with naming & demanding an end to genocide.

Naming the power imbalance & impact thereof doesn't desecrate those murdered two years ago today.
October 7, 2025 at 4:59 PM
I will become the curmudgeonly ghost who you have a useful conversation with in a quaint out of the way coffee shop and then look up and realize I died a century ago.
Try to be a kind person in the world.
After that, be a forgetful ghost who haunts historic libraries, or a vengeful twig witch who stalks the dark heart of the forest, or something cool like that.
September 30, 2025 at 9:48 PM
THUDER AND LIGHTNING
VERY VERY FRIGHTENING

Ok, apparently today is color like Freddy Mercury day.
Your daily horoscope:
Approach today like a coloring book - either do what's expected of you, or make your own rules. Picture the sky purple. Color outside the lines. Become ungovernable.
September 29, 2025 at 4:26 PM
Gosh darn it! It better not be a bridge.
Aquarius: Today you will learn suddenly and first hand the importance of load bearing beams.
September 29, 2025 at 4:24 PM
100% boozy milkshake
Choose your drink:

1. boozy milkshake
2. stiff tea
3. gin & gin & tonic
4. cheap circus whiskey
September 27, 2025 at 2:54 AM
Do you want to punch fascists? Would you like to read about punching fascists, a robot donkey, shapeshifters, and a side of sapphic romance as a treat? SERIOUSLY THIS BOOK IS AMAZING!
For the remainder of September, COYOTE RUN is $9.99USD (and CAD!) in trade paperback, arriving with bonus sticker and (while supplies last) a delightfully profane postcard. Get your fash-kicking shapeshifter action now!
Coyote Run – Horned Lark Press
Our copies ship with a Horned Lark Press bookmark, antifascist sticker, and a postcard featuring the “Only Coyote” cover art by Phineas X. Jones, identical to this art but with a fake—and profane—blurb at the top.
hornedlarkpress.com
September 24, 2025 at 3:47 PM
I made a pendant. Copper wire wrapped around a teardrop shaped pale green variscite (amusingly named frog blossom) with a tiny lepidolite at the top
September 17, 2025 at 9:54 PM
Thread. And also, I’ve tried to be as open as I have the knowledge to be about the risks of radicalization online with my son. To discuss consent (sexual and otherwise) openly, to keep his main gaming computer in the living room, to only allow the kids limited (known) social media use 1/?
The idea that young men and boys are radicalized into violent misogyny by their role models isn’t new.

The thing that feels so scary about online radicalization is that none of us feel like we have any control over—or even knowledge about—the strangers radicalizing the boys and men in our lives.
September 15, 2025 at 4:55 PM
September 14, 2025 at 8:00 PM
Chaotic stubborn love wrapped in faulty biochemistry.
Doing a little exercise, and thought it might be interesting to see other people's answers.

Without saying anything about what you do for a job, who are you? How would you answer the questions 'who am I?'
September 13, 2025 at 2:27 AM
BEHOLD THE POWER OF CHEESE!
Aquarius: Cheese. That's all. Just cheese. You know what I'm talking about.
September 8, 2025 at 6:30 PM
I remember the original twitter thread and this is Torah (holy teaching) as far as I’m concerned.
Oh god, someone on a thread invoked “Light of the World” aka the Piss Christ and I am really tired and just got off a plane but my impassioned screed on it was on Twitter and as some of you know, I have FEELINGS ON THIS TOPIC.
September 2, 2025 at 9:40 PM
When I keep checking bluesky because everybody is just *waiting*.
August 30, 2025 at 11:14 AM
Oh yay, I think I still qualify with obesity and depression 😭
Reading the list of conditions that qualify you for an updated COVID booster, I think the easiest route for most people without an existing diagnosis will be "physical inactivity" because that's entirely self-attested, with the runner up being "I was a smoker for a few months a few decades ago"
FDA is authorizing anybody with a risk factor from this list to receive the vaccines, as well as anybody 65+.
August 27, 2025 at 6:48 PM