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🏳️‍🌈 Mother Of Exiles 🏳️‍⚧️
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Today is a good day to end Citizens United

⚠️🚨adhd posting ahead🚨⚠️

I'm doing my best goddamnit

Cringey mom to 2 kids
Pinned
Defending the oppressor while identifying as a victim and demanding change is endemic among liberals.
Nothing thins out the numbers of rich white men quite like polar expeditions
Y’all hear about this? I haven’t had a chance to verify yet but this is so cool if it’s real.
November 23, 2025 at 2:24 PM
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that's exactly right
November 23, 2025 at 2:18 PM
Don't be jealous of my boyfriends. They cuddle better than yours. 😌
November 23, 2025 at 8:05 AM
Why does he look guilty?
November 23, 2025 at 7:59 AM
I think part of what makes my ex an amazing programmer is what makes him not an amazing partner for me and I wish I could express that in a non-judgmental way. I know it comes off as both-sidsing things instead of owning my own shit. I still feel like I can acknowledge it without judging it.
November 23, 2025 at 7:43 AM
I like how my mom casually dropped a comment about how she told my dad off for never complimenting me or my sister and that he's a cold man and now I'm understanding that I CAN acknowledge the emotional abandonment of well-intentioned men who love/d me and how it's traumatized me.

Like...shit.
November 23, 2025 at 5:54 AM
As good a time as any to read my Big Book, I suppose.

I think it will hit different this time the same way love songs hit different after a heartbreak.

Reading the Big Book during a new kind of Rock Bottom is gonna be wild. Not alcohol but a codependent relationship and my history of trauma.
November 23, 2025 at 5:45 AM
Someone asked me today why I want to go back to AA even after over a decade of sobriety from alcohol. I told her it is because I need to do the steps.

I want to do them. Not to fix my life but to fix myself. To know myself. To see myself for who I am, who I have been and who I am yet to be.
November 23, 2025 at 5:39 AM
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Blue canary in the outlet by the light switch
Who watches over you
Make a little birdhouse in your soul
Not to put too fine a point on it:
Say I'm the only bee in your bonnet
Make a little birdhouse in your soul
November 23, 2025 at 3:23 AM
And IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIeeeIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
Will always love yoooooouuuuuuUUUUUUuuuuuuuu
It's been SEVEN hours and
fifteen days
November 23, 2025 at 3:12 AM
I had a friend over for coffee today. She's a former client. Her dog died so there is no more Jackson to groom but our friendship through him will survive and what better way to honor a pup but to keep up the human connections they helped facilitate?

It was so nice. My animals swarmed her, haha.
November 23, 2025 at 2:52 AM
Forgot to mention that while teaching the kids about Leonardo da Vinci, I was able to avoid the phrase "Renaissance Man." I also explained how artists had patrons who didn't necessarily pay for specific works to be produced but who financially supported the artist so they could create more freely.
November 23, 2025 at 12:04 AM
Wise advice.

Also, be sure to double-tap.
I don't have a TikTok but my friends always come through with the most relevant ones
November 23, 2025 at 12:00 AM
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This great thread makes a point I've been trying to convey for years. Calling all data-driven prediction or decision software "AI" is a huge gift to LLM hypemen, who want people to believe, incorrectly, that LLM data centers are crucial for solar forecasting or operating buildings and power grids.
Journalist challenge: Use “Machine Learning” when you mean machine learning and “LLM” when you mean LLM. Ditch “AI” as a catch-all term, it’s not useful for readers and it helps companies trying to confuse the public by obscuring the roles played by different technologies. 🧪
November 22, 2025 at 6:08 PM
When I was diagnosed with adhd, I was given meds. They helped but didn't cure me. When my child was diagnosed, I was asked to take a bunch of parenting courses for parents of adhd kids. That, along with Dialectical Behavior Therapy, helped me hone the skills medication allowed me to access.
There is no ethical way to research what “causes” autism. It’s an inherently eugenicist project. The only practical application for such research is eliminating #autistic people.
November 22, 2025 at 6:12 PM
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There is no ethical way to research what “causes” autism. It’s an inherently eugenicist project. The only practical application for such research is eliminating #autistic people.
November 21, 2025 at 11:15 PM
Why change society when you can push a subjugated class further underfoot? Psychology is a science but none of these guys know Carl Jung.
This post would have horrified me ten years ago. I would have clocked it as “anti-science.” But since then, I’ve seen enough to understand: Science is lovely, but the choice of what’s worth studying in the first place, & how we use that knowledge, is made by biased human beings with agendas.
There is no ethical way to research what “causes” autism. It’s an inherently eugenicist project. The only practical application for such research is eliminating #autistic people.
November 22, 2025 at 6:08 PM
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Vaccines save lives.

And no, they do not cause autism.
November 22, 2025 at 5:00 PM
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I just want to say this right now, if a person demands to see my or anyone else's genitals in the bathroom i'm putting their face in the nearest toilet and flushing
November 22, 2025 at 2:46 PM
Correct take
AOC on MTG retiring: "She's carefully timing her departure just 1-2 days after her pension kicks in and after making millions of dollars insider trading stocks for weapons manufacturers and others while in office."
November 22, 2025 at 5:54 PM
Lizza thinks he's so clever with his last lines but truthfully, it's like when you reach the end of driving past a horrific car accident and the road ahead of you is finally clear so you have no next move but to blink, process, and move on.
November 22, 2025 at 5:18 PM
Men cannot own their abusive pasts. That's why they continue to have abusive futures.
underrated bit of handwaving in the lizza blog
November 22, 2025 at 5:00 PM
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underrated bit of handwaving in the lizza blog
November 18, 2025 at 4:37 AM
Oh god yay 😑
good morning, logging on to catch up on what i missed on a serene autumn saturday morning
November 22, 2025 at 4:43 PM
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November 22, 2025 at 8:00 AM