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@joriebeez.bsky.social
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joriebeez.bsky.social
I can't believe I've been titless for a whole year.
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suicyborg.bsky.social
even more common than that though is the broader way that cis people will speak to trans men in a way they would absolutely never speak to an equivalent cis man (ie same age, race, social context, etc). usually it’s infantilising, but can also be hyper-critical of how we perform or “chose” manhood.
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suicyborg.bsky.social
the last thing we need is more misinformed comments from people who haven’t read what the guidance says (trans men can be banned from male and female spaces), appearance-based bathroom policing, “cis people can pretend to be trans to hurt women”, or total disregard for our safety for ‘gotcha’ points
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suicyborg.bsky.social
in the wake of the uk supreme court ruling, any of the variations on “so you want trans men in the women’s bathroom then?”, usually with a photo of a passing trans man attached. it’s meant to be allyship but it’s genuinely doing more harm than good.
joriebeez.bsky.social
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sandyernestallen.bsky.social
Trans guys: What are the most annoying things cis people say to you, regularly?
joriebeez.bsky.social
The one that silently begs me to agree with them so they can safely continue whatever their complaint is while patting themselves on the back for being a Good Ally.
joriebeez.bsky.social
Because the transvestigator brainworms invariably progress from "I never would have guessed!" to looking for The Signs™ and saying "Actually, now that I know, I can see it." And this often goes hand-in-hand with outing trans people as well.
joriebeez.bsky.social
I don't mind people close to me checking in about how I'm feeling/how it's going wrt transitioning (or even asking about being trans in general), but any comments on appearance however well-intentioned that just feed the transvestigator brainworms are an immediate "no" from me.
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diamondforger.bsky.social
Also a lot of cis people seem to operate under the idea that the moment you say you're a man you suddenly get access to unqualified male privilege. For example they think that because cis men make more money than cis women, if someone transitions to a man they just automatically make more money
joriebeez.bsky.social
Also when a liberal makes a general "men are trash" comment and then gives The Stare in horror that they now have to choose between misgendering me or saying "not all men."
joriebeez.bsky.social
The infantilization in general, but I specifically hate being called "handsome" in a tone of voice that suggests the cis person is talking to a small child or a pet dog rather than a man in his mid-30s.
joriebeez.bsky.social
snagged this fug bug super comfy loveseat for $75 today and Scuppers lives here now
a loveseat upholstered in faded red-orange fabric with a tiny tabby cat curled up sleeping in the middle of the cushions
joriebeez.bsky.social
did not intentionally plan to go to therapy on World Mental Health Day, but sure did a lot of Spider-Man meming with my therapist today
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maddavenport.bsky.social
Marking World Mental Health Day in the usual way (breakdown) 🫠
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keithwdickinson.bsky.social
Today is a day when arts degrees are worthless, but the product of those degrees is so valuable it would kill an entire industry if they were made to pay for it.
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kebrightbill.bsky.social
No, WaPo, we are not doing a repeat of creating social pressure for gay people to get straight married, and no, it's not, "redefining what it means to be in a relationship."

Also, could that kiss in the thumbnail be any more awkward?
He’s gay. She’s straight. They’re happily married.
Meet the couples who are redefining what it means to be in a relationship, including those in gay-straight and same-sex platonic marriages.
www.washingtonpost.com
joriebeez.bsky.social
I got like 4 hours of sleep last night and have not had any caffeine today, so I'm taking a gamble and getting a coffee before my three back-to-back afternoon clients. This will surely not backfire in any way.

(But I have blessedly been heartburn-free for three days, so I'm feeling frisky.)
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kissphoria.bsky.social
"Money said he froze his bill after feedback from constituents. 'For some of the people that I spoke with or that I heard from after I filed this bill, they have been transitioned for 10, 15, 20, 25 years, and they’re taking ongoing maintenance drugs.'
adrianashford.bsky.social
I also talked to D-FW lawmakers who have introduced bills recently related to gender transition. They said adhering to the Christian belief that there are only two genders is important for a healthy society. @dallasnews.com www.dallasnews.com/news/faith/2...
Why many Texas Republican leaders are concerned about gender transitions
Many of Texas’ Republican leaders say they’re concerned about people changing their bodies as part of a gender transition.
www.dallasnews.com
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tedmccormick.bsky.social
A striking thing about articles I’ve read claiming to “study the effects” of generative AI on student writing skills and consumption of information is that (1) they nearly always find the effects are negative and (2) most “conclusions” are still written assuming that we must use AI, for some reason.
joriebeez.bsky.social
I have found a soup recipe I am really excited to try for my birthday... I hope my friends like it too 👉👈