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Zoë, a humorless transsexual
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45 year old transfeminine aerialist living in the South Puget Sound. Sometimes I write, but not in some coy clever self depreciating way, I really should write more things. transmeds fuck off. Apostate academic. 21+, please.
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Thanksgiving is problematic. Giving thanks is not. As someone who wants to remember the attempted genocide of indigenous people but also likes a reminder to practice gratitude, I like to use Indigenous People's Month to support (and be grateful for) indigenous creators. A partial list! /1
November 27, 2025 at 2:55 PM
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We should be having awkward "hey, just making sure you know how to DIY" conversations with new trans people we meet the same way we used to have awkward "hey, do you know about safer sex?" conversations back in the day

Even if you don't DIY your hormones, you should know how.
November 26, 2025 at 4:16 PM
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To all the trans elders and late transitioners:

I thank you deeply for the visibility that made me feel less alone.

Knowing that others successfully navigated starting their transition in their middle or later years made my path feel supported & achievable.

Your presence made all the difference.💜
November 26, 2025 at 12:21 PM
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Spoke to my source familiar with internal workings at Mastercard. The holiday call campaign re payment processor censorship is working, there is a lot of pressure being felt from your calls. This is resulting in increased response times at a core moment for Mastercard due to the holiday season
November 24, 2025 at 5:05 PM
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We knew back then as well

From 1989. 😏
November 24, 2025 at 4:55 PM
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The most ascendant version of America is, unfortunately, in Dallas. I went there to see our future.
Part one: The megachurch.

www.hamiltonnolan.com/p/america-is...
America Is Becoming Dallas
Part One: The Lord of Plano.
www.hamiltonnolan.com
November 23, 2025 at 1:26 PM
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I heard there was a Cohen song,

And all the Christians got it wrong,

But you don’t really get the meaning do ya?

‘Cause you see its about getting laid,

It’s sex, and love, and Jewish faith,

But all the gentiles heard was “hallelujah!”
hey guys i made a seasonal meme
November 23, 2025 at 4:13 AM
pretty much every -ism. The wild. intense sexism was unbelievable.

the culture in academic physics, at least when I left in 2011, is just the worst
Been thinking a lot recently of the times I’ve tried to explain how fucked up physicists are to folks in Black studies who definitely couldn’t conceive of how bad things really were until they tried to interact with the physics department on their campus and realized they were unhinged
November 24, 2025 at 2:32 PM
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The only difference is that Musk is loud and unsubtle, so you can see the manipulation.
With other companies, the steering is cleaner, more polished, and more hidden behind “alignment,” “safety,” and “responsible AI” language.
November 23, 2025 at 7:48 PM
“And I chose queer joy. As a result of that queer joy I felt safe enough to pour my grief and pain and all that nonsense and joy and love into this incredibly beautifully written character. I am so proud of that and I just want to thank queer joy for that.”

www.avclub.com/golden-joyst...
Clair Obscur: Expedition 33 cleans up at the Golden Joystick Awards
Clair Obscur: Expedition 33 won seven awards at last night's Golden Joystick Awards, highlighted by Jennifer English's victory speech.
www.avclub.com
November 23, 2025 at 7:16 PM
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/2 I was less kind than I might have been. I lost my temper. I told him that only fools were looking for explanations based in normality, and that it was obvious to everyone who wasn’t deluded that we were in a completely abnormal situation.
November 23, 2025 at 6:14 PM
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help me get the word out about how this cis man is preying on trans people’s vocal dysphoria! 💀

tiktok post live now:
Please repost & share this to get the word out about how @Seattle Voice Lab allegedly had their work stolen by this creep. ☹️ I bought a book from him before figuring out he was a cis grifter. Did th...
TikTok video by Sage 🏳️‍⚧️
www.tiktok.com
November 23, 2025 at 6:51 AM
the purpose of the puberty blockers were always "give the parents time for this to sink in and not kick their kids out of the house"
as I said, puberty blockers were always a bad compromise, trans kids deserve HRT and the cis will never be happy either way so compromising with them on a solution that is bad for trans kids was always gonna backfire
And let's not even get started on the absurdity of looking for a positive impact from a preventative measure, where the expected outcome is "not getting worse"

Puberty blockers had no measurable impact on divorce rates, therefore ineffective treatment.
November 22, 2025 at 9:44 PM
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it ultimately didn't get made but there were plans for a House of Leaves sequel miniseries on netflix that went in a really weird direction. the pilot opens with Danielewski facing serious backlash over House of Leaves because it came out that Johnny Truant and The Navidson Record are actually real
November 21, 2025 at 9:23 PM
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Instead of "boots and suits" what history shows is that otg queer and trans folks are perfectly capable of organizing ourselves. That the most gets done, by far, when we also take the fight to the gentry within our own demographics, who would happily ditch us to secure their own positions.
November 21, 2025 at 4:33 PM
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A lot of clips of Sylvia Rivera's radical speech against trans exclusion at the 1973 NY pride leave out the prelude, where some of the organizers use "unity" as an excuse to try to shut her out... youtu.be/Jb-JIOWUw1o?...
November 21, 2025 at 4:12 PM
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The myth is circulating again that it was more radical otg activists and assimilationist gays ("boots and suits") teaming up that was responsible for queer communities' gains late '60s on.

The history doesn't back this up. What actually happened is more revealing. 🧵

Let's start with Stonewall...
November 21, 2025 at 3:50 PM
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Intentionally or not, he also got Trump to admit he's a fascist, which is a pretty big deal because it takes the wind out of people's sails when they claim this isn't fascism.
November 22, 2025 at 12:31 AM
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the first is unconvincing, because the 'realpolitik' here has been disastrous and won nobody nothing. the real sugar bigotry has frequently even failed the GOP, and the diet version from dems do even worse. beshear won in kentucky without flinching. was he not doing realpolitik?
November 21, 2025 at 8:14 PM
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this is really the big thing with congress, and frequently a problem that plagues those associated with congress (staffers, reporters, etc): how things are different behind closed doors, and the public just doesn't get it.

frustrated with the public... for not knowing things they won't share.
November 21, 2025 at 7:57 PM
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The CACKLE I let out
November 21, 2025 at 6:20 PM
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Wow! Jesse Welles performed his song “Join ICE” on the Colbert Show last night. 🏆
November 20, 2025 at 3:04 PM
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We have spent far too much time culturally with anti-heroes, been far too interested in the psychologies of history's worst creeps. Maybe they know not what they do, but it doesn't matter.

Of course you call them the bad guys: you're part of the transsexual marxist cabal deflecting the truth
November 21, 2025 at 5:09 PM
TFW you end up on a production support call first thing in the morning, and the only thing your brain wants to do is to make you sing the theme song to the Japanese dating show your family has been watching for the past few days.
November 21, 2025 at 5:03 PM