Can we talk about how I consider Sayonara Hitori to be my First Official Taemin stage because it was the first stage I saw him perform in real time (albeit through a screen) during SuperM’s tour
And it was my first official Taemin concert stage since I missed the opening.
"In any nonviolent campaign there are four basic steps: collection of the facts to determine whether injustices exist; negotiation; self purification; and direct action." --MLK
Many of us are planning on engaging in some form of the fourth step this weekend. It behooves us to pursue the third now.
lets be clear: my issue isnt and never has been that you "disagreed". I was actually having a convo and thought everything was fine until you accused me of being condescending and got snide with your wording. thats when I ended the convo so it wouldnt escalate.
unfollow me if what i say and do bothers you. idk what else you want from me. I dont post stuff to start shit with you but youre acting like I intentionally baited you. and ill prob be accused of being aggressive because I wrote too much, what else is new
so I dont know what I did exactly to make you angry at me or make you think that I'm attacking you. it was literally NEVER about you. and honestly I've been over this convo for an HOUR and im fucking triggered.
I dont know whats going on because this is twice youvve jumped onto a thread like this and it does NOT match up to the person I see on the tl the rest of the time, the one who talks about self policing and boundaries and psychology when it comes to kink & I enjoy interacting w
then when I END the convo (a boundary set) and post a general "hey dont follow me if this bothers you" post you jump onto HERE and snidely say 'ok but do you need to be rude about it'
and then when Ii try to answer your questions and explain my own words you IGNORE what i say and keep trying to loop back to one thing: "how was that offensive". basically, you are doing the thing you accused me of weeks ago, twitter argument baiting
it seems like you, personally, dont like it when I misunderstand something and write more than one post on it. the YOU jump into to lecture ME about how I'm misunderstanding (condescending, assuming you know the correct interpretation)
so if I just word vomit on my own account, thats not info dumping, thats not explaining, and I SHOULD be informative and explain and assume other people dont know this stuff. exactly like I did. only not like what I did because thats RUDE and condescending??
you mean like what I did here? and in the rest of the thread? "take a psych class" wasnt even AIMED at you and its meant genuinely--I WANT people to go take classes on these things and I wish it was required. its not some snarky comment
implying that if youre meant to do something you can do it naturally with no effort is ableist because there are people physically unable to do a thing "naturally" or fully and have to learn how to do it a different way.
again maybe that wasnt the intent. but its what I got.
the suckle or grip reflex in human infants is instinct. walking is a learned behavior (observe and copy). we are primed TO walk because of evolution but its still a thing infants need to TRY and repeat
