#degender
And as I always tell them: it's not for you! They degender cis WoC all the time! They're talking about you too when they're talking about us! Engaging in transphobia will not work for you because it was ginned up by white supremacists!
I know it's ever so slightly risky but this is kind of why I'm willing to take one for the team and make others look worse for it. It's sad when a marginalized person engages in hate, specifically transphobia here.
February 6, 2026 at 1:07 AM
Something I wish more ROV english translations did was commit to giving Oscar masculine honorifics because it makes the scenes where characters like Girodelle intentionally degender Oscar hit much harder imo
February 6, 2026 at 9:46 PM
Everybody suddenly gets really good at gender neutral language when there's a trans woman to degender.
January 31, 2026 at 6:04 AM
like sorry, me saying a lib is not a leftist is in your opinion nazi ideology and then you degender a trans woman?
January 30, 2026 at 2:48 PM
cis dudes will call trans women nazis for calling libs libs and then degender them, this is why cis dudes should not be trusted 🤷‍♀️
January 30, 2026 at 2:49 PM
Its so frustrating because denying them their gender IS taking a side, it’s not neutral to degender the people you’re writing about
January 30, 2026 at 1:21 AM
i firmly believe we can sufficiently degender bitch as it pertains to shitting on shitty people online
January 27, 2026 at 5:04 AM
she. just because you're a liberal doesn't mean you have to degender me
January 22, 2026 at 8:48 PM
degender, delete
January 20, 2026 at 11:27 PM
you can not like me all you want but when you start trying to degender trans women you don't like? that's when I call you what you are..

transphobe who will die alone 🫵😢
January 18, 2026 at 1:54 AM
"and this is why trans women are actually the oppressor and it's okay to degender them" bro why are your orcs and goblins unpainted? we agreed to play tonight why didn't you paint them? are you going to play with grey plastic like some idiot? why? I am not inviting you to warhammer night again
January 11, 2026 at 5:58 PM
Remembering the time that Bill Kezos was catching the coward's "theys." People really are sexist enough towards trans women that they'll degender a cis guy for having principles.
January 10, 2026 at 10:57 PM
Wears a full face of makeup and elegant dress that shows off my curves: "look at this cool trans person im gonna degender them so hard"

In no makeup, hair up, and buried in denim and camo: "hello miss lady girl can I please kiss you"
January 9, 2026 at 7:10 AM
Then Joe tried to degender a trans woman he was arguing with, and continued on being a Debate Pervert while I kept pointing back to the "Transphobic slurs are unacceptable regardless of whether the target is trans and regardless of if you think they did something bad"
January 8, 2026 at 12:31 AM
Wow people's calls to not "this person" or otherwise mis/degender trans women sure go out the window as soon as they're mildly annoyed with said trans woman.
January 6, 2026 at 3:46 PM
just wanna say that it’s trivial to find people degendering molloy with he/him as their pronouns and I don’t give a fuck how queer the furry community is, if you degender a trans woman in this
context you are the one in the wrong.
January 5, 2026 at 11:11 PM
I don’t give a fuck why you degender a trans woman.
January 5, 2026 at 11:33 PM
I don't think the former should have been driven off the site, but I also do think a lot of people who argue that point tend to degender the latter and act as if she is not also a trans woman and is instead some weird cis gamergate chud which is a pretty disgusting framing
January 6, 2026 at 7:40 AM
Well he refused to answer while continuing to degender the transfems he was arguing with so I'm gonna go with "Redditor with a humiliation fetish".
January 6, 2026 at 2:39 AM
so you start to see these long moralizing threads explaining why actually, maybe it SEEMS like we burned a woman at the stake for basically nothing, but really we were speaking truth to power or something.

(but they still make sure to degender her while they're at it.)
January 5, 2026 at 7:24 AM
Ok but that’s hilarious, you can’t just hold up banger skeets and say “how can I be in community with her”

skill issue maybe if you didn’t degender women while publicly giving yourself a wedgie you’d have more cool trannies in your life
January 4, 2026 at 9:36 PM
and this isnt me being "dysphoric" about not being seen as a "threat," it's frustration towards the way that others, including other trans people, degender + misgender me But Wokely
January 4, 2026 at 1:28 AM
Tbro: "It's so fucked up that so many trans men degender themselves in order to claim to be victims of misogyny and deny any privilege or power over women while implying trans women are men!"

Literally the same Tbro: "Boydyke, any pronouns ok"

Me:
a close up of a man 's face with showtime written on the top
ALT: a close up of a man 's face with showtime written on the top
media.tenor.com
December 29, 2025 at 9:26 PM
it is not, in fact, always polite to not assume someones gender and degender the way you refer to them. there are people who will feel slighted either way. you must accept that sometimes you will make people uncomfortable and your only recourse is to learn peoples genders before referring to them
December 24, 2025 at 5:08 PM
Their name?

Regardless of whether you're trying to misgender/degender someone, calling them "this person" is insulting
December 22, 2025 at 3:46 PM