🦋Tristra🦋
@tristra.bsky.social
Trans woman (She/Her)
Scorpio
Gunpla Nerd
Neurodivergent (AuDHD)
MASSIVE POTHEAD
Dorley fangirl
Scorpio
Gunpla Nerd
Neurodivergent (AuDHD)
MASSIVE POTHEAD
Dorley fangirl
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ALL THE WAY, book two of my trans lesbian cheerleader trilogy WHEN YOU FELL FROM HEAVEN, is now available for pre-order at Amazon for a release date of December 18th!
Paperback versions will be available on launch date.
Other stores sooon!
mybook.to/ALLTHEWAY
Paperback versions will be available on launch date.
Other stores sooon!
mybook.to/ALLTHEWAY
For a limited time, the preview text for ALL THE WAY, book two of my trans lesbian cheerleader series WHEN YOU FELL FROM HEAVEN, is available to all $5 and up patrons!
The final book will be available to buy in ebook and paperback later in December :)
www.patreon.com/posts/previe...
The final book will be available to buy in ebook and paperback later in December :)
www.patreon.com/posts/previe...
December 5, 2025 at 7:39 PM
ALL THE WAY, book two of my trans lesbian cheerleader trilogy WHEN YOU FELL FROM HEAVEN, is now available for pre-order at Amazon for a release date of December 18th!
Paperback versions will be available on launch date.
Other stores sooon!
mybook.to/ALLTHEWAY
Paperback versions will be available on launch date.
Other stores sooon!
mybook.to/ALLTHEWAY
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"girlguides had no choice but to exclude trans people!!! there's no way they could have showed solidarity!! "
meanwhile: *actual girlguides volunteers are quitting en mass following the announcement*
meanwhile: *actual girlguides volunteers are quitting en mass following the announcement*
December 5, 2025 at 3:53 PM
"girlguides had no choice but to exclude trans people!!! there's no way they could have showed solidarity!! "
meanwhile: *actual girlguides volunteers are quitting en mass following the announcement*
meanwhile: *actual girlguides volunteers are quitting en mass following the announcement*
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listen
I don't have any illusions about the United States military, what it does, or how many times this has happened before
but the fact that they sat there for 41 minutes, watched two scared, human beings desperately struggling to stay alive, and then murdered them has fucked me up so deeply
I don't have any illusions about the United States military, what it does, or how many times this has happened before
but the fact that they sat there for 41 minutes, watched two scared, human beings desperately struggling to stay alive, and then murdered them has fucked me up so deeply
December 5, 2025 at 2:33 AM
listen
I don't have any illusions about the United States military, what it does, or how many times this has happened before
but the fact that they sat there for 41 minutes, watched two scared, human beings desperately struggling to stay alive, and then murdered them has fucked me up so deeply
I don't have any illusions about the United States military, what it does, or how many times this has happened before
but the fact that they sat there for 41 minutes, watched two scared, human beings desperately struggling to stay alive, and then murdered them has fucked me up so deeply
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Absolute perfection that the author of "The Boy in the Striped Pajamas" is a transphobic pick-me gay
The Most Hated Children's Book
YouTube video by Big Joel
youtu.be
December 3, 2025 at 9:42 PM
Absolute perfection that the author of "The Boy in the Striped Pajamas" is a transphobic pick-me gay
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this feels like another iteration of the "what if I give a homeless man money and he buys booze" thing. So then he bought booze, so what, you are not his personal life coach. You did your bit now go live your life.
Balancing "no person with a disability should be denied accommodations" with "it's important to discourage non-disabled people from pretending to be disabled to take advantage of these accommodations" is really difficult and I don't have a great answer for what anyone should do about it.
December 3, 2025 at 3:40 PM
this feels like another iteration of the "what if I give a homeless man money and he buys booze" thing. So then he bought booze, so what, you are not his personal life coach. You did your bit now go live your life.
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I'm so serious, so many of our "problems" we're TOLD to focus on disappear the moment we do the cheap, efficient, thing with better outcomes - cheating to get access to medical care? Fuck you, medical care for everyone then. Cheating to get access to food and housing? HOUSING FOR EVERYONE.
December 3, 2025 at 5:36 PM
I'm so serious, so many of our "problems" we're TOLD to focus on disappear the moment we do the cheap, efficient, thing with better outcomes - cheating to get access to medical care? Fuck you, medical care for everyone then. Cheating to get access to food and housing? HOUSING FOR EVERYONE.
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anyway, everything sucks, so many consider reading my hopeful trans lesbian cheerleader book series (and, in doing so, supporting a trans woman and her wife who are stuck in England)
For a limited time, the preview text for ALL THE WAY, book two of my trans lesbian cheerleader series WHEN YOU FELL FROM HEAVEN, is available to all $5 and up patrons!
The final book will be available to buy in ebook and paperback later in December :)
www.patreon.com/posts/previe...
The final book will be available to buy in ebook and paperback later in December :)
www.patreon.com/posts/previe...
December 3, 2025 at 3:29 PM
anyway, everything sucks, so many consider reading my hopeful trans lesbian cheerleader book series (and, in doing so, supporting a trans woman and her wife who are stuck in England)
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There's not much left of the rule of law if organisations can be financially bullied into not asserting their legal rights. goodlaw.social/sb50
Excluding trans people won’t stop you getting sued | Good Law Project
Girl Guiding and the Women’s Institute have announced that they will now exclude trans women and girls after legal threats – but organisations can and should remain inclusive.
goodlaw.social
December 3, 2025 at 3:54 PM
There's not much left of the rule of law if organisations can be financially bullied into not asserting their legal rights. goodlaw.social/sb50
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Had fun muting and blocking a bunch of people who’s only response to the transmisogynistic WI is “trans men should join up en masse, that’ll show them”
No it won’t, you clown. You put your body on the line, stop offering up mine for a humiliation ritual that will do nothing for trans women
No it won’t, you clown. You put your body on the line, stop offering up mine for a humiliation ritual that will do nothing for trans women
December 3, 2025 at 1:31 PM
Had fun muting and blocking a bunch of people who’s only response to the transmisogynistic WI is “trans men should join up en masse, that’ll show them”
No it won’t, you clown. You put your body on the line, stop offering up mine for a humiliation ritual that will do nothing for trans women
No it won’t, you clown. You put your body on the line, stop offering up mine for a humiliation ritual that will do nothing for trans women
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you fight transmisogyny by *fighting transmisogyny*, not by playing games with cis people’s colouring-book comprehension of sex and gender
Had fun muting and blocking a bunch of people who’s only response to the transmisogynistic WI is “trans men should join up en masse, that’ll show them”
No it won’t, you clown. You put your body on the line, stop offering up mine for a humiliation ritual that will do nothing for trans women
No it won’t, you clown. You put your body on the line, stop offering up mine for a humiliation ritual that will do nothing for trans women
December 3, 2025 at 3:22 PM
you fight transmisogyny by *fighting transmisogyny*, not by playing games with cis people’s colouring-book comprehension of sex and gender
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"Respectful and understanding" - perhaps they were. I'm not. I don't think any of us should be. I think orgs that do this need to pay a heavy price for doing it. They're afraid of the power transphobes have: and so we must endeavour to build power of our own and to wield it uncompromisingly.
This part is *infuriating*. This cis woman heard an 80 year old trans woman say, 'This is the only place I've been respected as a woman IN MY LIFE.'
And did not immediately think, 'I will fight every inch like a dying badger to keep her in my organization.'
Absolutely pathetic.
And did not immediately think, 'I will fight every inch like a dying badger to keep her in my organization.'
Absolutely pathetic.
December 3, 2025 at 2:29 PM
"Respectful and understanding" - perhaps they were. I'm not. I don't think any of us should be. I think orgs that do this need to pay a heavy price for doing it. They're afraid of the power transphobes have: and so we must endeavour to build power of our own and to wield it uncompromisingly.
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I am so fucking tired of being told "We're sorry we have to strip you of dignity and exclude your kind ): Really it's so hard on us ):"
December 3, 2025 at 2:55 PM
I am so fucking tired of being told "We're sorry we have to strip you of dignity and exclude your kind ): Really it's so hard on us ):"
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Telling a targeted, hyperscrutinized, vilified population that you have no choice but to comply with mulching us is not a praiseworthy stance!!!!
December 3, 2025 at 7:14 AM
Telling a targeted, hyperscrutinized, vilified population that you have no choice but to comply with mulching us is not a praiseworthy stance!!!!
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just for anyone who lost track;
The inch bigots were given a decade ago has turned into several miles and my friends are suffering for it.
The inch bigots were given a decade ago has turned into several miles and my friends are suffering for it.
December 3, 2025 at 11:46 AM
just for anyone who lost track;
The inch bigots were given a decade ago has turned into several miles and my friends are suffering for it.
The inch bigots were given a decade ago has turned into several miles and my friends are suffering for it.
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Any organisation joining the persecution of transgender people in the UK does not get a free pass.
This is going downhill fast, and it will end in a dark place.
When this is all over, there must be no "we didn't know", or "we were only followng orders".
This has to stick to them forever.
This is going downhill fast, and it will end in a dark place.
When this is all over, there must be no "we didn't know", or "we were only followng orders".
This has to stick to them forever.
December 3, 2025 at 11:26 AM
Any organisation joining the persecution of transgender people in the UK does not get a free pass.
This is going downhill fast, and it will end in a dark place.
When this is all over, there must be no "we didn't know", or "we were only followng orders".
This has to stick to them forever.
This is going downhill fast, and it will end in a dark place.
When this is all over, there must be no "we didn't know", or "we were only followng orders".
This has to stick to them forever.
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The most black pilling thing is that most of the worst people in history and their enablers never see consequences for their actions. Most of them live blissfully until old age in wealth in privilege.
December 3, 2025 at 1:20 PM
The most black pilling thing is that most of the worst people in history and their enablers never see consequences for their actions. Most of them live blissfully until old age in wealth in privilege.
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Every trans person who is on a knife edge. On one side is employment for another day. On the other is whether a random transphobe posts "Ick, gross, trans person" with your picture and employer name, and it goes viral. You will get fired, from pretty much any company, if that happens to you.
When writing this piece, I kept thinking back to this Instagram post I saw from a trans woman the other day. This is what I'm talking about. Watch this:
December 3, 2025 at 2:30 AM
Every trans person who is on a knife edge. On one side is employment for another day. On the other is whether a random transphobe posts "Ick, gross, trans person" with your picture and employer name, and it goes viral. You will get fired, from pretty much any company, if that happens to you.
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today's been amazing for checking bios of people dropping the most hateful, dog shit posts I've ever seen & finding descriptions like "deep thinker" or "compassionate realist" or "enlightened soul"
feel like there should be some kind of licensing board to enforcing standards here?
feel like there should be some kind of licensing board to enforcing standards here?
December 3, 2025 at 5:46 AM
today's been amazing for checking bios of people dropping the most hateful, dog shit posts I've ever seen & finding descriptions like "deep thinker" or "compassionate realist" or "enlightened soul"
feel like there should be some kind of licensing board to enforcing standards here?
feel like there should be some kind of licensing board to enforcing standards here?
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UK Supreme Court: You're allowed to discriminate against trans people, but you don't have to
cis people: "well, our hands are tied"
cis people: "well, our hands are tied"
December 3, 2025 at 12:43 PM
UK Supreme Court: You're allowed to discriminate against trans people, but you don't have to
cis people: "well, our hands are tied"
cis people: "well, our hands are tied"
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there is a point in getting angry at every injustice, and whoever tells you it’s pointless is lying.
December 3, 2025 at 12:47 PM
there is a point in getting angry at every injustice, and whoever tells you it’s pointless is lying.
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Women's Institute have also folded.
They're a private organisation who can decide exactly who their members are and aren't. The SC only affects provisions of the Equality Act, none of which apply to this.
They've chosen to protect themselves from legal challenges at the expense of trans people.
They're a private organisation who can decide exactly who their members are and aren't. The SC only affects provisions of the Equality Act, none of which apply to this.
They've chosen to protect themselves from legal challenges at the expense of trans people.
December 3, 2025 at 11:01 AM
Women's Institute have also folded.
They're a private organisation who can decide exactly who their members are and aren't. The SC only affects provisions of the Equality Act, none of which apply to this.
They've chosen to protect themselves from legal challenges at the expense of trans people.
They're a private organisation who can decide exactly who their members are and aren't. The SC only affects provisions of the Equality Act, none of which apply to this.
They've chosen to protect themselves from legal challenges at the expense of trans people.
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"It's too costly to stand up for you, but we pinky promise we have solidarity with you" is bullshit.
"We have no choice but to discriminate against you" is bullshit.
They could use their platform to spotlight Gender-Conservative hatred, or demonstrate actual commitment to their stated principles.
"We have no choice but to discriminate against you" is bullshit.
They could use their platform to spotlight Gender-Conservative hatred, or demonstrate actual commitment to their stated principles.
i hope every single person who still buys harry potter merch or engages with that franchise is happy that they're literally making girl guides cry
girl guides uk have been forced very much against their will to exclude trans girls. full statement is here: www.girlguiding.org.uk/information-...
girl guides uk have been forced very much against their will to exclude trans girls. full statement is here: www.girlguiding.org.uk/information-...
December 3, 2025 at 7:13 AM
"It's too costly to stand up for you, but we pinky promise we have solidarity with you" is bullshit.
"We have no choice but to discriminate against you" is bullshit.
They could use their platform to spotlight Gender-Conservative hatred, or demonstrate actual commitment to their stated principles.
"We have no choice but to discriminate against you" is bullshit.
They could use their platform to spotlight Gender-Conservative hatred, or demonstrate actual commitment to their stated principles.
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I just don’t know how we’re meant to get through the weeks and do our jobs while sympathy essentially runs out because our torture has become routine
December 3, 2025 at 11:30 AM
I just don’t know how we’re meant to get through the weeks and do our jobs while sympathy essentially runs out because our torture has become routine
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The truth is that there are many good people in good institutions regretfully making the choice to sacrifice trans people because they fear for their own survival and their institution's survival...
...and it is incumbent on us to show them that their choice is not without consequence.
...and it is incumbent on us to show them that their choice is not without consequence.
December 3, 2025 at 11:04 AM
The truth is that there are many good people in good institutions regretfully making the choice to sacrifice trans people because they fear for their own survival and their institution's survival...
...and it is incumbent on us to show them that their choice is not without consequence.
...and it is incumbent on us to show them that their choice is not without consequence.