mamelby
@mamelby.bsky.social
Autist atheist author.
Bitter bigender bisexual.
Feminist fujoshi.
Polyamorous perimenopausal former-physicist.
Scandi-American pseudo-intellectual "she".
@triplebbooks.bsky.social
https://mamelby.wordpress.com
Binge watch skeeting at #crowtitsfujo
Bitter bigender bisexual.
Feminist fujoshi.
Polyamorous perimenopausal former-physicist.
Scandi-American pseudo-intellectual "she".
@triplebbooks.bsky.social
https://mamelby.wordpress.com
Binge watch skeeting at #crowtitsfujo
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mamelby
@mamelby.bsky.social
· Sep 1
Can't decide if you want to read a sweet MM roommate romance or a thriller with a vengeful villain you love to hate? Can't decide if you want to read campy queer fiction full of fun geeky references or an angsty exploration of trauma and mental illness?
HAVE I GOT THE BOOKS FOR YOU!
HAVE I GOT THE BOOKS FOR YOU!
One of these days I should use female pronouns for all the students in my class and feminize all the male names - citing the executive order that insists that gender was formed at conception.
See how well that goes over.
I just can't bring myself to do it though, cause it's rude.
See how well that goes over.
I just can't bring myself to do it though, cause it's rude.
If a teacher was calling a cis student the wrong pronouns or name it would already be an issue they'd be disciplined for! Suddenly though if the student is trans it's now Compelled Speech. These people need to use their brains instead of instantly accepting right wing narratives.
November 9, 2025 at 6:20 AM
One of these days I should use female pronouns for all the students in my class and feminize all the male names - citing the executive order that insists that gender was formed at conception.
See how well that goes over.
I just can't bring myself to do it though, cause it's rude.
See how well that goes over.
I just can't bring myself to do it though, cause it's rude.
I'm a little bit drunk right now.
SO!
REVAMP THE UNDEAD STORY
Thai, 2025, TV-MA, 10 ep of about 50 min, iQIYI
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
With Soju. I'm seriously a little fucked up right now. No worries. I only drink very occasionally - and this is such an occasion.
SO!
REVAMP THE UNDEAD STORY
Thai, 2025, TV-MA, 10 ep of about 50 min, iQIYI
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
With Soju. I'm seriously a little fucked up right now. No worries. I only drink very occasionally - and this is such an occasion.
November 8, 2025 at 3:47 AM
I'm a little bit drunk right now.
SO!
REVAMP THE UNDEAD STORY
Thai, 2025, TV-MA, 10 ep of about 50 min, iQIYI
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
With Soju. I'm seriously a little fucked up right now. No worries. I only drink very occasionally - and this is such an occasion.
SO!
REVAMP THE UNDEAD STORY
Thai, 2025, TV-MA, 10 ep of about 50 min, iQIYI
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
With Soju. I'm seriously a little fucked up right now. No worries. I only drink very occasionally - and this is such an occasion.
Drinking Lychee Soju with Elderflower tonic water and watching Thai BL - this is the way.
November 8, 2025 at 2:57 AM
Drinking Lychee Soju with Elderflower tonic water and watching Thai BL - this is the way.
btw -
Happy Cheney is dead and Mamdani wins.
Happy Cheney is dead and Mamdani wins.
November 5, 2025 at 4:59 AM
btw -
Happy Cheney is dead and Mamdani wins.
Happy Cheney is dead and Mamdani wins.
Alright - still grading papers - my go-to mind-break is:
Khemjira
Because Halloween or something.
Thai, 2025, 12 ep of about an hour, TV-MA, on iQIYI
Let's go! (And also get work done periodically cause it needs to get done this weekend.)
#crowtitsfujo
Khemjira
Because Halloween or something.
Thai, 2025, 12 ep of about an hour, TV-MA, on iQIYI
Let's go! (And also get work done periodically cause it needs to get done this weekend.)
#crowtitsfujo
November 2, 2025 at 7:15 PM
Alright - still grading papers - my go-to mind-break is:
Khemjira
Because Halloween or something.
Thai, 2025, 12 ep of about an hour, TV-MA, on iQIYI
Let's go! (And also get work done periodically cause it needs to get done this weekend.)
#crowtitsfujo
Khemjira
Because Halloween or something.
Thai, 2025, 12 ep of about an hour, TV-MA, on iQIYI
Let's go! (And also get work done periodically cause it needs to get done this weekend.)
#crowtitsfujo
People garden and knit and go fishing for fun - when they used to do those things purely for survival.
But yeah, I think most people want to feel useful and accomplished - somehow.
But yeah, I think most people want to feel useful and accomplished - somehow.
Surely you mean "useful work" like creative writing, composing music, forest bathing, making art, theatre, reading, long walks on the beach, checking in on friends, seeing what funny animals you see as clouds move across the sky -- actually living life instead dying slowly under capitalism, right?
Even if society provided the food/shelter level needs for everyone, humans also need to perform useful work just for basic fulfillment. The vast majority of people cannot sit around all day letting AI and robots do everything.
(The definition of “useful work” here is malleable but still essential)
(The definition of “useful work” here is malleable but still essential)
November 2, 2025 at 6:45 PM
People garden and knit and go fishing for fun - when they used to do those things purely for survival.
But yeah, I think most people want to feel useful and accomplished - somehow.
But yeah, I think most people want to feel useful and accomplished - somehow.
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Surely you mean "useful work" like creative writing, composing music, forest bathing, making art, theatre, reading, long walks on the beach, checking in on friends, seeing what funny animals you see as clouds move across the sky -- actually living life instead dying slowly under capitalism, right?
Even if society provided the food/shelter level needs for everyone, humans also need to perform useful work just for basic fulfillment. The vast majority of people cannot sit around all day letting AI and robots do everything.
(The definition of “useful work” here is malleable but still essential)
(The definition of “useful work” here is malleable but still essential)
November 2, 2025 at 6:24 PM
Surely you mean "useful work" like creative writing, composing music, forest bathing, making art, theatre, reading, long walks on the beach, checking in on friends, seeing what funny animals you see as clouds move across the sky -- actually living life instead dying slowly under capitalism, right?
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I was born in 1980, and people are shocked I was forced to use my right hand
I knew it didn't end with me, because those teachers didn't retire
But I wonder how long it went on
Also, fuck Brianna Wu
I knew it didn't end with me, because those teachers didn't retire
But I wonder how long it went on
Also, fuck Brianna Wu
Social pressure to be left-handed...
I was born in 1987, and when I was in elementary/primary school in the 90s teachers were still trying to force me to use my right.
I was born in 1987, and when I was in elementary/primary school in the 90s teachers were still trying to force me to use my right.
I already had the alt text for this Wu chestnut. 🙄
November 2, 2025 at 5:53 PM
I was born in 1980, and people are shocked I was forced to use my right hand
I knew it didn't end with me, because those teachers didn't retire
But I wonder how long it went on
Also, fuck Brianna Wu
I knew it didn't end with me, because those teachers didn't retire
But I wonder how long it went on
Also, fuck Brianna Wu
Oh ffs.
*Sigh*
*Sigh*
November 1, 2025 at 9:46 PM
Oh ffs.
*Sigh*
*Sigh*
Reposted by mamelby
@janefae.bsky.social in fighting form, and she is right. The “gender-critical” transphobes are fighting a war of elimination. The suspension of the EHRC “guidance” is an important victory for us, and the result of everyone fighting back against this tyranny and hate. We must keep it up. We will win.
What happens when a minority is forced to fight for its very existence?
Here's a lesson from history that the gender crits would do well to heed.
Here's a lesson from history that the gender crits would do well to heed.
November 1, 2025 at 4:43 AM
@janefae.bsky.social in fighting form, and she is right. The “gender-critical” transphobes are fighting a war of elimination. The suspension of the EHRC “guidance” is an important victory for us, and the result of everyone fighting back against this tyranny and hate. We must keep it up. We will win.
I have tons of work to do and I'm fucking tired.
But I know what I'm watching next (cause also, fuck SFW).
I'm the Most Beautiful Count
Thai, 2025, 13 episodes of about 50 min, TV-MA, iQIYI
Let's go (after I'm done preparing for work tomorrow)!
#crowtitsfujo
But I know what I'm watching next (cause also, fuck SFW).
I'm the Most Beautiful Count
Thai, 2025, 13 episodes of about 50 min, TV-MA, iQIYI
Let's go (after I'm done preparing for work tomorrow)!
#crowtitsfujo
October 30, 2025 at 4:40 AM
I have tons of work to do and I'm fucking tired.
But I know what I'm watching next (cause also, fuck SFW).
I'm the Most Beautiful Count
Thai, 2025, 13 episodes of about 50 min, TV-MA, iQIYI
Let's go (after I'm done preparing for work tomorrow)!
#crowtitsfujo
But I know what I'm watching next (cause also, fuck SFW).
I'm the Most Beautiful Count
Thai, 2025, 13 episodes of about 50 min, TV-MA, iQIYI
Let's go (after I'm done preparing for work tomorrow)!
#crowtitsfujo
Well, yet another counter-example to the Just World Fallacy.
Germaine Greer is still alive, and Björn Andrésen has passed away.
Germaine Greer is still alive, and Björn Andrésen has passed away.
October 28, 2025 at 1:18 AM
Well, yet another counter-example to the Just World Fallacy.
Germaine Greer is still alive, and Björn Andrésen has passed away.
Germaine Greer is still alive, and Björn Andrésen has passed away.
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And I would like to challenge this person to get a real job
October 28, 2025 at 12:03 AM
And I would like to challenge this person to get a real job
Oh lord.
I get misfiring transphobes all the time, but rarely do I get misfiring racists.
I get misfiring transphobes all the time, but rarely do I get misfiring racists.
October 28, 2025 at 12:04 AM
Oh lord.
I get misfiring transphobes all the time, but rarely do I get misfiring racists.
I get misfiring transphobes all the time, but rarely do I get misfiring racists.
It finally dawned on me why it bothers me *as much* as it does when folks imply that straight people at pride someone make pride less safe - and subsequently complain about bisexual women's supposedly straight boyfriends - because of course that's the focus. 🙃
Because homogeny = safety is a lie.
Because homogeny = safety is a lie.
October 27, 2025 at 9:56 PM
It finally dawned on me why it bothers me *as much* as it does when folks imply that straight people at pride someone make pride less safe - and subsequently complain about bisexual women's supposedly straight boyfriends - because of course that's the focus. 🙃
Because homogeny = safety is a lie.
Because homogeny = safety is a lie.
So, just found out that there is a *series*:
Red Moon Pact
Fox Spirit Matchmaker
Sword and Beloved
I saw Sword and Beloved and put it on my list, but had no idea it was part of a series.
Streaming services are really bad at letting viewers know that sort of thing.
Red Moon Pact
Fox Spirit Matchmaker
Sword and Beloved
I saw Sword and Beloved and put it on my list, but had no idea it was part of a series.
Streaming services are really bad at letting viewers know that sort of thing.
October 25, 2025 at 6:42 PM
So, just found out that there is a *series*:
Red Moon Pact
Fox Spirit Matchmaker
Sword and Beloved
I saw Sword and Beloved and put it on my list, but had no idea it was part of a series.
Streaming services are really bad at letting viewers know that sort of thing.
Red Moon Pact
Fox Spirit Matchmaker
Sword and Beloved
I saw Sword and Beloved and put it on my list, but had no idea it was part of a series.
Streaming services are really bad at letting viewers know that sort of thing.
Reposted by mamelby
Better a faggot than a fascist.
October 24, 2025 at 8:47 PM
Better a faggot than a fascist.
Trying to figure out what to watch next. I want to watch something I can watch at work during my lunch time.
In other words - NOT omegaverse - lmao.
Legend of a Female General? Why not?
China, 2025, 36 ep of about 35 minute each (nice), PG-13, on Viki
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
In other words - NOT omegaverse - lmao.
Legend of a Female General? Why not?
China, 2025, 36 ep of about 35 minute each (nice), PG-13, on Viki
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
October 24, 2025 at 3:39 AM
Trying to figure out what to watch next. I want to watch something I can watch at work during my lunch time.
In other words - NOT omegaverse - lmao.
Legend of a Female General? Why not?
China, 2025, 36 ep of about 35 minute each (nice), PG-13, on Viki
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
In other words - NOT omegaverse - lmao.
Legend of a Female General? Why not?
China, 2025, 36 ep of about 35 minute each (nice), PG-13, on Viki
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
Why not?
PIT BABE II
(I'm pretty sure I haven't watched it yet.)
Thai, 2025, TV-MA, 13 episodes of about 50 minutes each, on iQIYI.
I watched the first one a long time ago before I knew that the "omegaverse" was a thing - lmao.
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
PIT BABE II
(I'm pretty sure I haven't watched it yet.)
Thai, 2025, TV-MA, 13 episodes of about 50 minutes each, on iQIYI.
I watched the first one a long time ago before I knew that the "omegaverse" was a thing - lmao.
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
October 20, 2025 at 10:50 PM
Why not?
PIT BABE II
(I'm pretty sure I haven't watched it yet.)
Thai, 2025, TV-MA, 13 episodes of about 50 minutes each, on iQIYI.
I watched the first one a long time ago before I knew that the "omegaverse" was a thing - lmao.
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
PIT BABE II
(I'm pretty sure I haven't watched it yet.)
Thai, 2025, TV-MA, 13 episodes of about 50 minutes each, on iQIYI.
I watched the first one a long time ago before I knew that the "omegaverse" was a thing - lmao.
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
My plan is - one episode - grade 10 papers - watch another episode - grade 10 papers ---
Desire: The Series
Taiwan, 2025, 16 ep of about 50 min, rated R, on Viki
Let's go!
#Crowtitsfujo
Desire: The Series
Taiwan, 2025, 16 ep of about 50 min, rated R, on Viki
Let's go!
#Crowtitsfujo
October 18, 2025 at 7:49 PM
My plan is - one episode - grade 10 papers - watch another episode - grade 10 papers ---
Desire: The Series
Taiwan, 2025, 16 ep of about 50 min, rated R, on Viki
Let's go!
#Crowtitsfujo
Desire: The Series
Taiwan, 2025, 16 ep of about 50 min, rated R, on Viki
Let's go!
#Crowtitsfujo
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Reminder:
when I spoke at the anti-Trump demo in Parliament Square last month, the biggest cheer I got was when I said that transphobia is fascism.
All transphobes, including the “nice”, middle-class “gender-critical” ones, are fascists.
Every. Single. One.
when I spoke at the anti-Trump demo in Parliament Square last month, the biggest cheer I got was when I said that transphobia is fascism.
All transphobes, including the “nice”, middle-class “gender-critical” ones, are fascists.
Every. Single. One.
The @newsagents.bsky.social framed the ADF’s growing presence in the UK as a surprising new export from the US, when they've been infiltrating the UK for YEARS!
It's willful blindness/ hypocricy by journalists who have amplified the transphobic narratives that opened the door to these groups!
It's willful blindness/ hypocricy by journalists who have amplified the transphobic narratives that opened the door to these groups!
"The ADF has chosen Nigel Farage to focus on, building up this ally who has the potential to be a JD Vance-like figure in the future."
Can the Christian group that influenced the overturning of Roe v. Wade bring its extreme views to the UK?
www.thenewsagents.co.uk/article/is-n...
Can the Christian group that influenced the overturning of Roe v. Wade bring its extreme views to the UK?
www.thenewsagents.co.uk/article/is-n...
October 18, 2025 at 6:31 AM
Reminder:
when I spoke at the anti-Trump demo in Parliament Square last month, the biggest cheer I got was when I said that transphobia is fascism.
All transphobes, including the “nice”, middle-class “gender-critical” ones, are fascists.
Every. Single. One.
when I spoke at the anti-Trump demo in Parliament Square last month, the biggest cheer I got was when I said that transphobia is fascism.
All transphobes, including the “nice”, middle-class “gender-critical” ones, are fascists.
Every. Single. One.
Reposted by mamelby
⚖️🏳️⚧️ WIN: High Court rules that a trans man cannot be denied a gender recognition certificate because he is trying to conceive, in an important win supported by Good Law Project.
https://goodlaw.social/5k9b
https://goodlaw.social/5k9b
WIN: Victory in landmark case on gender recognition
High Court rules that a trans man cannot be denied a Gender Recognition Certificate because he is trying to conceive, in an important win supported by Good Law Project.
goodlaw.social
October 17, 2025 at 1:00 PM
⚖️🏳️⚧️ WIN: High Court rules that a trans man cannot be denied a gender recognition certificate because he is trying to conceive, in an important win supported by Good Law Project.
https://goodlaw.social/5k9b
https://goodlaw.social/5k9b
I'm being bad.
CENTURY OF LOVE
Thai, 2025, 10 ep of about an hour, TV-MA, iQIYI
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
CENTURY OF LOVE
Thai, 2025, 10 ep of about an hour, TV-MA, iQIYI
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
October 16, 2025 at 7:39 AM
I'm being bad.
CENTURY OF LOVE
Thai, 2025, 10 ep of about an hour, TV-MA, iQIYI
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
CENTURY OF LOVE
Thai, 2025, 10 ep of about an hour, TV-MA, iQIYI
Let's go!
#crowtitsfujo
OH FFS.
SCIENCE POLICY NEWS:
During Yom Kippur, all the members of the High Energy Physics Advisory Committee (HEPAP), myself included, received a letter thanking us for our service and telling us essentially that the almost 40 yo standing federal advisory committee was no more. ⚛️🧪🔭
Why that matters 🧵
During Yom Kippur, all the members of the High Energy Physics Advisory Committee (HEPAP), myself included, received a letter thanking us for our service and telling us essentially that the almost 40 yo standing federal advisory committee was no more. ⚛️🧪🔭
Why that matters 🧵
DOE Consolidates Office of Science Advisory Committees
Six long-standing committees advising the Department of Energy’s Office of Science have been rolled into one.
www.aip.org
October 15, 2025 at 8:07 PM
OH FFS.
Happy Coming Out Day!
I'm not coming out to my family. Nope.
This ends my annual Coming Out Day ritual.
I'm not coming out to my family. Nope.
This ends my annual Coming Out Day ritual.
October 11, 2025 at 7:56 PM
Happy Coming Out Day!
I'm not coming out to my family. Nope.
This ends my annual Coming Out Day ritual.
I'm not coming out to my family. Nope.
This ends my annual Coming Out Day ritual.