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mamelby
@mamelby.bsky.social
Autist atheist author.
Bitter bigender bisexual.
Feminist fujoshi.
Polyamorous perimenopausal former-physicist.
Scandi-American pseudo-intellectual "she".

@triplebbooks.bsky.social
https://mamelby.wordpress.com

Binge watch skeeting at #crowtitsfujo
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Can't decide if you want to read a sweet MM roommate romance or a thriller with a vengeful villain you love to hate? Can't decide if you want to read campy queer fiction full of fun geeky references or an angsty exploration of trauma and mental illness?

HAVE I GOT THE BOOKS FOR YOU!
I lost the game.
Okay, this may not be precisely as intended, but while Gabby certainly talks about playing video games a lot, there's too many spoilers around the sections where xe's actually playing XD

This is a scene where he's (and his partners are) getting to know Dan.

#SFFChat
December 5, 2025 at 3:21 AM
This is so fuckng enraging.
December 3, 2025 at 6:23 AM
I'm being a very bad girl because I have stuff I need to get done by tomorrow - but I just *work all the time* - so I watch episodes when I need a break.

How about:

THE WICKED GAME

Thai, 2025, 10 ep of about 50 min, TV-MA, on iQIYI

#BLseries from One31

Let's go!

#crowtitsfujo
December 2, 2025 at 5:32 AM
I laughed very, very hard.

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December 2, 2025 at 12:54 AM
So - came across this today.

I guess I'm just gonna go raid some Irish pubs, slaughter everyone and steal their money, then go across the street and set up a protection racket, after that, I'll kill some human sacrifices by [censored gory details] and tie them to trees.

Because Scandinavia.
Stephen Miller is now arguing that assimilation is fundamentally impossible and that certain cultures are not compatible with Western civilization
December 1, 2025 at 10:53 PM
In my experience, this is also true of people who make *being moral* a huge part of their identity due to being religious.

When the winds change - so do their "strongly held beliefs".
I thought about this a lot when we saw a rapid shift in public opinion on same sex marriage after Obama publicly flipped.

I don’t like the idea of 70% of people being moral vacuums, but it could explain rapid shifts in democracy, etc. we see today./end
November 28, 2025 at 8:44 PM
What should I watch next? I'm thinking - Whispers of Fate?!?

Why not? It's SUPER POPULAR.

China, 2025, 40 ep of about 45 mins or so, TV-PG, iQIYI

Let's go!

#Crowtitsfujo
November 25, 2025 at 9:57 PM
So-So having fun.

youtu.be/vJQ3mTumZcQ?...
WING - Dopamine (SO-SO Remix) [Official Audio]
YouTube video by SO-SO
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November 24, 2025 at 9:54 PM
Jesus Christ. My friends are moving to New Zealand to make a better life for their trans child.

And guess what New Zealand just did.

It's absolutely infuriating.

www.nbcnews.com/world/asia/n...
New Zealand halts new puberty blockers for young transgender people
The step comes amid growing global debate between those concerned about hastiness in prescribing such medications and those who say they are lifesaving.
www.nbcnews.com
November 22, 2025 at 10:50 PM
Okay - now for something different - change of pace - and something I can watch at work.

The Legend of Anle

China, 2023, 39 episodes of about 45 mins, TV-13, on Viki

With one of the guys from Word of Honor as an MC, but with a female lead.

Let's go!

#crowtitsfujo
November 16, 2025 at 6:54 AM
Me: Huh - I wonder why Joyce Carol Oates is trending. I hope she didn't pass away or something.

*clicks on the trending link*

Also Me: 😆

Best. Reason. Ever.
November 11, 2025 at 6:46 AM
I just watched:

I'm The Most Beautiful Count from CHANGE2561
Khemjira from Domundi
and
Revamp the Undead Story from GMMTV

So, obviously, I need to watch The Sign from Idolfactory

It's like ordering a flight of drinks.

Thai, 2025, TV-MA, 13 ep of about an hour, on iQIYI

Let's go!

#crowtitsfujo
November 11, 2025 at 3:48 AM
One of these days I should use female pronouns for all the students in my class and feminize all the male names - citing the executive order that insists that gender was formed at conception.

See how well that goes over.

I just can't bring myself to do it though, cause it's rude.
If a teacher was calling a cis student the wrong pronouns or name it would already be an issue they'd be disciplined for! Suddenly though if the student is trans it's now Compelled Speech. These people need to use their brains instead of instantly accepting right wing narratives.
November 9, 2025 at 6:20 AM
I'm a little bit drunk right now.

SO!

REVAMP THE UNDEAD STORY

Thai, 2025, TV-MA, 10 ep of about 50 min, iQIYI

Let's go!

#crowtitsfujo

With Soju. I'm seriously a little fucked up right now. No worries. I only drink very occasionally - and this is such an occasion.
November 8, 2025 at 3:47 AM
Drinking Lychee Soju with Elderflower tonic water and watching Thai BL - this is the way.
November 8, 2025 at 2:57 AM
btw -

Happy Cheney is dead and Mamdani wins.
November 5, 2025 at 4:59 AM
Alright - still grading papers - my go-to mind-break is:

Khemjira

Because Halloween or something.

Thai, 2025, 12 ep of about an hour, TV-MA, on iQIYI

Let's go! (And also get work done periodically cause it needs to get done this weekend.)

#crowtitsfujo
November 2, 2025 at 7:15 PM
People garden and knit and go fishing for fun - when they used to do those things purely for survival.

But yeah, I think most people want to feel useful and accomplished - somehow.
Surely you mean "useful work" like creative writing, composing music, forest bathing, making art, theatre, reading, long walks on the beach, checking in on friends, seeing what funny animals you see as clouds move across the sky -- actually living life instead dying slowly under capitalism, right?
Even if society provided the food/shelter level needs for everyone, humans also need to perform useful work just for basic fulfillment. The vast majority of people cannot sit around all day letting AI and robots do everything.

(The definition of “useful work” here is malleable but still essential)
November 2, 2025 at 6:45 PM
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Surely you mean "useful work" like creative writing, composing music, forest bathing, making art, theatre, reading, long walks on the beach, checking in on friends, seeing what funny animals you see as clouds move across the sky -- actually living life instead dying slowly under capitalism, right?
Even if society provided the food/shelter level needs for everyone, humans also need to perform useful work just for basic fulfillment. The vast majority of people cannot sit around all day letting AI and robots do everything.

(The definition of “useful work” here is malleable but still essential)
November 2, 2025 at 6:24 PM
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I was born in 1980, and people are shocked I was forced to use my right hand

I knew it didn't end with me, because those teachers didn't retire

But I wonder how long it went on

Also, fuck Brianna Wu
Social pressure to be left-handed...

I was born in 1987, and when I was in elementary/primary school in the 90s teachers were still trying to force me to use my right.
November 2, 2025 at 5:53 PM
Oh ffs.

*Sigh*
Go fuck yourself
November 1, 2025 at 9:46 PM
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@janefae.bsky.social in fighting form, and she is right. The “gender-critical” transphobes are fighting a war of elimination. The suspension of the EHRC “guidance” is an important victory for us, and the result of everyone fighting back against this tyranny and hate. We must keep it up. We will win.
What happens when a minority is forced to fight for its very existence?

Here's a lesson from history that the gender crits would do well to heed.
November 1, 2025 at 4:43 AM
I have tons of work to do and I'm fucking tired.

But I know what I'm watching next (cause also, fuck SFW).

I'm the Most Beautiful Count

Thai, 2025, 13 episodes of about 50 min, TV-MA, iQIYI

Let's go (after I'm done preparing for work tomorrow)!

#crowtitsfujo
October 30, 2025 at 4:40 AM
Well, yet another counter-example to the Just World Fallacy.

Germaine Greer is still alive, and Björn Andrésen has passed away.
October 28, 2025 at 1:18 AM
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And I would like to challenge this person to get a real job
Gaines: I want to challenge AOC to a debate.
October 28, 2025 at 12:03 AM