L Deanna Grey 🏳️‍⚧️
eldygrey.bsky.social
L Deanna Grey 🏳️‍⚧️
@eldygrey.bsky.social
People Leader | Ex-Software Developer living in People Ops | International Speaker and Podcast Guest | Lesbian Mother to 3 and wife to 1. Looking to emigrate from the US. Looking for work.
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I think about this so much.

He was so kind. He was soft. He said I love you and cried at gifts.

Now he has stickers in his windows with guns That say “We don’t call the cops here”. And then waltzes into church on Sunday.
Why I believe “capitalism is the only system that works” is the stupidest garbage.

So many foreign countries invaded, extracted, murdered for our economy.

That’s not a system that works.
it’s always obviously about oil
January 4, 2026 at 9:52 PM
Fuck every single person that tried to gaslight me into believing Trump can’t be that bad.
January 4, 2026 at 6:11 AM
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I wrote about Grok's CSAM problem and how journalists keep fumbling the story

www.readtpa.com/p/grok-cant-...
Grok Can't Apologize. Grok Isn't Sentient. So Why Do Headlines Keep Saying It Did?
Elon Musk’s chatbot has been “undressing” women and children in public. Journalists are letting xAI off the hook by pretending the bot is responsible.
www.readtpa.com
January 2, 2026 at 5:58 PM
One of the best parts of HRT is how gaining weight is affirming…maybe even euphoric.

My thighs get thicker, my whole torso gets a little wider.

Being able to gain my Christmas weight without it sending me spiraling is magic.

Yeah,I still have the 90s anti-fat propaganda in my head…but…🤷‍♀️
January 2, 2026 at 6:45 PM
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Serious thing for folks to consider is, particularly for marginalized people, Grudges Are Self-Defense. What you may be interpreting as pettiness is probably closer aligned to "You have demonstrated you're not to be trusted." And knowing who REALLY has your back is more important that ever.
I feel in my bones that the wave has started to crash back in and Certain People/Companies who thought they were safe to abandon everyone they’d been pretending to care about will suddenly realize that those people have money/power and I, for one, will be holding a grudge until the end of time 💜
January 2, 2026 at 5:43 AM
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I mean, let's talk about the obvious.
December 30, 2025 at 10:52 PM
CW: Sexy stuff

The wifey and I have been focusing on not centering sex and orgasm as the highest means of intimacy, and yall, it’s incredible.

The ability to reacquaint, or just get acquainted, with each other’s body is beautiful. It’s breathing life into our relationship.

Go lesbians!
December 30, 2025 at 6:31 PM
The Sneetches with stars upon thars are better than you are…

youtu.be/VohyMXB4FLo?...

Anyone that’s trying to sell you that there’s a right way to be American is either a fool, or believes you to be one.
December 30, 2025 at 2:53 AM
It’s holding onto the simple things that get me through the days.
China is getting rid of retractable door handles, while the EU is getting rid of essential controls hidden in touch screen menus.
The world is healing. ♥️
December 29, 2025 at 5:11 AM
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December 28, 2025 at 1:56 AM
Why am I so scared to just hang out with a new old friend to meet new friends?

When did I get so scared of social situations.

Oh yeah...

*Magic hands*
~~~transition~~~
*/magic hands*
December 29, 2025 at 4:54 AM
The most transparent presidency, everyone!!

JFC
So the "most transparent president in history" won't let Jack Smith's testimony become public. He's got them holding back tens of thousands of Epstein documents, haven't seen his taxes, his school records, and no one knows why the East Wing was destroyed before he even had ballroom plans. Yeah.
December 20, 2025 at 1:03 AM
The most transparent presidency, everyone!

JFC
The Epstein Files, everybody!
December 20, 2025 at 1:00 AM
He sounds exactly like the developers that I told back in 2019 that AI was coming for their jobs.

“No they’re automating menial jobs like McDonald’s”

“That sounds like a terrible idea. Why try and automate someone making $12/hr when you can automate someone making $60/hr.

And here we are.
for those that wanted to see the clip of him being genuinely annoyed at the suggestion ai podcasts are good after he spends time glazing ai music lol
December 16, 2025 at 3:57 PM
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The tragedy of Rob and Michelle’s deaths are incomprehensible.

I’m hearing Rob’s voice telling us all to do more, to repair the human soul, to repair our hearts, to repair our country, to repair our world, to keep fighting, to keep living for every soul taken from this earth.
December 16, 2025 at 5:44 AM
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Rob Reiner was a good guy. He made a lot of movies about good guys, in worlds where not everyone was good and you didn’t have to be good. He made movies about people trying. He was angry, as many hopeful people are. He knew the world could be better and he wanted it to be. His death is devastating.
December 15, 2025 at 3:52 AM
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Sounds about right.
December 15, 2025 at 12:38 PM
This is so scary
December 14, 2025 at 3:39 AM
Is this why the Utah Republicans are fighting so hard for the unfair maps that break the law?

Hmmmm…

And republicans will still vote for republicans
This should be the biggest story in the country right now. The sitting US President was extorting state lawmakers from his own party by threatening to withhold public money if they didn’t gerrymander for him.

I don’t know how else to say it…
December 12, 2025 at 4:05 PM
All so that capitalists could bring us to this point that they warned us would happen if communism won.
People do not want to think about the fact that America did to North Korea what Israel is doing to Palestine.
December 10, 2025 at 5:05 AM
But states rights
That's called a Dictatorship.
December 10, 2025 at 3:06 AM
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EVs beat petrol cars on lifetime emissions — even on “dirty” grids.
Battery production is carbon-intensive, but EVs quickly repay that debt and end up 21–71% cleaner over 250,000 km.

We can’t wait for perfect grids: electrify transport and clean the grid now.
December 8, 2025 at 9:00 PM
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I’ll be fine. 😭 Hamnet is of the most beautifully devastating movies I’ve seen in years. Deserving of so many awards, but Jessie Buckley will definitely be sweeping Best Actress this year, as she kept my tears flowing throughout the entire second half. Paul Mescal is brilliant as well. #FilmSky
December 7, 2025 at 10:39 PM
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Mornin', folks.
December 8, 2025 at 2:57 PM
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160 years ago today, the 13th Amendment was ratified to end slavery, with one major exception: punishment for a crime.

The legacy of slavery lives on as people behind bars are still coerced into working for mere pennies or nothing at all.

It's long overdue to abolish slavery in all its forms.
December 6, 2025 at 4:40 PM