Kate Sloan (she/her)
@katesloan.com
📚 Author KateWritesAboutSex.com
🍆 Sex toy reviewer GirlyJuice.net
🎙️ Sex podcaster TheDildorks.com
🪄 Vibrator nerd MakingMagicSeries.com
🎶 Songwriter KateSloan.Bandcamp.com
📍 Brooklyn + sometimes Toronto
🍆 Sex toy reviewer GirlyJuice.net
🎙️ Sex podcaster TheDildorks.com
🪄 Vibrator nerd MakingMagicSeries.com
🎶 Songwriter KateSloan.Bandcamp.com
📍 Brooklyn + sometimes Toronto
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Kate Sloan (she/her)
@katesloan.com
· Nov 19
li’l introductory thread since a bunch of you folks just followed me (hi!):
I’m Kate Sloan, a writer/podcaster specializing in sex, kink, dating & relationships.
I’m a bi/queer cis femme woman from Toronto, and my pronouns are she/her. 👋🏻
I’m Kate Sloan, a writer/podcaster specializing in sex, kink, dating & relationships.
I’m a bi/queer cis femme woman from Toronto, and my pronouns are she/her. 👋🏻
Anybody got suggestions for sex-nerdy things to do/places to go in the L.A./Burbank area?
Already gonna check out the Pleasure Chest location over there; not sure what else to look into. (I'll be there in late January)
Already gonna check out the Pleasure Chest location over there; not sure what else to look into. (I'll be there in late January)
December 9, 2025 at 8:20 PM
Anybody got suggestions for sex-nerdy things to do/places to go in the L.A./Burbank area?
Already gonna check out the Pleasure Chest location over there; not sure what else to look into. (I'll be there in late January)
Already gonna check out the Pleasure Chest location over there; not sure what else to look into. (I'll be there in late January)
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new Crystal Castles album goes so hard 🔥
December 9, 2025 at 7:24 PM
new Crystal Castles album goes so hard 🔥
Love receiving an email that's addressed "Hey [First Name], hope you're well!"
December 9, 2025 at 6:56 PM
Love receiving an email that's addressed "Hey [First Name], hope you're well!"
NEW episode:
#461 Working Out the Kinks
thedildorks.com/episodes/wor...
This week we dive deeper into kinky-on-vanilla relationships, discussing how to tell if someone is vanilla, how to explore kink outside of a newly-opened relationship, and whether fantasy can be a good substitute for IRL kink.
#461 Working Out the Kinks
thedildorks.com/episodes/wor...
This week we dive deeper into kinky-on-vanilla relationships, discussing how to tell if someone is vanilla, how to explore kink outside of a newly-opened relationship, and whether fantasy can be a good substitute for IRL kink.
Working Out the Kinks | The Dildorks
This week we dive deeper into kinky-on-vanilla relationships, discussing how to tell if someone might be vanilla, how to explore kink outside of a newly-opened relationship, and whether fantasy and po...
thedildorks.com
December 9, 2025 at 6:47 PM
NEW episode:
#461 Working Out the Kinks
thedildorks.com/episodes/wor...
This week we dive deeper into kinky-on-vanilla relationships, discussing how to tell if someone is vanilla, how to explore kink outside of a newly-opened relationship, and whether fantasy can be a good substitute for IRL kink.
#461 Working Out the Kinks
thedildorks.com/episodes/wor...
This week we dive deeper into kinky-on-vanilla relationships, discussing how to tell if someone is vanilla, how to explore kink outside of a newly-opened relationship, and whether fantasy can be a good substitute for IRL kink.
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lyrics of my ode to dominance & elevators 🛗
December 9, 2025 at 3:29 AM
lyrics of my ode to dominance & elevators 🛗
FYI these things make a wildly good super-thuddy impact toy www.leatherology.com/products/boo...
Bookweight | Full grain leather, functional desk accessory, Leatherology Celeste
Keep your pages in place with the Bookweight, crafted in premium leather. A practical and stylish accessory for readers and professionals—personalization available! Celeste
www.leatherology.com
December 9, 2025 at 6:10 PM
FYI these things make a wildly good super-thuddy impact toy www.leatherology.com/products/boo...
lyrics of my ode to dominance & elevators 🛗
December 9, 2025 at 3:29 AM
lyrics of my ode to dominance & elevators 🛗
CN: spoilers for S1E1 of Black Mirror
further CN: bestiality
I can’t believe they STARTED this series with prime-ministerial pig-fucking!!!
further CN: bestiality
I can’t believe they STARTED this series with prime-ministerial pig-fucking!!!
December 9, 2025 at 2:22 AM
CN: spoilers for S1E1 of Black Mirror
further CN: bestiality
I can’t believe they STARTED this series with prime-ministerial pig-fucking!!!
further CN: bestiality
I can’t believe they STARTED this series with prime-ministerial pig-fucking!!!
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Know your rights. Protect your neighbors.
New York is — and always will be — a city for all immigrants.
New York is — and always will be — a city for all immigrants.
December 7, 2025 at 5:03 PM
Know your rights. Protect your neighbors.
New York is — and always will be — a city for all immigrants.
New York is — and always will be — a city for all immigrants.
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"Top" and "Bottom" take on entirely new meanings when you're operating an elevator.
Song #49/52
"Operator"
youtu.be/qTZP1gNqFGw
My assigned theme this week was "elevator," so here's a sexy song about an elevator operator... although it's really a song about dominance, I would say!
"Operator"
youtu.be/qTZP1gNqFGw
My assigned theme this week was "elevator," so here's a sexy song about an elevator operator... although it's really a song about dominance, I would say!
Operator
YouTube video by Kate Sloan
youtu.be
December 8, 2025 at 10:29 PM
"Top" and "Bottom" take on entirely new meanings when you're operating an elevator.
happy new brotherkenzie album day to all who celebrate!! brotherkenzie.bandcamp.com/album/ditto
Ditto, by Brotherkenzie
11 track album
brotherkenzie.bandcamp.com
December 8, 2025 at 7:17 PM
happy new brotherkenzie album day to all who celebrate!! brotherkenzie.bandcamp.com/album/ditto
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not sure how to square ‘no one person can be reasonably expected to pay for every media subscription’ with ‘sorely underpaid writers need to make a living’ but my inclination is not to locate that problem with any of the broke ass people on either end of the complaint
December 8, 2025 at 5:21 PM
not sure how to square ‘no one person can be reasonably expected to pay for every media subscription’ with ‘sorely underpaid writers need to make a living’ but my inclination is not to locate that problem with any of the broke ass people on either end of the complaint
I put up a Reddit personal ad looking for something specific and I cannot believe the number of people who have sent me ChatGPT-generated responses
I suppose I shouldn’t be surprised but yeesh. Stop outsourcing your caring, vulnerability, & intimacy to a robot! It feels GROSS!!!
I suppose I shouldn’t be surprised but yeesh. Stop outsourcing your caring, vulnerability, & intimacy to a robot! It feels GROSS!!!
December 8, 2025 at 5:09 PM
I put up a Reddit personal ad looking for something specific and I cannot believe the number of people who have sent me ChatGPT-generated responses
I suppose I shouldn’t be surprised but yeesh. Stop outsourcing your caring, vulnerability, & intimacy to a robot! It feels GROSS!!!
I suppose I shouldn’t be surprised but yeesh. Stop outsourcing your caring, vulnerability, & intimacy to a robot! It feels GROSS!!!
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Do you have a queer sports fan in your life? Are you unsure what to get them for the holidays? I've got a gift guide full of suggestions, with a focus on small & independent businesses & creators:
gift guide for the queer women's sports fan
give the gift of gay sports this holiday season
www.thefrankiedlc.news
December 8, 2025 at 5:00 PM
Do you have a queer sports fan in your life? Are you unsure what to get them for the holidays? I've got a gift guide full of suggestions, with a focus on small & independent businesses & creators:
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I am so tired of people acting entitled because most articles used to be free and that’s just not the case anymore. it’s not the fault of writers! we get paid less and less every year.
this situation was created by billionaires and VC firms, not us!
this situation was created by billionaires and VC firms, not us!
December 8, 2025 at 4:50 PM
I am so tired of people acting entitled because most articles used to be free and that’s just not the case anymore. it’s not the fault of writers! we get paid less and less every year.
this situation was created by billionaires and VC firms, not us!
this situation was created by billionaires and VC firms, not us!
1 thing that strikes me about the ‘loneliness epidemic’ discourse is how many ppl seem to think you can just passively expect community/friends to flock to you, without you doing anything
It’s HARD to put yrself out there, join hobbies, etc. but you gotta do it! Your life won’t just happen to you!
It’s HARD to put yrself out there, join hobbies, etc. but you gotta do it! Your life won’t just happen to you!
December 7, 2025 at 7:49 PM
1 thing that strikes me about the ‘loneliness epidemic’ discourse is how many ppl seem to think you can just passively expect community/friends to flock to you, without you doing anything
It’s HARD to put yrself out there, join hobbies, etc. but you gotta do it! Your life won’t just happen to you!
It’s HARD to put yrself out there, join hobbies, etc. but you gotta do it! Your life won’t just happen to you!
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like i have been saying, if you have ADHD you should be standing with trans people on their medical rights for basic moral and solidarity reasons but also the practical reason that you can fight at their barricade or you can fight at ours but it's the same fight
then, the transphobes , feeling victorious at how many people they have made unhappy and despairing in the previous week, move on to anything else that has a spectrum and the possibility of more colours than they can conceive - such hateful people - they cannot understand anything that is not THEM
December 7, 2025 at 7:40 PM
like i have been saying, if you have ADHD you should be standing with trans people on their medical rights for basic moral and solidarity reasons but also the practical reason that you can fight at their barricade or you can fight at ours but it's the same fight
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If there’s one thing no one is looking forward to, it’s contacting a hook up or partner to tell them you’ve tested positive for an STI. Thankfully, @rebeccahudescu.bsky.social consulted with experts and produced this helpful how-to!
www.script.health/article/how-...
www.script.health/article/how-...
How to tell a hookup you’ve tested positive for an STI
Don't freak out—a short conversation is all you need
www.script.health
December 5, 2025 at 7:20 PM
If there’s one thing no one is looking forward to, it’s contacting a hook up or partner to tell them you’ve tested positive for an STI. Thankfully, @rebeccahudescu.bsky.social consulted with experts and produced this helpful how-to!
www.script.health/article/how-...
www.script.health/article/how-...
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50% this and 50% the same loneliness all modern humans feel regardless of gender but which only deserves special mention when it effects men and not, like, single moms
I'm starting to wonder how much "the male loneliness epidemic" is just straight and bisexual women identifying low-effort, mean, and incompetent men and choosing not to date, marry, and tolerate them anymore
December 6, 2025 at 8:35 PM
50% this and 50% the same loneliness all modern humans feel regardless of gender but which only deserves special mention when it effects men and not, like, single moms
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embarrassed to report that it took me reading a gen z post stating "a man will be with a woman for years and not even like her" to clearly see our multi-generational conditioning into accepting everyday partial rejection as the intimacy terms of hetero romance
I'm starting to wonder how much "the male loneliness epidemic" is just straight and bisexual women identifying low-effort, mean, and incompetent men and choosing not to date, marry, and tolerate them anymore
December 7, 2025 at 3:50 PM
embarrassed to report that it took me reading a gen z post stating "a man will be with a woman for years and not even like her" to clearly see our multi-generational conditioning into accepting everyday partial rejection as the intimacy terms of hetero romance
[taps the sign]
[sign says: “Is someone actually ‘flaunting’ their body/lifestyle/etc., or are you just projecting your own insecurities and/or horniness onto them unprompted?”]
[sign says: “Is someone actually ‘flaunting’ their body/lifestyle/etc., or are you just projecting your own insecurities and/or horniness onto them unprompted?”]
Not that I have a ton of sympathy for Olivia Nuzzi but this is insane framing: "Woman who complained about privacy violations gets her privacy violated."
nypost.com/2025/12/03/u...
nypost.com/2025/12/03/u...
December 7, 2025 at 4:03 PM
[taps the sign]
[sign says: “Is someone actually ‘flaunting’ their body/lifestyle/etc., or are you just projecting your own insecurities and/or horniness onto them unprompted?”]
[sign says: “Is someone actually ‘flaunting’ their body/lifestyle/etc., or are you just projecting your own insecurities and/or horniness onto them unprompted?”]
I only have 3 more shows left this year, one of them is tomorrow, apparently I will be doing at least one scene with one of my favorite improv boyz, you should come on out
come see me do musical improv this Sunday, Toronto! 💋 comedybar.ca/shows/studio...
STUDIO SUNDAYS | Comedy Bar
comedybar.ca
December 7, 2025 at 4:27 AM
I only have 3 more shows left this year, one of them is tomorrow, apparently I will be doing at least one scene with one of my favorite improv boyz, you should come on out
am partaking of a beloved holiday tradition, the Drunk Feminist Films screening of Love Actually
December 7, 2025 at 12:49 AM
am partaking of a beloved holiday tradition, the Drunk Feminist Films screening of Love Actually
Writing a sexy song about elevators 🛗
December 6, 2025 at 7:14 PM
Writing a sexy song about elevators 🛗