Kate Sloan (she/her)
@katesloan.com
📚 Author KateWritesAboutSex.com
🍆 Sex toy reviewer GirlyJuice.net
🎙️ Sex podcaster TheDildorks.com
🪄 Vibrator nerd MakingMagicSeries.com
🎶 Songwriter KateSloan.Bandcamp.com
📍 Brooklyn + sometimes Toronto
🍆 Sex toy reviewer GirlyJuice.net
🎙️ Sex podcaster TheDildorks.com
🪄 Vibrator nerd MakingMagicSeries.com
🎶 Songwriter KateSloan.Bandcamp.com
📍 Brooklyn + sometimes Toronto
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Kate Sloan (she/her)
@katesloan.com
· Nov 19
li’l introductory thread since a bunch of you folks just followed me (hi!):
I’m Kate Sloan, a writer/podcaster specializing in sex, kink, dating & relationships.
I’m a bi/queer cis femme woman from Toronto, and my pronouns are she/her. 👋🏻
I’m Kate Sloan, a writer/podcaster specializing in sex, kink, dating & relationships.
I’m a bi/queer cis femme woman from Toronto, and my pronouns are she/her. 👋🏻
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That we continue to persist at all is a testament to our faith in one another.
January 29, 2026 at 1:47 PM
That we continue to persist at all is a testament to our faith in one another.
not sure I’ll have the wherewithal to write a valentines gift guide this year, but this one from 2023 still contains some solid picks 😅 girlyjuice.net/what-to-get-...
What to Get Your Sweetheart for Valentine’s Day: My Top Picks
It’s that time of year again: my inbox is overrun with even more press releases than usual about stuff like aphrodisiac mushroom gummies and panties that protect you from STIs. Happy almost-V…
girlyjuice.net
January 29, 2026 at 9:49 PM
not sure I’ll have the wherewithal to write a valentines gift guide this year, but this one from 2023 still contains some solid picks 😅 girlyjuice.net/what-to-get-...
NEW on the blog:
Behind the Seams: Pinks & Reds for Polycule Parties
girlyjuice.net/behind-the-s...
a bunch of cute outfits from December & January, plus the deets on what I wore 'em for
Behind the Seams: Pinks & Reds for Polycule Parties
girlyjuice.net/behind-the-s...
a bunch of cute outfits from December & January, plus the deets on what I wore 'em for
January 29, 2026 at 6:06 PM
NEW on the blog:
Behind the Seams: Pinks & Reds for Polycule Parties
girlyjuice.net/behind-the-s...
a bunch of cute outfits from December & January, plus the deets on what I wore 'em for
Behind the Seams: Pinks & Reds for Polycule Parties
girlyjuice.net/behind-the-s...
a bunch of cute outfits from December & January, plus the deets on what I wore 'em for
New bonus episode for our $12+ patrons!
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Bonus #51: Crying on a Metamour & Cruising at a Bar
Topics include: being ghosted by a partner, an empathy shortage, weeping on a metamour, going to a bar alone, the perfect pickup line, & a no-domming boundary with a friend.
www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-...
Bonus #51: Crying on a Metamour & Cruising at a Bar
Topics include: being ghosted by a partner, an empathy shortage, weeping on a metamour, going to a bar alone, the perfect pickup line, & a no-domming boundary with a friend.
Bonus Episode 51: Crying on a Metamour & Cruising at a Bar | The Dildorks
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January 29, 2026 at 4:51 PM
New bonus episode for our $12+ patrons!
www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-...
Bonus #51: Crying on a Metamour & Cruising at a Bar
Topics include: being ghosted by a partner, an empathy shortage, weeping on a metamour, going to a bar alone, the perfect pickup line, & a no-domming boundary with a friend.
www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-...
Bonus #51: Crying on a Metamour & Cruising at a Bar
Topics include: being ghosted by a partner, an empathy shortage, weeping on a metamour, going to a bar alone, the perfect pickup line, & a no-domming boundary with a friend.
my loungewear """outfits""" are increasingly unhinged
January 29, 2026 at 4:27 PM
my loungewear """outfits""" are increasingly unhinged
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Maybe controversially, this is a clear win and a symbolic win, but it doesn't seem like a huge win.
There are few trans people using the Hampstead ponds. It's this minor local authority bylaw issue that's been blown up into a major thing because TERFs can't take no for an answer.
There are few trans people using the Hampstead ponds. It's this minor local authority bylaw issue that's been blown up into a major thing because TERFs can't take no for an answer.
BREAKING: WIN 🏳️⚧️ 💥
The High Court just refused Sex Matters' permission to ban trans women from the Hampstead ponds. We're relieved that the ponds can remain a place where trans people have always belonged.
Thank you to the all the people that pushed back against division.
The High Court just refused Sex Matters' permission to ban trans women from the Hampstead ponds. We're relieved that the ponds can remain a place where trans people have always belonged.
Thank you to the all the people that pushed back against division.
January 29, 2026 at 1:19 PM
Maybe controversially, this is a clear win and a symbolic win, but it doesn't seem like a huge win.
There are few trans people using the Hampstead ponds. It's this minor local authority bylaw issue that's been blown up into a major thing because TERFs can't take no for an answer.
There are few trans people using the Hampstead ponds. It's this minor local authority bylaw issue that's been blown up into a major thing because TERFs can't take no for an answer.
tired: partners who don’t make you come
wired: partners who make you come
inspired: partners who make you squirt a giant puddle all over the bed and then bring you a towel so you don’t have to sleep in the wet spot ✌️
wired: partners who make you come
inspired: partners who make you squirt a giant puddle all over the bed and then bring you a towel so you don’t have to sleep in the wet spot ✌️
January 29, 2026 at 4:22 AM
tired: partners who don’t make you come
wired: partners who make you come
inspired: partners who make you squirt a giant puddle all over the bed and then bring you a towel so you don’t have to sleep in the wet spot ✌️
wired: partners who make you come
inspired: partners who make you squirt a giant puddle all over the bed and then bring you a towel so you don’t have to sleep in the wet spot ✌️
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And also, like…seriously. Fuck off.
We speak as we speak; when we’re comfortable, we speak loosely, with vernacular that is familiar. People say amazing, insightful, inspiring things when they’re just feeling like…uninhibited and free.
If you don’t like it, like…listen to something else.
We speak as we speak; when we’re comfortable, we speak loosely, with vernacular that is familiar. People say amazing, insightful, inspiring things when they’re just feeling like…uninhibited and free.
If you don’t like it, like…listen to something else.
barfing over the condescension in this email I got
these men always seem convinced they’re being ‘helpful’ by pointing out ways in which other people don’t meet archaic standards we don’t even aspire to meet, lol
like… I went to journalism school… you think I’m unfamiliar w/ how language works? 🤔
these men always seem convinced they’re being ‘helpful’ by pointing out ways in which other people don’t meet archaic standards we don’t even aspire to meet, lol
like… I went to journalism school… you think I’m unfamiliar w/ how language works? 🤔
January 29, 2026 at 2:44 AM
And also, like…seriously. Fuck off.
We speak as we speak; when we’re comfortable, we speak loosely, with vernacular that is familiar. People say amazing, insightful, inspiring things when they’re just feeling like…uninhibited and free.
If you don’t like it, like…listen to something else.
We speak as we speak; when we’re comfortable, we speak loosely, with vernacular that is familiar. People say amazing, insightful, inspiring things when they’re just feeling like…uninhibited and free.
If you don’t like it, like…listen to something else.
the warship archer storyline in disco elysium is kicking me in the brainstem lately
COALITION WARSHIP ARCHER - No -- well, not quite. The Moralintern never *intends* to violate another nation's sovereignty. That would be a serious violation of international law...
January 29, 2026 at 1:45 AM
the warship archer storyline in disco elysium is kicking me in the brainstem lately
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Scrolling through the photos of Pam Bondi's "Minnesota rioters," it's just hero after hero. Every photo includes a cowardly DHS agent with their back to the camera.
Bondi thinks she's going to win the propaganda war with this shit, but it's never been more clear that they're losing.
Bondi thinks she's going to win the propaganda war with this shit, but it's never been more clear that they're losing.
January 28, 2026 at 8:40 PM
Scrolling through the photos of Pam Bondi's "Minnesota rioters," it's just hero after hero. Every photo includes a cowardly DHS agent with their back to the camera.
Bondi thinks she's going to win the propaganda war with this shit, but it's never been more clear that they're losing.
Bondi thinks she's going to win the propaganda war with this shit, but it's never been more clear that they're losing.
LOVED these boys’ hilarious & incisive yet compassionate discussion of the ‘male loneliness epidemic’ this week podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/l...
the dating advice they offer for men is especially great: “ask questions, listen, and try not to talk more than 50% of the time” 👏🏻 👏🏻
the dating advice they offer for men is especially great: “ask questions, listen, and try not to talk more than 50% of the time” 👏🏻 👏🏻
425 - WHERE THE HELL IS MY HUSBAND!
Podcast Episode · Loud About Nothing · 01/20/2026 · 58m
podcasts.apple.com
January 28, 2026 at 8:47 PM
LOVED these boys’ hilarious & incisive yet compassionate discussion of the ‘male loneliness epidemic’ this week podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/l...
the dating advice they offer for men is especially great: “ask questions, listen, and try not to talk more than 50% of the time” 👏🏻 👏🏻
the dating advice they offer for men is especially great: “ask questions, listen, and try not to talk more than 50% of the time” 👏🏻 👏🏻
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When you're alone and life is making you lonely you can always go
Offline
Offline
January 28, 2026 at 7:53 PM
When you're alone and life is making you lonely you can always go
Offline
Offline
lyrics de ma petite chanson sur la gratitude
January 28, 2026 at 7:34 PM
lyrics de ma petite chanson sur la gratitude
if you want to see me do musical improv in Toronto, set aside a Sunday night in May or early June 🤫
still gotta book my flights but it's happeningggg
still gotta book my flights but it's happeningggg
January 28, 2026 at 6:36 PM
if you want to see me do musical improv in Toronto, set aside a Sunday night in May or early June 🤫
still gotta book my flights but it's happeningggg
still gotta book my flights but it's happeningggg
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i'm not actually bisexual, i just have a man fetish
January 12, 2026 at 11:30 PM
i'm not actually bisexual, i just have a man fetish
someone made a Stardew Valley mod that approximates the experience of having fibromyalgia 😮 www.reddit.com/r/Fibromyalg...
From the Fibromyalgia community on Reddit
Explore this post and more from the Fibromyalgia community
www.reddit.com
January 28, 2026 at 4:42 PM
someone made a Stardew Valley mod that approximates the experience of having fibromyalgia 😮 www.reddit.com/r/Fibromyalg...
was debating this w/ my wife & metamour recently & curious to hear yr thoughts:
picture this – you’re at a bar; you see an attractive person reading a book by themselves
when you notice what the book is, you’re suddenly even more attracted to/interested in the person
what’s the book?
picture this – you’re at a bar; you see an attractive person reading a book by themselves
when you notice what the book is, you’re suddenly even more attracted to/interested in the person
what’s the book?
January 28, 2026 at 4:35 PM
was debating this w/ my wife & metamour recently & curious to hear yr thoughts:
picture this – you’re at a bar; you see an attractive person reading a book by themselves
when you notice what the book is, you’re suddenly even more attracted to/interested in the person
what’s the book?
picture this – you’re at a bar; you see an attractive person reading a book by themselves
when you notice what the book is, you’re suddenly even more attracted to/interested in the person
what’s the book?
barfing over the condescension in this email I got
these men always seem convinced they’re being ‘helpful’ by pointing out ways in which other people don’t meet archaic standards we don’t even aspire to meet, lol
like… I went to journalism school… you think I’m unfamiliar w/ how language works? 🤔
these men always seem convinced they’re being ‘helpful’ by pointing out ways in which other people don’t meet archaic standards we don’t even aspire to meet, lol
like… I went to journalism school… you think I’m unfamiliar w/ how language works? 🤔
January 27, 2026 at 9:48 PM
barfing over the condescension in this email I got
these men always seem convinced they’re being ‘helpful’ by pointing out ways in which other people don’t meet archaic standards we don’t even aspire to meet, lol
like… I went to journalism school… you think I’m unfamiliar w/ how language works? 🤔
these men always seem convinced they’re being ‘helpful’ by pointing out ways in which other people don’t meet archaic standards we don’t even aspire to meet, lol
like… I went to journalism school… you think I’m unfamiliar w/ how language works? 🤔
NEW Dildorks episode:
#466 Yearn, Baby, Yearn
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Romantic yearning can be deeply painful, but it’s also kinda hot and fun. This week we discuss our experiences with this unique emotion in contexts like long-distance relationships and unrequited love.
#466 Yearn, Baby, Yearn
thedildorks.com/episodes/yea...
Romantic yearning can be deeply painful, but it’s also kinda hot and fun. This week we discuss our experiences with this unique emotion in contexts like long-distance relationships and unrequited love.
Yearn, Baby, Yearn | The Dildorks
Romantic yearning can be deeply painful, but it’s also kinda hot and fun. This week we discuss our experiences with this unique emotion in contexts like long-distance relationships and unrequited love...
thedildorks.com
January 27, 2026 at 8:34 PM
NEW Dildorks episode:
#466 Yearn, Baby, Yearn
thedildorks.com/episodes/yea...
Romantic yearning can be deeply painful, but it’s also kinda hot and fun. This week we discuss our experiences with this unique emotion in contexts like long-distance relationships and unrequited love.
#466 Yearn, Baby, Yearn
thedildorks.com/episodes/yea...
Romantic yearning can be deeply painful, but it’s also kinda hot and fun. This week we discuss our experiences with this unique emotion in contexts like long-distance relationships and unrequited love.
got really angry & ranty on the Dildorks bonus episode we just recorded 😂 join up at the $12+ level at patreon.com/thedildorks to hear it when it drops later this week
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January 27, 2026 at 8:07 PM
got really angry & ranty on the Dildorks bonus episode we just recorded 😂 join up at the $12+ level at patreon.com/thedildorks to hear it when it drops later this week
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every time someone gives @katesloan.com unsolicited advice they should be forced to read girlyjuice.net/unsolicited/
Stop Giving Unsolicited Advice
Unsolicited advice is an epidemic, and it has to stop. I literally can’t go a day on the internet without some random stranger popping out of nowhere to give me advice I neither asked for nor…
girlyjuice.net
January 27, 2026 at 5:10 PM
every time someone gives @katesloan.com unsolicited advice they should be forced to read girlyjuice.net/unsolicited/
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not just the app stores but the credit card processors. that's the thing driving me the most nutso. they punished so many creators of legal, consensual adult content by destroying their livelihoods. and now, they let revenge porn thrive while skimming 3% off the top.
There's something so insane about the fact that the app stores will, to the best of their ability, prevent you from accessing consensual pornography while letting pornography that is, by default, nonconsensual pass with a shrug
A review of the app stores “found 55 nudify apps on Google Play and 47 in the Apple App Store…”
January 27, 2026 at 3:53 PM
not just the app stores but the credit card processors. that's the thing driving me the most nutso. they punished so many creators of legal, consensual adult content by destroying their livelihoods. and now, they let revenge porn thrive while skimming 3% off the top.
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Hey hey, @littleghostsbooks.bsky.social Pals! We're looking to expand to help provide workshops, book clubs, signings, Q&As, and Vendors to the community! Every little bit helps, and there are some cool rewards!
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January 27, 2026 at 3:44 PM
Hey hey, @littleghostsbooks.bsky.social Pals! We're looking to expand to help provide workshops, book clubs, signings, Q&As, and Vendors to the community! Every little bit helps, and there are some cool rewards!
fnd.us/littleghosts...
fnd.us/littleghosts...
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one big difference between this piece and the NYT is that Sandy talks honestly about his own experiences and about what Rowling has actually said and done, while the NYT piece just spews bile at ppl the author doesn't know for supposed thought crimes based on her fantasies of what they think.
January 27, 2026 at 2:30 PM
one big difference between this piece and the NYT is that Sandy talks honestly about his own experiences and about what Rowling has actually said and done, while the NYT piece just spews bile at ppl the author doesn't know for supposed thought crimes based on her fantasies of what they think.
a woman on Reddit is upset because she asked her boyfriend what her pussy tastes like and he said “a medium-rare nicely done steak”
I guess she wanted him to say it tasted like candy or roses or something?! but girl, take the compliment!!
I guess she wanted him to say it tasted like candy or roses or something?! but girl, take the compliment!!
January 27, 2026 at 3:50 PM
a woman on Reddit is upset because she asked her boyfriend what her pussy tastes like and he said “a medium-rare nicely done steak”
I guess she wanted him to say it tasted like candy or roses or something?! but girl, take the compliment!!
I guess she wanted him to say it tasted like candy or roses or something?! but girl, take the compliment!!