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Karistina Lafae 🧚‍♀️ AuDHD Bedbound Faerie Godmother
@karistinalafae.bsky.social
Faerie Godmother 🧚‍♀️ Xennial Author

✨ I choose kindness unless you don't.

♿ Disabled, AuDHD, Sjogrens, ME/CFS, bedbound, chronic pain, chronic illness

🌈 Queer, bisexual, genderfae, polyamorous

💻 Assistive technology advocate
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You may call me Karistina Lafae. If you know me by another name, no you don't! ✨

I'm a severely disabled author, essayist, and disability advocate. I'm immunocompromised, bedbound, genderfae, bisexual, polyamorous, AuDHD, a Scorpio, INFJ/P, and would love you to read (and review?) my stories!
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VACCINES DO NOT CAUSE AUTISM!
However
Measles can cause encephalitis and brain damage.
Chickenpox can lead to permanent scars.
Meningitis has long term consequences like seizures and motor function disorders.
Polio can cause respiratory paralysis.

Vaccines are SAFE and prevent life long misery.
No, Vaccines Don’t Cause Autism—Here’s the Proof Parents Need to See
Countless studies have shown no link between vaccines and an increased risk of autism spectrum disorder. But some parents still hold onto that belief.
www.parents.com
November 23, 2025 at 8:54 PM
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He won a Grammy. He played Madison Square Garden. He dated Dasha from Red Scare. Okay, so one of those things probably counts as a punishment. Nonetheless!
Louis CK is not in a limbo of cancellation. He's straight up not cancelled & his "cancellation" became a profitable bit for him.
November 29, 2025 at 10:19 PM
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Obviously babies younger than six months can't be vaccinated. But if you're a plan of a baby six months or older....please get them vaccinated.
November 29, 2025 at 10:22 PM
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Unvaccinated infants are the second most likely group to get hospitalized for Covid after older adults. Any effort to minimize the effectiveness for kids is evil.
November 29, 2025 at 10:10 PM
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This is exactly why I don’t let go of the “cancel culture memo”

This man trapped folks in rooms to make them watch him masturbate and they are trying to ask if the show is good enough to make that’s measurable trade
When a cancelled performer reënters the culture, we expect them to offer us a great work, channelling their newfound clarity into the finest art they’ve ever made. With his new comedy show and début novel, has Louis C.K. met the bar?
www.newyorker.com/culture/crit...
Louis C.K.’s Next Chapter
In a new standup special, and a début novel, the comedian navigates murky, post-#MeToo terrain: not quite exiled, not quite welcomed back.
www.newyorker.com
November 29, 2025 at 9:04 PM
We're re-watching New GIrl, and I'd forgotten that Jess and Robby ended up being third cousins, and they're so squicked out about it.

I guess it hits different when you're not really into genealogy and genetics... and you don't have an aunt and uncle who were first cousins when they married.
November 29, 2025 at 8:22 PM
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I’m honestly tired of arguing whether autism is a “good thing” or a “bad thing.” We’re human beings. We exist, & we aren’t going to change. The only discussion I’m interested in is how to support & accommodate that existence. #Autistic
November 17, 2024 at 6:43 PM
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I, like many, think about this every day, and I'll never get used to the defensive reaction others have of "LOL oh well, at least it's over!" I understand it's a psychological defense so they don't break, but a lot of disabled people "broke" 6 years ago and few have noticed. Two different worlds.
People have loved ones that have died in this Great Jump backwards. They have to believe it has some purpose. And all those thoughts around disease being inevitable/natural/normal helps them wake up every day and live with what has happened.
November 29, 2025 at 4:08 AM
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Today I was told it’s a luxury that I can stay in bed posting on social media … and that men are the ones giving me that luxury

Being bedbound is not a luxury

Social media is a connection to the world for many of us

Disability is not a vacation & men aren’t providing for the vast majority of us
November 29, 2025 at 4:11 AM
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I've bought stuff from Bibipins before; their compression gloves work wonders for my wrists and I use their tape measurer a lot! Please go check them out!
It cost 0$ to share a Black disabled queer small business! It could lead to my next sale.

Get 10% off using code BIBIPINSSALEWEEK on almost everything in my store!! Ends Dec 5th at 11:59PM MST. I rarely have sales.

Store: Bibipins.com
November 29, 2025 at 12:58 AM
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The FBI accessed and spied on a Signal group chat that was organizing immigrant “court watch” efforts in NYC.

I feel like this should be bigger news.

You aren’t supposed to be able to spy on Signal chats.

Were they invited? How did they get access? Was there a warrant?
The FBI spied on a Signal group chat of immigration activists, records reveal
Exclusive: Agency accessed private conversations of New York ‘courtwatch’ group that was observing public hearings
www.theguardian.com
November 29, 2025 at 3:46 AM
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It is unfathomable that the USG lawyers would sign off on a no-survivors boat strike (no get of jail free card).

There's clear precedent dating back to World War II trial of Germans for that very act, which lawyers know well.

The Peleus World War II War Crimes Trial

www.usni.org/magazines/na...
November 28, 2025 at 7:22 PM
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The problem with fetishizing the rule of law is that people have to break the law to resist fascism, state violence, and oppression. This has always been true, and is very much the case RIGHT NOW.
November 29, 2025 at 1:44 AM
Introduce yourself with 5 animals you've seen in the wild:

* Wild turkey
* Woodchuck
* Red-tailed hawk
* Deer
* Woolly bear caterpillar
Introduce yourself with 5 animals you've seen in the wild:

- Grizzly, Kodiak
- Black bear
- Bald eagle
- Red tailed hawk
- Monarch butterfly (before they were endangered)
Introduce yourself with 5 animals you've seen in the wild:

- Elephant
- Moose
- Alligator
- Brown Bear
- Mountain Goat

Listed in decreasing order of proximity. The elephant was a quarter mile away. Moose, about the same. Alligator? 15 feet. Bear? 10 feet (through a window). Goat? TOO DAMN CLOSE.
November 29, 2025 at 1:44 AM
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It's heavy going into the thick of the holiday season without Tinu or Alice with us anymore.

I know many others have left us as well, but those two were powerhouses of the disability community.
November 28, 2025 at 10:44 PM
MY REALISTIC ROBOT PUPPY IS NOT REAL, AND I'M MAD AT THE SCAMMERS TRYING TO SELL IT TO ME.
November 28, 2025 at 11:09 PM
It's heavy going into the thick of the holiday season without Tinu or Alice with us anymore.

I know many others have left us as well, but those two were powerhouses of the disability community.
November 28, 2025 at 10:44 PM
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Moving tribute to Alice Wong from Rebecca Cokley: “Alice was constantly watching what people were doing, & lifting up people whose work she thought deserved attention & amplification. This was core to the creation of the Disability Visibility Project.”
www.thenation.com/article/soci...
A Tribute to an Oracle, Alice Wong
Alice had the ability to look to the future and a world where laws and attitudes did not keep disabled people poor, pitied, and isolated.
www.thenation.com
November 27, 2025 at 8:15 PM
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How has the media contributed to manufacturing consent for COVID to be “over” (and the decline of public health in general)? New episode ft. @juliadoubleday.bsky.social and @wanderingkayli.bsky.social as well as some comments from former COVID-19 Technical Lead at the WHO, Dr. Maria Van Kerkhove
In the editing room! 🎙️ Bad Press: how the media manufactures consent in the era of COVID. Public health is often in the news but it’s not always covered well. Power influences the narratives we hear from outlets and journalists. Coming soon w/ Julia Doubleday + Kayli Jamieson. Don’t miss it! 🩷💚💀
November 28, 2025 at 7:38 PM
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Saw my rheumatologist yesterday, and she said the latest strain of COVID is fucking up people's liver function. People get COVID, a few weeks later, their liver enzymes are elevated. She wants me to tell her if I get COVID so she can order lab work afterward. (Thankfully, I wear FloMask everywhere.)
I teach all of my classes in an N95 because my gift from having COVID (pre-vaccine) is an autoimmune disease that destroys my kidney function. COVID gave me kidney failure, which will require a kidney transplant. What's the #1 cause of death (aside from CKD) in patients waiting for dialysis? COVID.
(and i think it is a demand that stems from fear more than a rational assessment of the threat environment)
October 16, 2025 at 1:47 AM
Gimme 50% off or 75% off if you're a big corporation.

I'll accept 30% off for small businesses.
with all disrespect to the brands, 30% off is really not all that exciting in this economy
November 28, 2025 at 8:30 PM
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Amazon removed all my books for "multiple accounts" which I do not and never did have.

If you'd like to support a trans queer indie author, please buy my books at other retailers.

Itchio: devinharnois.itch.io

Apple: books.apple.com/us/author/de...

B&N: www.barnesandnoble.com/s/%22Devin%2...
DevinHarnois
devinharnois.itch.io
November 28, 2025 at 8:09 PM
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Every single congressional Democrat needs to be out there, right now, insisting that Pete Hegseth resign right now and announcing that he will be held accountable for committing war crimes.

If you do not demand accountability here and now, they will only become more emboldened.
Exclusive: Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth gave an order to “kill everybody” in the first strike on suspected drug boats in the Caribbean. After two men survived, the mission commander ordered a second strike to comply with Hegseth’s instructions, according to two sources.
Hegseth order on first Caribbean boat strike, officials say: Kill them all
Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth issued a verbal order to kill all crew members in the Sept. 2 strike on a suspected drug boat. Navy SEALs fired a second missile.
www.washingtonpost.com
November 28, 2025 at 7:19 PM
My kiddo thought she had two weeks to finish her final projects when she goes back on Sunday. But classes end next Friday, so she has one week from today.

I'm pretty sure she has undiagnosed ADHD, and she is FLAILING.

I'm trying to help her, but it's not helping.
November 28, 2025 at 5:59 PM
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black friday: a great time to unsubscribe from brand mailing lists you forgot you were on
November 28, 2025 at 3:26 PM