Jude "Pre-Order DILF" Doyle
@judedoyle.bsky.social
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Issue 4 of "Be Not Afraid" with Lisandro Estherren out now, including -- finally! -- on Comixology. "DILF: Did I Leave Feminism" coming October 21, 2025. Pre-order it here: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/801936/dilf-by-jude-doyle/
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judedoyle.bsky.social
I'm an expert on bloggers of the 2010s and we only do this when we're extremely stressed
judedoyle.bsky.social
I begrudgingly respect this because my response to fucking the grossest dude on the face of the planet would also be to parlay it into some type of book deal
judedoyle.bsky.social
Yeah, it seems to have been set up at least in part for TERFs to publish the stuff the "mainstream doesn't want you to hear." Bindel is a regular, as is Hadley Freeman, a bunch of the British ones
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hellsdaydream.bsky.social
Willy Wonka if he were woke: Come with me, and you'll be/In a world of gay miscegenation
judedoyle.bsky.social
It's true! I went to a bookstore, multiple human beings saw me in three dimensions, and I didn't fall off my chair or die! Very rewarding, all around.
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I saw @judedoyle.bsky.social at @astoriabookshop.bsky.social and all I got was my next great in-flight read.
A copy of the 2025 book DILF: Did I Leave Feminism? A Trans and/or Feminist Manifesto by Jude Ellison S. Doyle. The cover layout calls to mind mid-1970s futurist design, with the acronym DILF rendered in large white asymmetrical letters, and the subtitle and author name in plain black text. There is also a cover blurb from Julia Serano that reads, "A thoughtful and passionate book that speaks directly to our current moment." Serano is the author of Whipping Girl. The chosen color palette is a gradient of the trans pride flag colors, with a deep blue at lower left blending to a not-quite-bubblegum-pink at top right.
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ericdienstfrey.bsky.social
So Jurassic Park is about a group of rich people who don't understand that biology is far more complicated than "there are only two genders" and how this ignorance toward gender fluidity in nature causes these rich people to lose their money and die.
judedoyle.bsky.social
Mine isn't until the 21st! But I am PRE-GAMING
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heatherhogan.bsky.social
Just want to let y'all know that I've had to pass along my questions for Jude to a different moderator for tonight's event due to some unforeseen health conflicts. (Not COVID-19.) I am so bummed, but I hope you'll still get out and support Jude and this freaking brilliant book. 🧡
judedoyle.bsky.social
Also, quick caution: I’m getting over a virus that is not contagious to 99% of the population, but if you’re immunocompromised or pregnant, you might want to mask up or just wait to attend the online event hosted by Charis Books this weekend.
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gbbranstetter.bsky.social
Miss Major Griffin-Gracy passed away today according to the House of GG. She was a veteran of the Stonewall rebellion and a lifelong organizer for the safety and dignity of trans people, sex workers, and the incarcerated. She came from the same generation and milieu as Marsha and Sylvia. She was 78.
judedoyle.bsky.social
The average heterosexual couple at any date-night establishment in Greenpoint
A young woman. White t-shirt, long hair, smile, she looks nice. An ent. He has a long mossy beard down to his knees and a vast cloud of twigs and leaves for hair. He has been alive since the earth was born and must rip himself out of the ground to walk. I'm sure he's a very good boyfriend.
judedoyle.bsky.social
"There are so many couples where the girls look like normal women and the guys look like tree folk," my husband says, returning to Brooklyn for the first time in years and receiving the HORRIBLE TRUTH
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bleary.off-the-records.com
If anyone needs me I will be in the museum, lying down next to the bog bodies.
Did people really memorize phone numbers before cell phones, or is that just a movie thing?
2? Questions
I was watching some old shows from the 90s and noticed people would just dial numbers from memory - like they'd call their friends or family without looking anything up.
Made me wonder if that was actually normal back then? Did people genuinely have all their important numbers memorized, or did most folks keep a little address book or written list nearby?
judedoyle.bsky.social
I can't explain why, but this Jeep is spiritually nonbinary
Uh-oh, it's a Jeep with a big American flag hanging off it and a bunch of bumper stickers. Nothing good here. The bumper stickers are... *squinting*... "Fuck Putin." That's pretty Resistlib-coded. Also "Fuck Fuel Economy," "Are We Great Yet." Sure, okay, I'm guessing middle-of-the-road Democrat, but... Is that a Ukrainian flag? Okay. Wait. Is that a POLICE DEPARTMENT STICKER???? Next to a distressed AMERICAN flag???? I've gone all the way back around! I'm scared again! I have no idea what to do with any of this visual information!
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This is an exact encapsulation of why I moved to Bluesky.

No amount of handwringing in the Atlantic about how I owe some eternal Promethean suffering to the discourse is going to make me stay on a site I hate, that stopped doing anything for me professionally years ago.
Well – no. Bluesky may or may not be, as one centre-right friend who felt unwelcome put it, “self-righteous island”. But the idea that’s why we went is nonsense. That I’ve largely stopped posting on a site that’s done more to shape my career and social circle than the rest of the internet combined is less about avoiding rival opinions (I love arguing with people who are wrong!) than with the fact the site simply became unusable. It stopped generating the things (good jokes, interesting debate, clicks) I wanted; it became extremely good at generating the things (racists, pornbots, racist pornbots) I did not.
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sethdmichaels.bsky.social
AI HUCKSTER: "i built you a machine that reads books for you."

ME: "can you build me a machine that unloads the dishwasher for me so *i* can read a book?"
judedoyle.bsky.social
Nothing will ever touch the pubertal heights of a 34-year-old Trent Reznor rhyming "now" with "now," but damn it, they got close
We're in this together now
None of them can stop us now
We will make it through [DRUMROLL]
someHOW
judedoyle.bsky.social
Every so often, I remember that The Smiths really cornered the softboy market for a generation by rhyming "cry" and "want to die." A more innocent time!