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theemilystu.bsky.social
emstu
@theemilystu.bsky.social
| therapist, sewist, gardener |
currently: reading smut & screaming into the void
I’m supposed to be telling clients about mat leave sometime in the next few weeks and it’s like “hello yes there WAS another murder on the street in broad daylight. of course you’re terrified and dysregulated. ALSO jsyk I’m bringing a child into the world and am going to be gone for 6 months.”
January 26, 2026 at 2:25 PM
everytime I take a tylenol I wish my baby a happy autism day
January 22, 2026 at 6:33 PM
the nosy little old ladies weren’t wrong tho ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
apparently the quickest way to start a church wide pregnancy rumor is to refuse the Cup lolol
January 20, 2026 at 1:52 AM
my dumb ass decided that I needed a little bit of variety from my monster fucking smut romantasies, so I started reading stephen king books? i’m so dumb. dumb and depressed.
January 13, 2026 at 3:08 AM
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i’m sure ICE guys with their guns and masks fancy themselves big brave men, but when you see real, honest courage it knocks you on your ass. it’s a glimpse of something holy.
At last night’s candlelight vigil for Renee Nicole Good, Bishop Rob Hirschfeld of the Episcopal Diocese of New Hampshire announced he had asked the clergy of the diocese to get their affairs in order and to make sure they have their wills written ...,
January 11, 2026 at 1:47 AM
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I finally have the go ahead to let y’all know they’re going to do some ontological change to me (come crash it, tbh) ⚓️
January 9, 2026 at 7:16 PM
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New Study finds a significant reduction in suicidality after trans people receive gender-affirming hormone therapy.

“Hormone therapy was associated with clinically meaningful reductions in suicidality over time…”

www.sciencedirect.com/science/arti...
January 9, 2026 at 5:24 AM
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One of the core purposes of right-wing media is to rewrite your memory and reprogram your moral response to an event you saw with your own eyes. George Floyd died of a heart attack. Jan 6 was a peaceful picnic. This process has already begun
THERE IS VIDEO

I really do not want to recommend to everyone a video of a person being shot but there is video from multiple angles

why not cut the crap and just publish "this paper supports random state murder, it makes us feel good, kill kill kill"? same exact meaning, less embarrassing
January 8, 2026 at 3:57 PM
what I can’t get past is if this happened to me, members of my family, who claim to love me, would victim blame. they’d justify the actions of a murderer. they’d fall right in line. it breaks my fucking heart.
January 8, 2026 at 3:53 PM
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You don’t have to wait to BE good to DO good. Embrace your inner hypocrite! You have free will!
January 5, 2026 at 2:13 AM
apparently the quickest way to start a church wide pregnancy rumor is to refuse the Cup lolol
November 23, 2025 at 5:35 PM
okay, listen, why would anyone NOT be a monster fucker?!
November 14, 2025 at 10:29 PM
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Scorpio: You’ll wake up with a feeling of doom and ennui. Don’t be overly concerned. Eventually the sun will envelop the earth.
November 9, 2025 at 7:49 PM
the va democratic gubernatorial nominee paid for a bunch of ads where her talking points are shown over “satisfying” videos like cutting a tomato or blowing glass and it drives me fucking insane
October 26, 2025 at 6:08 PM
“it’s too bad insurance doesn’t cover christian counseling”

no, it totally could, if those therapists were licensed and thus abided by state law/board ethical codes and thus didn’t do fucking conversion therapy lmao
October 22, 2025 at 1:21 PM
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Funny how the press + white politicians just about never refer to unarmed Black teenagers who get murdered --

like Laquan McDonald, Mike Brown, Trayvon Martin, Jordan Davis, Ma'Khia Bryant, & younger, like Tamir Rice, Aiyana Jones-

as "kids," even though they call 30something racists "kids". 🤔
October 16, 2025 at 4:27 PM
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these metrics are not meaningfully connected to the claim
October 15, 2025 at 7:21 PM
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Scorpio: If you’re looking for answers from giant balls of plasma that are millions of miles away, it’s already too late. See a therapist. Eat a burrito.
October 12, 2025 at 6:29 PM
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this is all rhyming with a very, very dark part of history.
October 12, 2025 at 1:07 PM
remember when I posted so many thirst traps on twitter that I got jackson to slide into my dms and now we’ve been married for five years in november
October 7, 2025 at 11:34 AM
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people without ADHD don’t understand how EXPENSIVE it is to clean the house. If I put it away I will literally NEVER SEE IT AGAIN and now I have to buy all new stuff and my house is EVEN MESSIER
October 3, 2025 at 5:50 PM
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The "liberals have to learn how to live with people we diagree with" line kinda stops making sense in a world where the central disagreement is whether disagreeing with them should be allowed at all
“We are under invasion from within, no different than a foreign enemy, but worse—they don’t wear a uniform.”

This is the President of the United States, who ordered the entire leadership of our military to sit and listen to him, speaking a few minutes ago.
September 30, 2025 at 2:53 PM
at a parish retreat a fellow parishioner and I traded boots because her blundstones were too big and my identical blundstones were too small and that is the magic of the church
September 28, 2025 at 7:00 PM
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lots of interesting things about this study but it’s worth noting this graph, from the article itself, is the visual depiction of what it looks like when right-wing terror attacks “plunge” and left-wing terror attacks “tick up.” not sure the headline communicates this reality.
September 26, 2025 at 12:54 PM