Wizard Tome
@nicebats.bsky.social
mostly rambling 👁👁 / 26 / uncool but friendly transsexual / he / I do art sometimes / been out for 14yrs + on hrt for 8yrs (they put me in the pear wiggler)
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Wizard Tome
@nicebats.bsky.social
· Sep 28
a page from something i was working on. what if i just illustrated my entire life in this format and then laid down and dissolved into the atmosphere due to finally fulfilling my only purpose (to make a really long mid memoir)
hot tub garden soon............
December 12, 2025 at 4:01 PM
hot tub garden soon............
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Cannot believe I saw this irl
December 12, 2025 at 3:59 AM
Cannot believe I saw this irl
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Socialization theory has been so utterly mangled that people don't fundamentally understanding it's not Girl or Boy Programming, it's absorbing the dominant cultural values we grow up with.
If you grow up in a patriarchal society, you are socialized patriarchal.
If you grow up in a patriarchal society, you are socialized patriarchal.
My spicy socialization take is that we mostly use the phrase "female socialization" to refer to raising someone to be a people-pleaser so they don't get hit, and as people constantly at risk of getting hit, trans femmes receive it as much as anyone else
“Male Socialization” of trans femmes isn’t a real thing. Invoking it just shows you’re a bozo trying to misgender us.
Trans people were never really socialized as our AGAB. At best, we were pressured to mimic norms that gave us dysphoria.
It’s an obvious TERF / Blanchardist dog whistle. Do better.
Trans people were never really socialized as our AGAB. At best, we were pressured to mimic norms that gave us dysphoria.
It’s an obvious TERF / Blanchardist dog whistle. Do better.
December 12, 2025 at 5:52 AM
Socialization theory has been so utterly mangled that people don't fundamentally understanding it's not Girl or Boy Programming, it's absorbing the dominant cultural values we grow up with.
If you grow up in a patriarchal society, you are socialized patriarchal.
If you grow up in a patriarchal society, you are socialized patriarchal.
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If "female socialization" is your shorthand for being treated like whipped dogs who never learn to act right, that is something that applies to queer kids pretty intensely!
Heck, call it "queer socialization". The universial experience of society attempting to beat us into the closet or the grave.
Heck, call it "queer socialization". The universial experience of society attempting to beat us into the closet or the grave.
December 12, 2025 at 5:57 AM
If "female socialization" is your shorthand for being treated like whipped dogs who never learn to act right, that is something that applies to queer kids pretty intensely!
Heck, call it "queer socialization". The universial experience of society attempting to beat us into the closet or the grave.
Heck, call it "queer socialization". The universial experience of society attempting to beat us into the closet or the grave.
holy fucking shit, a vacant unit diagonal from us had a hot water pipe burst yesterday (? or overnight) and they didnt notice until this morning. hot water was coming out under the front door. they opened the door and it's so steamy it looks like a sauna. dude. what the FUCK do you even do.
December 12, 2025 at 1:50 PM
holy fucking shit, a vacant unit diagonal from us had a hot water pipe burst yesterday (? or overnight) and they didnt notice until this morning. hot water was coming out under the front door. they opened the door and it's so steamy it looks like a sauna. dude. what the FUCK do you even do.
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chakra aligning mattress
December 12, 2025 at 2:56 AM
chakra aligning mattress
as its relevant again today, from what im seeing it seems like most people are still convinced tyler was right wing...? i wonder what's going to happen when that inevitably is shown to not be the case.
December 12, 2025 at 1:21 AM
as its relevant again today, from what im seeing it seems like most people are still convinced tyler was right wing...? i wonder what's going to happen when that inevitably is shown to not be the case.
i have a mini candle advent calendar and yesterday's candle was... milk scented....
December 11, 2025 at 5:02 PM
i have a mini candle advent calendar and yesterday's candle was... milk scented....
how to stop worrying about job while taking time off
December 11, 2025 at 3:59 PM
how to stop worrying about job while taking time off
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not only would this not facilitate communication with my dead nana, it would slowly rewire the way my brain engages with my memories of her, destroying both the peace she believed in & my real actual connection to her. you may as well take a front-end loader to her gravesite
IN DEPTH | If you could speak to your dead grandmother forever, would you?
If you could speak to your dead grandmother forever, would you?
www.independent.co.uk
December 10, 2025 at 11:52 PM
not only would this not facilitate communication with my dead nana, it would slowly rewire the way my brain engages with my memories of her, destroying both the peace she believed in & my real actual connection to her. you may as well take a front-end loader to her gravesite
scary meeting in 5 minutes and then 4 day weekend..... i must endure.....
December 10, 2025 at 8:55 PM
scary meeting in 5 minutes and then 4 day weekend..... i must endure.....
every website has absolutely deranged trans discourse going on rn and it's all wildly different. like. i know this shit waxes and wanes naturally, but what the helllllll is up
December 10, 2025 at 6:55 PM
every website has absolutely deranged trans discourse going on rn and it's all wildly different. like. i know this shit waxes and wanes naturally, but what the helllllll is up
someone asked in the city sub if the hot tub garden is any good and every comment is just "yes it's awesome. i love sucking and fucking there. 10/10. don't worry about the cum, the cleaning chemicals get it". real. anyway they had a sale on gift cards so guess what i'm doing for my day off.
December 10, 2025 at 5:27 PM
someone asked in the city sub if the hot tub garden is any good and every comment is just "yes it's awesome. i love sucking and fucking there. 10/10. don't worry about the cum, the cleaning chemicals get it". real. anyway they had a sale on gift cards so guess what i'm doing for my day off.
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what if you blame yourself for everything because that at least gives you the illusion of control over it?
December 10, 2025 at 12:20 AM
what if you blame yourself for everything because that at least gives you the illusion of control over it?
received permission to resolve like 60 tasks i've had pending for literal months
December 10, 2025 at 3:54 PM
received permission to resolve like 60 tasks i've had pending for literal months
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Turn on the TV. Doesn’t matter what channel.
December 8, 2025 at 9:56 PM
Turn on the TV. Doesn’t matter what channel.
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the reason the kamala is for they/them ads worked so well isn't because the average person actively hates trans people, but because transition is seen as a privileged luxury, despite the increased rates of poverty and unemployment that we face as a result of our transness
December 9, 2025 at 4:50 AM
the reason the kamala is for they/them ads worked so well isn't because the average person actively hates trans people, but because transition is seen as a privileged luxury, despite the increased rates of poverty and unemployment that we face as a result of our transness
when i started my prev position i told my boss i wanted to be a training coordinator someday & she was like "omg youre gonna LOVE talking to the one we have rn" so then i met her and as soon as we were alone she asked if i had a dick and then started talking at length about her phobic relatives
December 9, 2025 at 5:10 PM
when i started my prev position i told my boss i wanted to be a training coordinator someday & she was like "omg youre gonna LOVE talking to the one we have rn" so then i met her and as soon as we were alone she asked if i had a dick and then started talking at length about her phobic relatives
i hoard my pto and then december hits and i remember half of it expires eoy and im forced to fuck my schedule up to cram as much of it in as i can
December 9, 2025 at 4:47 PM
i hoard my pto and then december hits and i remember half of it expires eoy and im forced to fuck my schedule up to cram as much of it in as i can
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some significant part of this is just catch-all fear for “this is not the child I ordered” I think
Oh, here's a big surprise. The transphobes don't believe in ADHD either.
then, the transphobes , feeling victorious at how many people they have made unhappy and despairing in the previous week, move on to anything else that has a spectrum and the possibility of more colours than they can conceive - such hateful people - they cannot understand anything that is not THEM
December 8, 2025 at 1:09 PM
some significant part of this is just catch-all fear for “this is not the child I ordered” I think
nothing to lose because the legs are fucked so im sitting under a solid red light im going to color it and then see what ive done afterwards
December 8, 2025 at 3:59 AM
nothing to lose because the legs are fucked so im sitting under a solid red light im going to color it and then see what ive done afterwards
almost accidentally included my naked ass legs in that sketch photo. bro.
December 8, 2025 at 3:57 AM
almost accidentally included my naked ass legs in that sketch photo. bro.