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Jessy
@jessyh.bsky.social
She/her. Probably not witty enough for here either. Trying to do some good, mostly going to lots of plays.

Unitarian Universalist, women’s 🏀 fan, youth advisor, sexuality educator, energy regulation professional
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What's hilarious is that competent programmers, as well as people studying programming for the very first time, know that all code you write after about 4 hours is garbage. Totally useless, none of it worth salvaging.

Actual programmers hear "I coded for 36 hours" and hear "I gooned for 36 hours"
Working 36 hours straight on Thanksgiving so Grok says Elon is in better shape than LeBron
November 28, 2025 at 8:31 PM
Reminder to people new to organizing - sometimes it’s going to look like this. I don’t want Autism Speaks anywhere near me, but even they are right about this.
November 25, 2025 at 4:56 PM
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WOW! Autism Society of America, The Autistic Self-Advocacy Network, the Autism Science Foundation, the Autistic Women & Nonbinary Network and Autism Speaks put out a statement denouncing the CDC changing its website on vaccines
autisticadvocacy.org/2025/11/lead...
Leading Autism and Disability Organizations Statement on CDC's Vaccines and Autism Page
As national organizations dedicated to advancing the well-being of autistic individuals and partners across the disability and public health sectors, we are deeply disappointed by the latest update to...
autisticadvocacy.org
November 24, 2025 at 11:18 PM
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If you aren't familiar with autism groups, this like the Abundance Democrats and the PSL put out a joint statement
November 25, 2025 at 3:28 AM
It took me way too long to subscribe at a paid level for this, and I am really glad I did!! You should join me!
If you’ve been waiting to upgrade to a paid subscription to Out of Your League, now’s your chance! It’s my annual birthday-season sale! Also makes a great gift for your queer, sports-loving pal. bit.ly/ooylsagseaso...
November 25, 2025 at 4:54 PM
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And an analysis of the problematic nature of the Victoria’s Secret fashion show and the choice to walk in it in 2025:
angel reese didn't need victoria's secret, but it needed her
what feels empowering on an individual level may still perpetuate oppression and harm on a systemic level
www.thefrankiedlc.news
November 25, 2025 at 3:45 PM
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Why fan solidarity could be the WNBA players’ secret weapon in their CBA negotiations:
fan solidarity could be the wnba players' secret weapon
fandom works differently in women's sports than it does in men's—and it skews much more pro-player than pro-owner.
www.thefrankiedlc.news
November 25, 2025 at 3:44 PM
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Other recent posts include a new series called “Out Fits” where I analyze the fashion of your favorite queer women’s sports athletes and help you get their look:
Out Fits: Natasha Cloud
introducing a new series on queer athlete fashion
www.thefrankiedlc.news
November 25, 2025 at 3:43 PM
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I have what I think is the best women’s sports community on the Internet in my subscriber Discord:
are you looking for a queer women's sports community?
the Out of Your League Discord has you covered!
www.thefrankiedlc.news
November 25, 2025 at 3:42 PM
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I run a queer sports book club where the authors join us for discussion!
Book Club | Out of Your League
Dispatches from the intersection of queer sports and pop culture.
www.thefrankiedlc.news
November 25, 2025 at 3:38 PM
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I have a series called “In the Field” where I interview journalists doing great work in the world of sports writing:
In The Field | Out of Your League
Dispatches from the intersection of queer sports and pop culture.
www.thefrankiedlc.news
November 25, 2025 at 3:37 PM
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I wrote one of the first pieces on the Valkyries queer fandom:
ballhalla is queer & the valkyries know it
how the newest wnba franchise found success by embracing the gays
www.thefrankiedlc.news
November 25, 2025 at 3:34 PM
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This essay about how (straight) WAGs are the tradwives of men’s sports:
WAGs are the tradwives of men's sports
They represent a very specific version of the American Dream.
www.thefrankiedlc.news
November 25, 2025 at 3:27 PM
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I know I’m biased, but I think I do very cool and important work! Some of my favorite newsletter editions include: this story on how the gentrification of the New York Liberty mirrors the gentrification of Brooklyn itself:
the gentrification of the WNBA
While “investment in women’s sports” is often uncritically celebrated among league owners and the media, reality is much more complicated.
www.thefrankiedlc.news
November 25, 2025 at 3:25 PM
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If you’ve been waiting to upgrade to a paid subscription to Out of Your League, now’s your chance! It’s my annual birthday-season sale! Also makes a great gift for your queer, sports-loving pal. bit.ly/ooylsagseaso...
November 23, 2025 at 3:52 PM
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sharing for accountability: i didnt expect this to get as much attention as it did and some people are upset with me since this joke originated from a talented creator on tiktok. i did repost her tiktok and just meant to reflavor it for my small audhd community/discord. www.tiktok.com/t/ZTMKLsAtr/
and then we all kiss #fyp #adhdwomen #nuerodivergent #hyperfixation #yapping
TikTok video by Kat
www.tiktok.com
November 16, 2025 at 4:08 PM
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youre asking chatgpt. im asking my discord full of autistic people that i keep in my back pocket. we are not the same.
November 15, 2025 at 5:41 PM
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Hi! I wrote a thing about swimming and trans athletes and [*checks notes*] Santana for @defector.com, would mean a lot if you give it a read
What Does A Great Trans Athlete Deserve? | Defector
Once every week or two, I swim molasses-slow laps at the YMCA. I’ve been on something of a fitness journey this year, testing out different forms of exercise to see what sticks—what feels the least to...
defector.com
November 13, 2025 at 4:30 PM
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“But say the existing research were showing something very different—perhaps even overwhelming evidence that trans women are unfairly more physically gifted in most ways than their cis peers. I don’t know why that’d be grounds to keep them out of women’s sports, where they so clearly belong.”
November 13, 2025 at 4:35 PM
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November 15, 2025 at 2:23 PM
The Anti-Cosmetic Surgery Essay Every Woman Should Read
Long Live the Old Flesh
open.substack.com
November 15, 2025 at 2:17 PM
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The agency behind the real work is a design coop called Forge and they did an absolutely incredible job https://www.forge.coop/
Forge
Forge is a small design and development cooperative.
www.forge.coop
November 8, 2025 at 3:08 PM
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The Mamdani political sign generator is kinda fun https://homes.luddy.indiana.edu/ccshan/for/for.html
November 8, 2025 at 3:06 PM
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November 8, 2025 at 8:55 PM