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Poet, Editor, Farmer, Herbalist, Queer as hell.

He-ing and him-ing

“The Party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command.”
― George Orwell, 1984
it'd be nice to have a family that was more cohesive and not structured the way mine is so that holidays don't end up being like 5 different events people are trying to balance for pretty good reason, maybe next year though
November 27, 2025 at 2:19 AM
partner's trying to watch the last season of stranger things as it drops and netflix broke about it
November 27, 2025 at 1:02 AM
I've never wanted to exercise as much as I have in this couple weeks where I'm not supposed to be doing a lot of that and I can't figure out yet if it's just the 'because I can't do the thing I usually don't want to it's safe to want to" or if it's what I hope "with less dysphoria I feel confident"
November 27, 2025 at 12:15 AM
bc the last week has sucked I ended up being one of the people at the grocery store the day before thanksgiving and it was hectic but also maybe the nicest 'we're all here dealing with the bullshit' vibe i've had at the grocery store
November 27, 2025 at 12:04 AM
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Tomorrow is Thanksgiving for many, but for some it is the National Day of Mourning.

The event will be broadcast. It's worth watching.
United American Indians of New England - UAINE
UAINE is a Native-led organization of Native people and our supporters who fight back against racism and for the freedom of Leonard Peltier and other politic...
www.uaine.org
November 26, 2025 at 1:10 PM
appreciate that the chilly overcast starting to sprinkle rain weather of November in New England is here to set the scene of digging my dog's grave, makes it feel more cathartic this way
November 26, 2025 at 9:03 PM
Oh there's nobody to eat my pizza crusts wtf
Can't wait to find out how many months it's going to take for me to let go of some of my dog's stuff while also feeling the emptiness of loss every time I see the spaces in our home that we're his
November 26, 2025 at 6:35 PM
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No contract, no coffee.

We don’t believe in sitting on the sidelines. Join our Transition co-chair @linamkhan.bsky.social , First Deputy Mayor Dean Fuleihan & @sbworkersunited.org at the picket lines.
November 26, 2025 at 5:54 PM
Can't wait to find out how many months it's going to take for me to let go of some of my dog's stuff while also feeling the emptiness of loss every time I see the spaces in our home that we're his
November 26, 2025 at 5:27 PM
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I think about this post daily
There's a pretty great Tumblr post about this:
November 26, 2025 at 2:53 PM
No. Not today. I will not be rage baited by a vibes based hit piece on ms rachel from somebody who didn't look into some of the easily available information on their claims as a means to blame others for the parts of parenting they haven't fully sorted yet. I am going to eat too much pizza instead.
November 25, 2025 at 11:34 PM
Trying to decide on an ornamental-ish tree and not really locked in on any specific thing besides can live in Rhode Island and would be great if it's native but doesn't need to be so if you've got ones you love I'd love ideas
November 25, 2025 at 11:02 PM
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From r/TransgenderUK: The BBC is putting together a hit piece against GenderGP.
November 25, 2025 at 5:20 PM
I had a post-op appointment this morning where I had been supposed to get my stitches out and I already was pretty sure I wasn't up for it because of last night's loss but I did make myself go in to at minimum have my NP check the area that had been healing a little slower/poorly
November 25, 2025 at 4:57 PM
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Today, after months of requests, I toured the Broadview ICE Processing Facility. I want to share what I saw.

The facility has no food vendor, no medical care, and detainees have to use toilets in the middle of shared cells. These are in no way suitable conditions to be holding anyone — period.
November 25, 2025 at 12:57 AM
shitty life update ):

a few days ago kind hearts here offered love and support about my dog's cancer treatment and I am currently shattered because his cancer progressed much more quickly than anybody expected. Last night/early this morning he was starting to have problems breathing so we spent
November 25, 2025 at 10:14 AM
having fun on the internet is when a conversation gets to the point of referencing the unabombers thoughts on how indigenous ways of living aren't worth learning from
November 25, 2025 at 12:15 AM
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A judge has permanently blocked Trump's destruction of the Institute of Museum and Library Services. Really good news for libraries (and those like me, who love them! www.ala.org/news/2025/11...
Court permanently blocks Trump’s executive order to dismantle federal agency for America’s libraries
Today, the U.S. District Court for the District of Rhode Island struck down the Trump Administration’s attempts to dismantle the Institute of Museum and Library Services (IMLS).
www.ala.org
November 24, 2025 at 10:51 PM
started to feel panic/anxiety symptoms on the physical side while feeling pretty normal emotionally and mentally and still took way too long to realize that I missed meds and because of the time it makes most sense to just live with it four more hours
November 24, 2025 at 8:58 PM
Something I've seen a few times now in a short period is people commenting on a post or in a thread where the topic is related to like "ai sucks" or "why is anyone still on twitter" and like somewhat agree and then blissfully go on to share how they use/do the thing criticized in the post
November 24, 2025 at 4:34 PM
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This is my home. This is my neighborhood. This is my neighbor. I'm fucked up. I'm so fucked up right now. I'm so angry.

via @davidmoralespvd.bsky.social
November 24, 2025 at 11:21 AM
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This is very good. Clear, calm, factual, and devastating for proponents of bans on puberty blockers for trans youth.

theconversation.com/puberty-bloc...
Puberty blockers: why politicians overriding doctors sets a dangerous precedent
The government’s ban on puberty blockers undermines clinical expertise and targets trans youth with a policy that lacks evidence, consistency and fairness.
theconversation.com
November 23, 2025 at 11:42 AM
Haven't thought of it in ages but just bumped into something elsewhere that reminded me of when I was a teenager into fandom and fanfic and people started discourse about how girls were fetishizing gay men through shipping and this was shortly before I figured out my gender shit so it "meant" me
November 24, 2025 at 1:08 AM
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help me get the word out about how this cis man is preying on trans people’s vocal dysphoria! 💀

tiktok post live now:
Please repost & share this to get the word out about how @Seattle Voice Lab allegedly had their work stolen by this creep. ☹️ I bought a book from him before figuring out he was a cis grifter. Did th...
TikTok video by Sage 🏳️‍⚧️
www.tiktok.com
November 23, 2025 at 6:51 AM
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nobody thinks about trans ppl more than transphobes

trans ppl don't even think about trans ppl as much as them
November 23, 2025 at 10:16 PM