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Stefan
@stefan.bsky.social
AuADHD as fvck.
(He/Him). 🏳️‍🌈and🏳️‍⚧️ally.
Sometimes sweary.

ICU Nurse; Poor Law Student; Life Drawing Model; baby Sex Worker under decrim; violinist.
Formerly many other things.
@stefansitsstill.bsky.social
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I’m a bit cynical but utterly open minded, & I know there’s still a few surprises hiding that will either be good for me or not.

I’m a male survivor of FV.

(Oh & I had massive family responsibility from a very young age, so we don’t talk much & really don’t understand each other)

Just so you know
👋🏼 new followers…
I’m a former ICU nurse (& theatre & ED nurse & teacher) who burned everything as a whistleblower for safety (twice).

I’m rebuilding as an unemployed occasional nude life model for artists while studying a JD.

I play violin, I’m newly identified as ND & I’m too old for any of it.
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Today is International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers.

They’re people.

You probably know one, although you might not know it.
They are often marginalised.

They frequently have barriers to accessing both health and legal support.

And it’s time to end violence of all kinds against them.
December 17, 2025 at 3:07 AM
Today is International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers.

They’re people.

You probably know one, although you might not know it.
They are often marginalised.

They frequently have barriers to accessing both health and legal support.

And it’s time to end violence of all kinds against them.
December 17, 2025 at 3:07 AM
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And we must address the mendacious and deliberate conflation of anti-Zionism with antisemitism
December 16, 2025 at 10:32 AM
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More than 600 Americans faced professional consequences for saying things deemed insufficiently reverential after the death of Charlie Kirk. And then there was Rob Reiner.

Read @parkermolloy.com's infuriating forensic analysis:
The Rules of Grief
The post-Kirk purge was never about decency. Trump's response to Rob Reiner's murder proves it.
www.readtpa.com
December 16, 2025 at 8:47 PM
He’ll be dead one day.
December 15, 2025 at 11:23 PM
Animals with misleading names. I'm seeing this go around as part of a viral tumblr thread so I thought I'd reshare it.
December 15, 2025 at 4:39 PM
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Won’t be lectured by an Antisemitism Envoy who won’t condemn an actual Nazi rally.
December 14, 2025 at 9:08 PM
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TAKE NOTICE.
Australian Police refuse to elaborate on the ideology or possible motive of the father and son identified as the alleged Bondi mass shooters.
www.thenewdaily.com.au/news/state/n...
Police refuse to speculate on father and son Bondi gunmen motive
Police refuse to elaborate on the ideology or possible motive of the father and son identified as the alleged Bondi mass shooters.
www.thenewdaily.com.au
December 15, 2025 at 3:37 AM
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Before all the Islamophobia starts from the right wing talking heads and race baiters from Sky After Dark and One Nation … remember … The hero was Muslim…

His is Ahmed al Ahmed.
December 14, 2025 at 1:35 PM
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just. brutal.
GLASHEEN: Antifa is our primary concern right now. That's the most immediate violent threat we're facing

BENNIE THOMPSON: Where is antifa headquartered?

GLASHEEN: ... ... ... we are building out the infrastructure right now

THOMPSON: What does that mean?
December 14, 2025 at 4:57 AM
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Genocidists claiming this is a result of Australia recognising Palestinian statehood should sit this one out and be told unequivocally to fuck right off
December 14, 2025 at 10:57 AM
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Many of the accounts on X that are now opportunistically spreading anti-immigration content in the wake of the Bondi attack are *not even located in Australia*
December 14, 2025 at 11:36 AM
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Ahmed the Fruiterer being the everyday hero that saved multiple lives of mostly Jewish people today is the only politics worth a pinch of shit in this act of terrorism
December 14, 2025 at 12:36 PM
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The work of the @jewishcouncilau.bsky.social over the last 2 years has been incredible - exemplifying decency, kindness, courage and compassion. The shooting this evening at Bondi is almost incomprehensible - and again the Council responds with love
December 14, 2025 at 12:11 PM
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Jillian Segal is a danger to social cohesion. Claiming that public support for Palestine directly enabled this terror is beyond vile. People who are against genocide in Palestine are also against the murder of Jewish people and anyone else. Segal is a pernicious vulture.

#Bondi #Auspol
December 14, 2025 at 11:40 AM
I hate that while we can say we’re anti-zionist in Australia (and pro-Palestine), fvcking violence like this attack in Bondi says we’re Anti-semetic as well.

This was apparently, and clearly, an attack on Jewish Australians.

That’s not the Australia I know. It’s not an Australia I want.
December 14, 2025 at 12:35 PM
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Jesus Christ
“The work was emotionally exhausting, with chat users confiding intimate details about their real-life relationships, as well as their own emotional trauma, falsely believing they were talking to an unfeeling AI chatbot.”
AI "Companion Bots" Actually Run by Exploited Kenyans, Worker Claims
A new testimony from a remote worker in Kenya details the grueling and exploitative work behind romantic AI chatbots.
futurism.com
December 12, 2025 at 5:36 PM
December 12, 2025 at 11:10 AM
Wow.

Linda won the fight to protect her reputation.

She has utterly and irredeemably trashed her reputation in doing so.

Smart person like her would have known what a Pyrrhic victory is?

(Files under “BRS”)
December 12, 2025 at 4:28 AM
Feeling guilty* I can’t work a double shift (18.5hrs) without notice.

Having said that, I’m not sure I can work a standard 12hrs any more.

(*Guilty bit at least I know why nowadays. At least I’ve got that going for me).

Progress, huh?
December 11, 2025 at 9:00 AM
I had a birthday yesterday. A big one.

I’m hopeful that some things in my life are sorted, other things are kinda nearly sorted and others are firmly rejected as serving no purpose.

All need tending to develop, because all are new.

I’ve realised I’m probably not growing up, though. Not really.
December 9, 2025 at 2:41 AM
Movie you've watched more than six times with a gif. Hard mode: no star wars, Marvel etc.

(Not the gif I asked for, but it is the gif I needed)
December 7, 2025 at 11:14 PM
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A significant Melbourne artist died this morning.

I was lucky to have posed for him several times in my first year modelling.

Vale Ian.

<please ignore the labels…though please note the relevant label is Artistic Nudity as the post does contain Artistic Nudity).
There’s an artist in the community where I started. His contribution was outsized to being just one person.

He was known to some as “Mr Lifedrawing” though that should have been “Dr Lifedrawing”.

He died this morning.

He will be missed greatly.

Vale.
December 7, 2025 at 12:41 AM