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Stefan
@stefan.bsky.social
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AuADHD as fvck.
(He/Him). 🏳️‍🌈and🏳️‍⚧️ally.
Sometimes sweary.

ICU Nurse; Poor Law Student; Life Drawing Model; baby Sex Worker under decrim; violinist.
Formerly many other things.
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Thank you Dr Hilary!!!

@amellee.bsky.social summed it up well. There’s a card for everyone, it turns out.
A red birthday card with white writing that says “happy birthday to you and your wildly untreated ADHD...” A “u” has been written in for accuracy.
December 7, 2025 at 11:36 PM
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Ping @c0nc0rdance.bsky.social, regarding rocks…

www.instagram.com/p/DR2l_uckSc...
Black text on white background from an Instagram account “howthingwwork”. Bethan's Rock 2019 On 23rd August 2019, Bethan visited Poole Museum. After talking with her mum about what museums do. Bethan decided she wanted to donate her 'most precious' rock to the museum. She asked that we put it behind glass and look after it, so that everyone could see and enjoy it. A rock in a display case with an explanatory note. The note says: Bethan's Rock 2019 On 23rd August 2019, Bethan visited Poole Museum. After talking with her mum about what museums do. Bethan decided she wanted to donate her 'most precious' rock to the museum. She asked that we put it behind glass and look after it, so that everyone could see and enjoy it. Two pictures of a black/green/white knobbly, and very pleasing, rock.
December 6, 2025 at 7:46 AM
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I’m late to the something beautiful thread, so here’s this on your way out. This was last night.

Night!
Sunset, Darwin, Australia
December 4, 2025 at 3:38 AM
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Posted elsewhere.

@redfiddler.bsky.social @bassoonysu.bsky.social @kpsinging.bsky.social in particular but anyone who can read music.

(Credit suzanwolski on threads).
Hark! The Herald Angels Sing by R Astley.
December 3, 2025 at 1:11 PM
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And the sun has gone, leaving vivid pastel colours across the sky. It’s the sand on the foreground, with the ocean a beautiful lilac (think lavender smell) with strips of cool blue and shades of warm pinks and oranges across the sky. The cools and warms are separate, but also blended so you can feel them all, or feel one at a time.
December 3, 2025 at 9:44 AM
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First trip back since the cyclone. I love this walk…
Sunset.
December 3, 2025 at 9:27 AM
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She’s obviously much better than I am…I’ve played over 40 years, though.

It’s a good approach for muscle memory when you can’t play or want to break it up.
Stefan’s arm and 1870-odd violin.
December 1, 2025 at 3:49 PM
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And it hurts under bare feet and in nursing we have a meme about the Lego pain scale…
LEGO PAIN SCALE (PICTURES OF LEGO FACES, INCREASING IN UNCOMFORTABLENESS) NO PAIN A LITTLE PAIN GETTING WORSE OMG IT HURTS SHOOT ME SINCE STEPPING ON A LEGO IS THE MOST PAINFUL EXPERIENCE IN THE WORLD WE THOUGHT IT ONLY BEST TO UPGRADE THE PAIN SCALE TO A LEGO FORMAT. Picture of a cutaway Lego person with anatomy Lego style.
November 25, 2025 at 2:15 PM
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Therapist: Pick your battles

Me: let’s see…(proceeds to list current life challenges)

Therapist:
Viking in the background, white text over the picture. The text says: Pick your battles. Pick fewer battles than that. Put some battles back. That's still too many battles.
November 23, 2025 at 9:29 PM
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I just wanna tell you how I'm feeling
Gotta make you understand

Never gonna give you up, never gonna let you down
Never gonna run around and desert you
Never gonna make you cry, never gonna say goodbye
Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you…
November 23, 2025 at 3:26 AM
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This:
Labels on the account Unable to appeal
November 14, 2025 at 12:06 AM
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Credit to the original artist (not me).
Surgeon writing notes: Cause of Death: "Patient laid down the boogie and played that funky music til he died."
November 9, 2025 at 8:56 AM
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Did not expect that…
My bird, Pip, likes Ed Sheeran
October 31, 2025 at 4:46 AM
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If you see this, post four female characters you love.
(TV/movie version)
7 of 9 Paloma Willow Starbuck
October 29, 2025 at 6:23 AM
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Yep.

@amellee.bsky.social and I found a bag that describes it perfectly.
Giddy uP Sparkle Farts theres Chaos to Spread
October 26, 2025 at 12:42 AM
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The same but lower. Nearly gone from view (only because physics it’s already gone, etc)
October 22, 2025 at 9:11 AM
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Woosh, etc.
Today’s sunset. It’s a glorious gold, with the tide coming in on wet sand.
October 22, 2025 at 8:51 AM
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Doesn’t go out of date.
"I did (1) my own (2) research (3)" 1 watched 2 someone else's 3 shitty youtube video
October 21, 2025 at 10:18 PM
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October 19, 2025 at 9:40 AM
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The sun descending into the sea with a stretch of sand across the foreground.
October 19, 2025 at 8:57 AM
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Sunset
October 10, 2025 at 8:50 AM
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Proof (warning: bum)
Stefan standing on a river bank wearing a blue beanie. Only a blue beanie. (Photo from behind, arms outstretched.)
October 8, 2025 at 2:11 AM
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Proof (warning: bum)
Stefan standing on a river bank wearing a blue beanie. Only a blue beanie. (Photo from behind, arms outstretched.)
October 8, 2025 at 2:10 AM
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No photos at camp though (for reasons)
@amellee.bsky.social at Mindil markets is n Thursday. @amellee.bsky.social at Barrow Creek pub on the way out of Alice
October 4, 2025 at 10:11 AM
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North of Port Augusta.
Wexie the van with the sun rising behind. The dirt is RED. @amellee.bsky.social making coffee.
September 29, 2025 at 9:59 PM