Dr. KFA 🏳️‍⚧️
@kfadams.bsky.social
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Parent | Wife | PhD | Oregonian | Trans | Computer Scientist | Systems | Early 40s. TL a mess of tech, science, politics, defense, humor, trans stuff, and games. I’m awkward AF. she/her. Posts not endorsed or representative of my employer(s).
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kfadams.bsky.social
Howdy new followers!

I’m Keira!

Yes, I’m trans.

I talk about lots of stuff but given the looming…. Unpleasantness for
LGBTQ people I’m probably gonna spend a lot of time ranting about those issues so uh, be forewarned.

If that bothers you, move on.
kfadams.bsky.social
“We are using blockchain”
impavid.us
In honor of spooky month, share a 4 word horror story that only someone in your profession would understand

I'll go first: Six page commercial lease.
kfadams.bsky.social
Ugh, minor *note*

The brain drain…
kfadams.bsky.social
The researcher of minor not to hot girl who doesn’t want to work pipeline is real
kfadams.bsky.social
Is this why I’m now wanting to ditch my doctorate fueled career?!?
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impossiblephd.bsky.social
In honor of spooky month, share a 4 word horror story only someone in your profession would understand

“AI-written industrial instructions"
swilua.bsky.social
In honor of spooky month, share a 4 word horror story only someone in your profession would understand

“papers in IEEE format”
deaconblues1979.bsky.social
In honor of spooky month, share a 4 word horror story that only someone in your profession would understand.

"Mixed inclusion ratio trust"
kfadams.bsky.social
Pence was so utterly forgettable he worked. He would blandly say whatever he needed to say to give air cover and hide.

Vance wants the boss’s job and it shows.

I mean, I’m all for infighting with these shitbags but it’s _interesting_ to watch as the world falls apart around us.
kfadams.bsky.social
Couch fucker was an interesting choice for this admin.

He’s appropriately evil and stupid, but in contrast to Pence he comes off as unspeakably weird and gross as opposed to a confused doormat.
atrupar.com
STEPHANOPOULOS: I didn't insinuate anything. I asked you whether Tom Homan accepted $50k as was heard on an audio tape recorded by the FBI in September 2024. You did not answer the question. Thank you for your time.

VANCE: No, George, I sai--

STEPHANOPOULOS: We'll be right back
kfadams.bsky.social
And now you’re chasing down replies and comments to continue being defensive.

You could easily have blocked or muted or whatever.

So yeah, it does feel a bit like you’re looking for a punching bag because one piece of advice didn’t work for you.
kfadams.bsky.social
You wrote a multi post reply to honestly a pretty milquetoast comment about putting yourself out there.

Fine to disagree with, even. I’ve certainly not agreed with every take she’s made.

But you made it clear this was a Big Deal to you and laid into her a bit and were frankly condescending.
kfadams.bsky.social
You look stunning!

I’m both incredibly happy for you, and a touch envious.

I hope to see similar in myself, some day.

Been dreaming about it (sometimes literally) since I was 13.
kfadams.bsky.social
I mean I’m in a low grade existential crisis cause sans career I have to deal with my thoughts and actually acknowledge I have no fucking clue where I’m going or what I want so uhhhhhh…. That?
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pookleblinky.bsky.social
There's lots of ways this is expressed.

One is the Peter Principle: tech CEO promotes such as a programmer to a management position where the job is just to send 3 emails a day.

Suddenly that engineer is in a sinecure job, endless free time, and a direct line to the CEO about his weird ideas.
kfadams.bsky.social
Also JFC, it’s not hard to just ignore takes on social media you don’t agree with when they’re not like, existential issues.

If you wade in, kinda on you if the OP tells you to take a walk.
kfadams.bsky.social
The only things these fucking morons -don’t- do on accident is fire people.
apoorvanyt.bsky.social
The Trump administration on Saturday scrambled to rescind layoffs of hundreds of CDC scientists who were mistakenly fired on Friday night in what appeared to be a substantial procedural lapse.

www.nytimes.com/2025/10/11/h...
Trump Administration Is Bringing Back Scores of C.D.C. Experts Fired in Error
www.nytimes.com
kfadams.bsky.social
It’s not ancient!

Shit.

It might be ancient.

Am I ancient?
kfadams.bsky.social
My wife said I was something of an anomaly.

Paraphrased: women were for relationships, men were for sex.

Turns out I was less of a combo breaker than we thought lol.

“Hey this is great, I won at pansexual bingo! Got some kids, now I get version 2!”
kfadams.bsky.social
My wife’s first words when I came out to her nearly 2 years ago at 39 were

<drum roll>

“Don’t take this the wrong way, but I’m not surprised”

In her following words “I knew you were queer, no idea what form it was. Knew you needed space. But love, I saw some queer ass shit from the time we met”
kfadams.bsky.social
Beware the goth/witchy pipeline.
kfadams.bsky.social
Oh hey.

It’s me.

(Though I already was dabbling, kinda helped cement it)
trans.bsky.social
every time a goth girl puts makeup on an anxious man, a transgender angel gets her wings
kfadams.bsky.social
I had a double take moment boymoding at my previous job, but I dithered another few months and just used their all gender bathroom before diving in.

I survived. Nobody yelled at or confronted me.
kfadams.bsky.social
I didn’t start reliably using it until about 8 laser sessions in fairness.

But @madgant.bsky.social has a point in at some point you may need to brave the discomfort, but only at your own pace.
kfadams.bsky.social
On the contrary, pretty much everyone who knows you likes you, dude.

Just sayin’ ;)