Julie S. Lalonde
@julieslalonde.bsky.social
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6x award-winning feminist buzzkill. Franco-ontarienne du nord de l'Ontario. 🏳️‍🌈 Femme. I teach community care for a living and wrote a book about why resilience is futile, babyyyy ✌🏻 Actually fun™️ 📍Ottawa, Canada YellowManteau.com
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Lots of new folks here! 👋

I've spent 20+ years working as a violence prevention educator.

- Find my free bystander intervention webinars here : linktr.ee/JulieSLalonde

- Hire me for trainings : yellowmanteau.com

- My memoir "Resilience is Futile" is available globally wherever books are sold✌️
Julie S. Lalonde holding a copy of her memoir "Resilience is Futile : The Life and Death and Life of Julie S. Lalonde"
julieslalonde.bsky.social
I know sports fan/"stan" culture is toxic because Diane died and people are saying "She was iconic AND defended a child molester" and people are nodding along like, yes!Both are true!

Meanwhile, I tweeted "Don't forget Kobe was a rapist" and got so many death threats, cops told me to go into hiding
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Oh and this isn't because I'm some diehard Thanksgiving lover. I didn't grow up doing anything for Thanksgiving because it was usually the start of hunting season, so all the men were on the land. And now I'm vegan, so I truly DGAF about Thanksgiving 😂 I just hate people being smug AND wrong.
julieslalonde.bsky.social
This post brought to you by seeing suuuper snarky performative outrage comments under people's photos on Instagram. Just people enjoying a meal or apple picking or whatever and people being like "Hum. Pretty gross of you to celebrate colonialism."

Just ludicrous behaviour, year after year.
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Thanksgiving in Canada has nothing to do with Columbus!

We are a colonial country with a million things to atone for but Thanksgiving is not one of them.

Our Thanksgiving is timed with the harvest and it's literally just "Be grateful for harvest"

US Imperialism has brain rotted too many of you.
julieslalonde.bsky.social
I've always had such conflicting feelings about Diane Keaton.

A style icon who truly did things her own way AND a lifelong diehard Woody Allen defender.

"First Wives Club" is one of my favourite movies and this calls for a re-watch:
a woman in a trench coat is dancing in front of a man in a black suit .
ALT: a woman in a trench coat is dancing in front of a man in a black suit .
media.tenor.com
Reposted by Julie S. Lalonde
antistalkingcanada.bsky.social
Today is the International Day of the Girl!

Did you know that in Canada, girls and young women under 25 have the highest rates of sexual assault AND criminal harassment?

All girls deserve a life free from violence ❤️‍🩹
Cartoon image of three young women with the words "October 11: International Day of the Girl"
julieslalonde.bsky.social
People love to come on here and accuse me of carceral feminism but all I'm seeing are 50+ men that are literally on camera sexually assaulting an unconscious woman and yet literally telling the courts that they are the actual victims.

They are clearly not safe to be out in the world right now.
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Uncomfortable conversation my sector has not yet faced is how this horrific case demonstrates the difficulty of restorative justice practices for sexual assault.

These men are literally on camera, committing these acts and still refuse to take accountability.
julieslalonde.bsky.social
This has the same energy as men who email me to say "Men's violence against women is not real and I'm gonna prove it by raping and killing you."
newsguy.bsky.social
The Guardian- The US president may impose tariffs, demand higher NATO contributions or even declare Norway an enemy, analyst says, if on Friday he is not awarded the Nobel Peace Prize. www.theguardian.com/world/202...
Norway braces for Trump’s reaction if he does not win Nobel peace prize
US president may impose tariffs, demand higher Nato contributions or even declare Norway an enemy, analyst says
www.theguardian.com
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Appreciative of @runchinguyenrun.bsky.social using her time in Parliament today to recognize the importance of C-11 but specifically, the contributions of us civil society experts who've been demanding better yet consistently shut out.

Being name dropped in a positive way re: CAF is refreshing 😂
Statement on C-11
YouTube video by MP Chi Nguyen
www.youtube.com
julieslalonde.bsky.social
If you live in & around beautiful Muskoka, join me for this amazing conference on building equity in the Muskoka region!

I'll be teaching bystander intervention & the practical skills of community care.

Hosted at the Canada Summit Centre in Huntsville, it's a free event but you gotta register!
Hate Free Muskoka Two Day Symposium (Nov 7th & 8th)
Two days dedicated to deepening inclusion, diversity, equity, anti-racism, and belonging in the District of Muskoka.
www.eventbrite.ca
julieslalonde.bsky.social
We are not powerless in the face of rising hate, harassment and violence. If we take the time to learn effective de-escalation and intervention skills, we CAN keep each other safe.

Give me 1 hour of your time and I'll teach you how. It's free and open to anyone aged 12+ ✊

zoom.us/webinar/regi...
Image of multicoloured hands pointing at the words "Together we're strong"
julieslalonde.bsky.social
The man is currently *in prison* serving a sentence for sexual assault but the legal system stays the charges on this other assault. Bananas.
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Dogshit police work means a serial rapist walks.

Where is the justice for the countless survivors of this monster?
karenpaulscbc.bsky.social
A judge has stayed all charges in the Winnipeg sexual assault case against disgraced fashion mogul Peter #Nygard, finding his Charter right to a fair trial was breached by police failing to retain records related to allegations stemming from the 1990s. www.cbc.ca/news/canada/...
Judge stays charges against Peter Nygard in Winnipeg sexual assault case | CBC News
A judge has stayed all charges in the Winnipeg sexual assault case against disgraced fashion mogul Peter Nygard, finding his right to a fair trial was violated by police failing to retain records rela...
www.cbc.ca
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Michelle, in particular, married an American and lives primarily in the US. Her and Danielle Smith wish they were American soOoOoOoO bAd
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Also, "Canadian Black Friday" is not a thing and I explicitly girlcott any brands that partake in that nonsense.
julieslalonde.bsky.social
and Canadian media.
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twice a year the entire U.S. press becomes a marketing extension of a single billionaire-owned retailer, and nobody in any position of editorial power thinks it's weird or gross
photo of Google News search results for Amazon Prime Day (the second this year)
Reposted by Julie S. Lalonde
marygillis.bsky.social
Conservatives shit on the arts but they can't get enough security theatre.
thetyee.ca
Alberta launched its border patrol last year to help stop the flow of illegal drugs and migrants across what Premier Smith called the “leaky” U.S. border.

But the Interdiction Patrol Team has so far made only a handful of arrests, according to data released through an access to information request.
Alberta’s Border Patrol Has Made Only a Handful of Arrests | The Tyee
Ten months in, critics are concerned about the $29-million cost and few results from the initiative.
thetyee.ca
Reposted by Julie S. Lalonde
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Have you ever witnessed sexual harassment on the bus & not known what to do? Ever heard a transphobic slur being hurled at someone and worried that stepping in would just make it worse?

Let me teach you effective bystander intervention - for free!

I've got 4 webinars left! Registration links :
@julieslalonde | Linktree
Come learn bystander intervention with me - It's free!
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julieslalonde.bsky.social
Booksellers do occasionally make offers like that for e-pubs to drum up interest.
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Co-signing this.

I co-founded the Radical Handmaids in 2012 to defeat an anti-choice bill* and a huge reason we were effective is that anti-choicers couldn't make fun of us because at least we *knew* we looked silly. They looked stupid as hell but took themselves seriously.

*we succeeded 💅
rds773.bsky.social
This is why we need more costumed protesters

Hard to cosplay as a badass when a giant frog or a dino or a big pink pig is waving its arms and thrusting its pelvis at you