Jen needs a Wishing Well
jenmindelen.bsky.social
Jen needs a Wishing Well
@jenmindelen.bsky.social
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"Seditious" Humanist, Book Dealer, Cat Witch, Live-in Caretaker, Autistic, brain injured, happily partnered.

Scribe of @breakmyfall

Housing, living wages & universal healthcare for all

Spread kindness, repel bigotry

#StopThisCoup

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I can be a lot

Me: cats, crows, cake, books, tv, forests, true crime

An Old, a Poor, a hermit, dark humor, long winded oversharer, currently terrified & hopeless

Pro: inclusion, UBI, science, learning, kindness

I'm rehabbing a brain injury using the music of #TheAirborneToxicEvent
The Department of War is not your former democracy's Pentagon

DOGE fired the DEI toppings in favor of Beef Tallow

Hegseth put the entire pie on a diet
move over, Pentagon Pizza Index
December 4, 2025 at 10:09 PM
Hoomom here. This photo of Kayla was posted yesterday shortly after she ate tree flocking. She's fine. Vomited it up. We found it funny but shame on us. Per Google-"Tree flocking is bad for cats because it can be toxic if ingested & cause intestinal blocks". Just beware. Flock is a no no 🩷
December 4, 2025 at 9:59 PM
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for those of you who want secure messaging, without the possibility of being surveilled (read: 1CE), I might suggest something like Session.

Signal, WhatsApp, etc. all exist on centralized servers. All information can be collected.

getsession.org
Session | Send Messages, Not Metadata. | Private Messenger
Session is a private messenger that aims to remove any chance of metadata collection by routing all messages through an onion routing network.
getsession.org
December 4, 2025 at 4:33 PM
i hate everything
Early in this ACIP meeting, Vicky Pebsworth blamed gay men, promiscuous women, urban residents, and immigrants for spreading HBV in the U.S.

Then Evelyn Griffin said, out loud, that “illegal immigrants” are to blame.

This committee should be DISBANDED and exiled to science Siberia.
December 4, 2025 at 9:28 PM
Mom, nonstop coughing & gasping for breath through the end life / POLST / advanced directive video appointment w/the palliative care social worker

That's what talking does to her - O2 saturation dips to 85%, coughing starts

...despite being on 15 liters of O2 per min

Anyhow, DNR is official now 💔
December 2, 2025 at 9:02 PM
It would be really great if everyone who can do this would do this

Tis the season
This year, every time I see a Salvation Army bell ringer, I plan to donate money to help house a person or persons that they would have turned away.
December 2, 2025 at 7:30 PM
He...."let" them vote

His adult daughters

He "let" them?!?!

does he think he is commander in gilead or something
Guy voted for a rapist and just can’t figure out why his daughters are mad at him. Clearly it must be something wrong with them.
December 2, 2025 at 6:02 PM
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Listen, if you tell me that “taxation is theft” I’m going to need you to quit driving on highways or walking on sidewalks or attending a public school or using police or fire services or city snow removal.

I would mention libraries, but…
December 2, 2025 at 3:52 PM
Seeing a lot of "family issues" related posts on my Skyline, so I'll add my hot take / hill to die on

Do NOT force children to hug, kiss, or otherwise physically interact with family and friends if they don't want to

Children deserve bodily autonomy as much as anyone
December 2, 2025 at 3:34 PM
"Pretty much"
“FUCKING EPIC! (Derogatory)”
December 1, 2025 at 10:22 PM
CW: gun violence

"Do you feel like you’ve been changed because of this work?"

Well, since we continue to sanitize the horror of shootings by applying the term to non violent activities,

Including filming bedrooms of shot children,

probably not *enough*

We can do better

#WordsMatter
December 1, 2025 at 10:09 PM
🎶Everybody but the dog, you can all fuck off🎶

#ProtestSongs
#Gayle #abcdefu
#StopThisCoup
Mum: Why did you smear spaghetti sauce all across the walls?

Karoline: This relates to a question Dad asked about the Teletubbies show I was watching, and what's interesting is that show has been taped on VHS so it's freely available for anyone to rewatch it. I'll now take a question from the dog
December 1, 2025 at 9:27 PM
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Saw this from an oncologist and had to post it.

“Vaccines cause adults, not autism.”
December 1, 2025 at 1:11 AM
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My mom just told me her friend tried to buy my book on Amazon and it’s temporarily sold out. 🥹 Now I need a favor: if you bought my book it would be so helpful if you could leave a review. I don’t care if it’s Amazon, Goodreads or my publisher’s website. Let me tell you why this is important.
December 1, 2025 at 12:39 AM
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Just a quiet, sad little PSA.

If someone is estranged from their parents, please please don’t give them the ‘but they’re your mum/ dad’

They were their mum / dad when they did the worst imaginable things to their own kids.

It’s not up to the children to make it ok. It’s up to them to live well.
November 30, 2025 at 8:41 PM
24 Hours of Sir Oranche-A-Lot aka Monster of Chaos aka Rocky

A 🧵

#CatsOfBluesky #CatSky
November 30, 2025 at 9:55 PM
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We're in TWO contests! Vote for the blind, FELV+, & FIV+ cats—it's free & quick! Daily votes help them win!

🔗 Shelter Challenge: bit.ly/3Ue7TmV
🔗 Accuradio: bit.ly/44kIGg5 click on any station, type Blind Cat Rescue in the popup & click Submit!

Thank you for helping the kitties! 💙
November 30, 2025 at 7:15 PM
Did a display thing w/tarot cards from incomplete decks. will add a sign about tarot decks being perfect stocking stuffers / yule gifts once I think of clever wording

We will have over 100 decks for sale, all kinds, great selection

We sell single cards at $2 each, they make for good art supplies
November 30, 2025 at 3:35 PM
Amazing thread
Every Thanksgiving I cook. Even though there has only been at the most 4 at the table, except one yr when my parents flew out to be with us. Now that hubs is gone and oldest is in FL, my youngest and I were going to be it. I gathered the necessary items over a few months. Then I found
November 30, 2025 at 3:09 PM
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If Trump is innocent, prove it.

If you're a politician and don't support rapists or pedophiles, prove it.

If you're a politician and aren't complicit in Epstein's crimes, prove it.

Release the Epstein files.
November 29, 2025 at 7:29 PM
A win again

The book stalls produced our highest revenue day ever since launch (March 2024)

So it's another Sometime Around Midnight work session

I'm counting cards from 100+ tarot decks to keep that sales momentum going through December

#SellingUsedBooks
#ShareYourWins
November 30, 2025 at 3:51 AM
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Hey, you into supporting small creators? You can support two of them, as well as a bunch of stray animals in Bosnia and Herzegovina, if you buy my books talesfrompurgatory.com
November 29, 2025 at 5:24 PM
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This thread is me sharing how I deal with prioritizing self care when I'm too fatigued or depressed to do self-care but I need to do self-care to stop being fatigued/depressed. Breaking it down to be as simple as possible in case you're on your last brain cell (and therefore most in need of it).
November 29, 2025 at 6:29 PM
To all of you who say "a reckoning is coming"

You give me hope

Sort of

I'm done with hope bc I don't handle disappointment well & have too many disappointments in my daily life to take on existential ones

But that SO MANY of you think a reckoning is imminent

I can at least hope you are right
November 29, 2025 at 9:09 PM
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any editors out there want a piece that’s a blend of personal narrative & reporting on breaking the silence around suicide, inspired by my last few days on social media? DM me. (retweets appreciated—I started writing it this AM)
November 29, 2025 at 8:32 PM