Neth, Living Life Best I Can
@nethilia.bsky.social
Pagan queer demifemme black woman. Xllenial. Texpat, WA life. Toy/doll collector. Fiber Crafter. Fantasy author, fantasy hair. Artist. Black Lives and Black Dolls Matter. Runs doll wikis and does it well.
She/Her and Zie/Zem.
She/Her and Zie/Zem.
Pinned
Pinned post for now.
I'm Neth. I sometimes draw, sometimes craft, sometimes write, and do none of it for money.
I often do lots of Wiki work, particularly for the American Girl Wiki. I used to blog about AG dolls but I've been out of it mentally.
I'm Neth. I sometimes draw, sometimes craft, sometimes write, and do none of it for money.
I often do lots of Wiki work, particularly for the American Girl Wiki. I used to blog about AG dolls but I've been out of it mentally.
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
A girl on tiktok said "detachment is crazy because you'll still care. still remember their birthday. still hope they're okay. You just stop showing it" and that's so real.
December 21, 2025 at 2:09 AM
A girl on tiktok said "detachment is crazy because you'll still care. still remember their birthday. still hope they're okay. You just stop showing it" and that's so real.
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
will never stop thinking about brittany murphy
December 7, 2025 at 2:30 AM
will never stop thinking about brittany murphy
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
Unfortunately, rocking around the christmas tree has been phased out in favor of papering around the christmas tree.
But don't worry, the next step in the cycle is going to be VERY interesting.
But don't worry, the next step in the cycle is going to be VERY interesting.
November 28, 2025 at 4:33 PM
Unfortunately, rocking around the christmas tree has been phased out in favor of papering around the christmas tree.
But don't worry, the next step in the cycle is going to be VERY interesting.
But don't worry, the next step in the cycle is going to be VERY interesting.
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
We’re at the point now where people are calling being anti-LLMs as “outrage” as a convenient way to characterise it as unreasonable, and it’s annoying. I’m not outraged, I’m repulsed. I don’t want your stolen shit. It’s gross. You are a fucking loser to me
December 17, 2025 at 8:02 PM
We’re at the point now where people are calling being anti-LLMs as “outrage” as a convenient way to characterise it as unreasonable, and it’s annoying. I’m not outraged, I’m repulsed. I don’t want your stolen shit. It’s gross. You are a fucking loser to me
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
This fandom has a reputation for being "suspiciously wealthy" but the truth is most furries just love and value art and people so much that they want to use their money for art and supporting artists so they can make a living doing what they love. It's a cycle of genuine passion I think.
November 10, 2025 at 8:17 PM
This fandom has a reputation for being "suspiciously wealthy" but the truth is most furries just love and value art and people so much that they want to use their money for art and supporting artists so they can make a living doing what they love. It's a cycle of genuine passion I think.
A couple weeks ago my @crittervalley.bsky.social Critterfolk plushies arrived--I got Clover and Cinder. I also got a bunch of outfits and stuff.
Next goal: Knitting them extra clothes. (I hope patterns for clothes come out later.)
Next goal: Knitting them extra clothes. (I hope patterns for clothes come out later.)
December 15, 2025 at 6:50 AM
A couple weeks ago my @crittervalley.bsky.social Critterfolk plushies arrived--I got Clover and Cinder. I also got a bunch of outfits and stuff.
Next goal: Knitting them extra clothes. (I hope patterns for clothes come out later.)
Next goal: Knitting them extra clothes. (I hope patterns for clothes come out later.)
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
there’s just a certain type of person who would show up to your writer’s group wanting praise for presenting work but violently rejecting any form of constructive criticism that might improve it, and that right there is the target market for AI
September 2, 2024 at 5:21 PM
there’s just a certain type of person who would show up to your writer’s group wanting praise for presenting work but violently rejecting any form of constructive criticism that might improve it, and that right there is the target market for AI
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
He’s also responsible for helping to overturn Prop 8 in CA, teeing up the original marriage equality cases that led to Obergefell, helping start First 5, getting smoking banned in CA bars, and dozens of other causes. The world lost a truly remarkable person.
The cultural impact of Rob Reiner cannot be understated. Legend isn't big enough a word. It goes to 11. You can't handle the truth. As you wish. I'll have what she's having. I'm your number one fan. You guys wanna see a dead body? The very idea of a bucket list. The West Wing.
All from his movies.
All from his movies.
December 15, 2025 at 5:54 AM
He’s also responsible for helping to overturn Prop 8 in CA, teeing up the original marriage equality cases that led to Obergefell, helping start First 5, getting smoking banned in CA bars, and dozens of other causes. The world lost a truly remarkable person.
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
every post is like i bet you didn’t know this absolutely wonderful thing about rob reiner and each one is different
December 15, 2025 at 4:42 AM
every post is like i bet you didn’t know this absolutely wonderful thing about rob reiner and each one is different
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
me, a crafter: walk carefully, I don't know where I dropped that needle this time.
5. What is something you use frequently that you lose a lot?
December 10, 2025 at 4:41 PM
me, a crafter: walk carefully, I don't know where I dropped that needle this time.
My momma said that if her child already spoke up and said I didn't want to eat the squash, the woman who put it on my plate was the one that wasted the food, not me.
18. Why are you the way that you are?
December 10, 2025 at 4:39 PM
My momma said that if her child already spoke up and said I didn't want to eat the squash, the woman who put it on my plate was the one that wasted the food, not me.
Dealing with a subset of people who get really pissed when me, a black woman, know shit they don't and they resent it.
the subset is white women.
the subset is white women.
13. What is something you didn't realize was draining your energy until you stopped doing it?
December 10, 2025 at 4:37 PM
Dealing with a subset of people who get really pissed when me, a black woman, know shit they don't and they resent it.
the subset is white women.
the subset is white women.
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
BLACK PEOPLE LOVE RESPECTABILITY POLITICS AND IT HAS LITERALLY NEVER BENEFITTED THEM. AND YES IM MAD ABOUT IT.
13. Enough with the boomer complaints. Let me hear your problems with the black community.
January 28, 2025 at 2:12 PM
BLACK PEOPLE LOVE RESPECTABILITY POLITICS AND IT HAS LITERALLY NEVER BENEFITTED THEM. AND YES IM MAD ABOUT IT.
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
Having to deal with the death of someone. You don’t get over death it just become tolerable at a point and grief becomes an everyday emotion.
11. What is something that is more traumatizing than people realize?
November 25, 2025 at 10:51 PM
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
Intelligence is about the accumulation, retention and application of information, focused on cognition
Wisdom is about the integration of knowledge, experience, sound judgement, along with an understanding of the implications in complex situations and impacts to other people
Wisdom is about the integration of knowledge, experience, sound judgement, along with an understanding of the implications in complex situations and impacts to other people
19. What is the difference between intelligence and wisdom?
December 28, 2024 at 1:49 PM
Intelligence is about the accumulation, retention and application of information, focused on cognition
Wisdom is about the integration of knowledge, experience, sound judgement, along with an understanding of the implications in complex situations and impacts to other people
Wisdom is about the integration of knowledge, experience, sound judgement, along with an understanding of the implications in complex situations and impacts to other people
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
Reminder that muting specific words on social media for a day, a week, a month, or even forever can be laudatory self-care.
September 11, 2025 at 3:00 PM
Reminder that muting specific words on social media for a day, a week, a month, or even forever can be laudatory self-care.
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
There are no AI bands with a large and engaged listenership. That black mirror nonsense is not happening, at all, anywhere. Each time one of these prompt-generated music projects is in the press because it's doing meaningful numbers, it's just a stream-fraud ring stealing income from the pool.
July 6, 2025 at 5:56 PM
There are no AI bands with a large and engaged listenership. That black mirror nonsense is not happening, at all, anywhere. Each time one of these prompt-generated music projects is in the press because it's doing meaningful numbers, it's just a stream-fraud ring stealing income from the pool.
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
Shigeru Mizuki dropping a Big Truth. From "Showa-A History of Japan" volume 1.
July 5, 2025 at 7:10 AM
Shigeru Mizuki dropping a Big Truth. From "Showa-A History of Japan" volume 1.
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
On this day in queer history: July 5, 1961
Queer Milwaukeeans fought back at the Black Nite Bar after being attacked by servicemen.
Led by Black lesbian Josie Carter, this early act of resistance predates Stonewall by 8 years.
Remember the Black Nite Brawl.
#QueerHistory #Milwaukee #JosieCarter
Queer Milwaukeeans fought back at the Black Nite Bar after being attacked by servicemen.
Led by Black lesbian Josie Carter, this early act of resistance predates Stonewall by 8 years.
Remember the Black Nite Brawl.
#QueerHistory #Milwaukee #JosieCarter
July 5, 2025 at 2:42 PM
On this day in queer history: July 5, 1961
Queer Milwaukeeans fought back at the Black Nite Bar after being attacked by servicemen.
Led by Black lesbian Josie Carter, this early act of resistance predates Stonewall by 8 years.
Remember the Black Nite Brawl.
#QueerHistory #Milwaukee #JosieCarter
Queer Milwaukeeans fought back at the Black Nite Bar after being attacked by servicemen.
Led by Black lesbian Josie Carter, this early act of resistance predates Stonewall by 8 years.
Remember the Black Nite Brawl.
#QueerHistory #Milwaukee #JosieCarter
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
I finally did some pride art,
🏳️⚧️ 🧱
🏳️⚧️ 🧱
June 5, 2025 at 1:37 PM
I finally did some pride art,
🏳️⚧️ 🧱
🏳️⚧️ 🧱
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
We should care about little girls for their own sake, not for the political convenience of their claims.
June 5, 2025 at 11:23 PM
We should care about little girls for their own sake, not for the political convenience of their claims.
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
🏳️🌈 🏳️⚧️ 🧱 Happy Pride y'all! Keep it Stonewallesque! 🧱 🏳️⚧️ 🏳️🌈
June 1, 2025 at 10:31 PM
🏳️🌈 🏳️⚧️ 🧱 Happy Pride y'all! Keep it Stonewallesque! 🧱 🏳️⚧️ 🏳️🌈
Reposted by Neth, Living Life Best I Can
You're allowed to quit things. If a TV show isn't entertaining, a video game isn't fun, a book isn't grabbing you...just quit. Go do something else. Life's too short to trudge through something just to finish it or doing leisure activities out of some false sense of obligation.
If you’re over 30, quote this with some life advice 🤌🏼
May 10, 2025 at 2:00 PM
You're allowed to quit things. If a TV show isn't entertaining, a video game isn't fun, a book isn't grabbing you...just quit. Go do something else. Life's too short to trudge through something just to finish it or doing leisure activities out of some false sense of obligation.