Nathaniel Hawkins
@nathanielhawkins.bsky.social
Married, mid 50s man w/ a secret feminine side & NSFW account. I wore a dress once & loved it. Fan of lingerie and the word gender-performative. I am here to meet like minded, friendly folks and keep the connections from the other place. He/Him DMs open.
I wish I took this advice over at the other place. I deleted a ton of old tweets and I am sorry to have done so.
Here to remind everyone. Don’t delete, deactivate. It suck’s watching people rebuild their entire account from nothing again. Step away, leave, whatever up need to do for your mental health. But don’t delete your account when you’re in a clouded state of mind!
November 26, 2025 at 3:11 PM
I wish I took this advice over at the other place. I deleted a ton of old tweets and I am sorry to have done so.
I know sometimes my account is like a Disney Robin Hood fan account and I've spoken to some of you about this before, but good grief, this is just an absolutely wonderful movie. I love it so much.
Frankenstein was great. Now I'm not sure which one I enjoyed more, Mary Shelley's Frankenstein with Kenneth Branagh or del Toro's Frankenstein
November 26, 2025 at 1:28 PM
I know sometimes my account is like a Disney Robin Hood fan account and I've spoken to some of you about this before, but good grief, this is just an absolutely wonderful movie. I love it so much.
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I learned today that therapy is likely more effective when you share things about yourself.
Follow me for more life hacks.
Follow me for more life hacks.
November 26, 2025 at 12:45 AM
I learned today that therapy is likely more effective when you share things about yourself.
Follow me for more life hacks.
Follow me for more life hacks.
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I’d love to rest my head on someone’s chest right about now. Someone that felt comfortable and safe to be in the quiet with. I want to be held and not have anything expected of me other than to just simply exist. I’d heave a long heavy sigh, shut my eyes, and sleep. For a long while.
November 24, 2025 at 8:08 PM
I’d love to rest my head on someone’s chest right about now. Someone that felt comfortable and safe to be in the quiet with. I want to be held and not have anything expected of me other than to just simply exist. I’d heave a long heavy sigh, shut my eyes, and sleep. For a long while.
I usually don't do these but music makes me tick.
Jack White/White Stripes (I know...separate things)
Mighty Might Bosstones
Iron Maiden
Social Distortion
John Williams
Foo Fighters
Brandi Carlile
Bruce Springsteen
Hon Mention: Dropkick Murphys
Jack White/White Stripes (I know...separate things)
Mighty Might Bosstones
Iron Maiden
Social Distortion
John Williams
Foo Fighters
Brandi Carlile
Bruce Springsteen
Hon Mention: Dropkick Murphys
Define your music taste in eight artists
NKOTB (Blockhead for life)
Sara Bareilles
Queen
Flogging Molly
Enya
Reba
Metallica
Billy Joel
NKOTB (Blockhead for life)
Sara Bareilles
Queen
Flogging Molly
Enya
Reba
Metallica
Billy Joel
Define your music taste in eight artists
Pink Floyd
Jars of Clay
Debbie Gibson
EXO
The Chicks
Muse
Dream Theater
Kool & the Gang
Pink Floyd
Jars of Clay
Debbie Gibson
EXO
The Chicks
Muse
Dream Theater
Kool & the Gang
November 24, 2025 at 6:54 PM
I usually don't do these but music makes me tick.
Jack White/White Stripes (I know...separate things)
Mighty Might Bosstones
Iron Maiden
Social Distortion
John Williams
Foo Fighters
Brandi Carlile
Bruce Springsteen
Hon Mention: Dropkick Murphys
Jack White/White Stripes (I know...separate things)
Mighty Might Bosstones
Iron Maiden
Social Distortion
John Williams
Foo Fighters
Brandi Carlile
Bruce Springsteen
Hon Mention: Dropkick Murphys
I think it speaks loudly that the least interesting part of this collage for me is the car. 🤦♂️🤷♂️😲
November 23, 2025 at 4:33 PM
I think it speaks loudly that the least interesting part of this collage for me is the car. 🤦♂️🤷♂️😲
I am going to REALLY try to not use a "food/alcohol is love" approach this year.
Friendly reminder that the weekend before Thanksgiving is officially the beginning of holiday stress season which means it’s alllll mashed potatoes and anxiety meds from here on out baby so lock in
November 23, 2025 at 4:27 PM
I am going to REALLY try to not use a "food/alcohol is love" approach this year.
On my list of things I am not good at, this is definitely on the podium.
November 23, 2025 at 2:43 PM
On my list of things I am not good at, this is definitely on the podium.
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A world without transgender people has never existed and never will.
To all transgender people out there: You are not alone.
To all transgender people out there: You are not alone.
November 22, 2025 at 3:35 PM
A world without transgender people has never existed and never will.
To all transgender people out there: You are not alone.
To all transgender people out there: You are not alone.
I am in the data analysis portion of my dissertation. All of my interviews are done. I have transcribed them all and have a basic sense that I think my research questions are answered. Now, I need to narrow down my themes and write something that sounds smart.
November 22, 2025 at 6:43 PM
I am in the data analysis portion of my dissertation. All of my interviews are done. I have transcribed them all and have a basic sense that I think my research questions are answered. Now, I need to narrow down my themes and write something that sounds smart.
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Be generous with positivity and encouragement today.
Say the good thing when you think it.
Say the good thing when you think it.
November 22, 2025 at 12:50 PM
Be generous with positivity and encouragement today.
Say the good thing when you think it.
Say the good thing when you think it.
Reminders, especially from people you care about, that you matter as a person do make a difference.
November 22, 2025 at 5:28 PM
Reminders, especially from people you care about, that you matter as a person do make a difference.
Anyone else get weepy when the music from "The Bridge of Khazud Dum" comes on or am I really that emotionally unstable?
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November 22, 2025 at 5:18 PM
Anyone else get weepy when the music from "The Bridge of Khazud Dum" comes on or am I really that emotionally unstable?
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The realization that this was a thing people liked was earth shattering and still is unbelievable to me.
Men in ladies underwear is so hot! 😈
November 21, 2025 at 4:02 PM
The realization that this was a thing people liked was earth shattering and still is unbelievable to me.
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Nothing related to anyone here.
You can't say you support LGBTQ if you refuse to call people by the name they want and/or pronouns. You are actively harming that person you claim to love. Do better and grow up. They aren't a threat. Stop acting like they are.
You can't say you support LGBTQ if you refuse to call people by the name they want and/or pronouns. You are actively harming that person you claim to love. Do better and grow up. They aren't a threat. Stop acting like they are.
November 21, 2025 at 1:01 PM
Nothing related to anyone here.
You can't say you support LGBTQ if you refuse to call people by the name they want and/or pronouns. You are actively harming that person you claim to love. Do better and grow up. They aren't a threat. Stop acting like they are.
You can't say you support LGBTQ if you refuse to call people by the name they want and/or pronouns. You are actively harming that person you claim to love. Do better and grow up. They aren't a threat. Stop acting like they are.
Just so people don't start thinking this account is crying the blues all the time, I am halfway done with my dissertation. So, there is that as far as good news.
November 21, 2025 at 1:09 AM
Just so people don't start thinking this account is crying the blues all the time, I am halfway done with my dissertation. So, there is that as far as good news.
I definitely am appreciating how incredibly important authenticity is.
Y'all, stop lying to your SOs, bc you cannot be part of a unit if you're hiding something.
If your SO can't accept something abt you, the match is doomed anyway.
Things done in darkness have a way of rising into the light.
Honesty and authenticity are crucial to an integrated life.
#BDSM
If your SO can't accept something abt you, the match is doomed anyway.
Things done in darkness have a way of rising into the light.
Honesty and authenticity are crucial to an integrated life.
#BDSM
November 21, 2025 at 12:46 AM
I definitely am appreciating how incredibly important authenticity is.
Anyone else talk to a therapist and they are like, sympathetic, caring and provide insight into your feelings and thoughts...and then you get disoriented because you're just use to burying feelings and carrying on?
No? Just me?
No? Just me?
November 21, 2025 at 12:12 AM
Anyone else talk to a therapist and they are like, sympathetic, caring and provide insight into your feelings and thoughts...and then you get disoriented because you're just use to burying feelings and carrying on?
No? Just me?
No? Just me?
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November 20, 2025 at 12:22 PM
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Hey fellas, why not take some time today to rejects the primitive social constraints on gender? Wear a dress to work, see how it feels. (Don’t try heels, you’re not ready)
November 18, 2025 at 1:32 PM
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I can attest that these things absolutely matter and are appreciated.
Tell people they matter.
Tell them they’re appreciated.
Tell them you’re glad they’re here.
Those words might be exactly what they need.
Tell them they’re appreciated.
Tell them you’re glad they’re here.
Those words might be exactly what they need.
November 16, 2025 at 9:27 PM
I can attest that these things absolutely matter and are appreciated.
Well, this resonates.
November 14, 2025 at 12:09 PM
Well, this resonates.
Hey friends.
I am continuing to navigate some personal stuff (dude, again?!) and really appreciate folks being so kind and sympathetic. Sorting out my relationship with those I care about, my identity and how I express it, turns out, isn't easy. Thank you for being such a wonderful community.
I am continuing to navigate some personal stuff (dude, again?!) and really appreciate folks being so kind and sympathetic. Sorting out my relationship with those I care about, my identity and how I express it, turns out, isn't easy. Thank you for being such a wonderful community.
November 12, 2025 at 11:18 PM
Hey friends.
I am continuing to navigate some personal stuff (dude, again?!) and really appreciate folks being so kind and sympathetic. Sorting out my relationship with those I care about, my identity and how I express it, turns out, isn't easy. Thank you for being such a wonderful community.
I am continuing to navigate some personal stuff (dude, again?!) and really appreciate folks being so kind and sympathetic. Sorting out my relationship with those I care about, my identity and how I express it, turns out, isn't easy. Thank you for being such a wonderful community.