Host- D. Crew-Lola K.
@natblkpolyam.bsky.social
A video series written by a Black crew and hosted by D, a therapist and coach targeting general Polyamory and the Blackpolyamorous experience
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Less resentment. More peace.
You don’t need to explain your boundaries to people who benefit from you having none.
This week, notice where you’re over-giving, and practice saying no without guilt.
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You don’t need to explain your boundaries to people who benefit from you having none.
This week, notice where you’re over-giving, and practice saying no without guilt.
www.facebook.com/share/p/1CHT...
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February 1, 2026 at 10:12 PM
Less resentment. More peace.
You don’t need to explain your boundaries to people who benefit from you having none.
This week, notice where you’re over-giving, and practice saying no without guilt.
www.facebook.com/share/p/1CHT...
You don’t need to explain your boundaries to people who benefit from you having none.
This week, notice where you’re over-giving, and practice saying no without guilt.
www.facebook.com/share/p/1CHT...
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I get tired of saying it, but I’ll say it again: the nature of oppression in America is that they workshop it first on Black, Latino, Asian & Native people.
But it is always, in the end, coming for everyone.
But it is always, in the end, coming for everyone.
The arrests of journalists Don Lemon and Georgia Fort are a test for every MSM member with a platform. If you are not voicing your outrage at this blatant violation of the First Amendment, you are utterly discredited as a journalist.
January 30, 2026 at 4:46 PM
I get tired of saying it, but I’ll say it again: the nature of oppression in America is that they workshop it first on Black, Latino, Asian & Native people.
But it is always, in the end, coming for everyone.
But it is always, in the end, coming for everyone.
Monogamy wasn’t sold to you as a real choice.
It was sold to you as a necessity of morality.
The choice was be good or be bad and make excuses for it.
How does that help anyone? #polyamory #dating #blacksky
It was sold to you as a necessity of morality.
The choice was be good or be bad and make excuses for it.
How does that help anyone? #polyamory #dating #blacksky
January 30, 2026 at 10:08 PM
Monogamy wasn’t sold to you as a real choice.
It was sold to you as a necessity of morality.
The choice was be good or be bad and make excuses for it.
How does that help anyone? #polyamory #dating #blacksky
It was sold to you as a necessity of morality.
The choice was be good or be bad and make excuses for it.
How does that help anyone? #polyamory #dating #blacksky
Your lived truth may look different from mine, and all of it is welcome because all of it needs space. This doesn't mean we have to accept anything and every behavior towards us. It means we have to have respect and boundaries
January 30, 2026 at 10:06 PM
Your lived truth may look different from mine, and all of it is welcome because all of it needs space. This doesn't mean we have to accept anything and every behavior towards us. It means we have to have respect and boundaries
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Investigating elected officials for speech is not law enforcement but intimidation. If governors and mayors can be investigated for criticizing federal actions, neither elected officials nor anyone else is truly free to speak. #holdfast
January 17, 2026 at 2:53 PM
Investigating elected officials for speech is not law enforcement but intimidation. If governors and mayors can be investigated for criticizing federal actions, neither elected officials nor anyone else is truly free to speak. #holdfast
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Word of mouth is the way. It’s the only thing that will make any real difference for a title. That’s why I get so excited when I share a book and you guys buy it. I know how much of a game changer it can be. Have you heard about this book called Pink Zombie Rose: Major Arcana Vol I?
January 17, 2026 at 1:39 AM
Word of mouth is the way. It’s the only thing that will make any real difference for a title. That’s why I get so excited when I share a book and you guys buy it. I know how much of a game changer it can be. Have you heard about this book called Pink Zombie Rose: Major Arcana Vol I?
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A wide-ranging UC San Francisco study found that sky-high rents are forcing people into homeless.
Middle- and working-class tenants need urgent help.
They need rent control.
Middle- and working-class tenants need urgent help.
They need rent control.
People Are Working Hard, But They’re Still Homeless
A new book by Brian Goldstone shows that hard-working people still end up homeless, showing the need for serious changes to housing policy.
www.housingisahumanright.org
January 17, 2026 at 12:40 AM
A wide-ranging UC San Francisco study found that sky-high rents are forcing people into homeless.
Middle- and working-class tenants need urgent help.
They need rent control.
Middle- and working-class tenants need urgent help.
They need rent control.
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Tillis is spot on. The Senate can't confirm a Trump toady to succeed Powell at the Fed. The rest of the game is now out in the open, and it doesn't end well.
January 12, 2026 at 2:00 AM
Tillis is spot on. The Senate can't confirm a Trump toady to succeed Powell at the Fed. The rest of the game is now out in the open, and it doesn't end well.
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Iowans have the second highest rate of cancer linked to agricultural chemicals because of the "leadership" they have continually put back into office.
Imagine choosing cancer instead of voting for your own health and wellbeing.
Imagine choosing cancer instead of voting for your own health and wellbeing.
January 12, 2026 at 8:00 PM
Iowans have the second highest rate of cancer linked to agricultural chemicals because of the "leadership" they have continually put back into office.
Imagine choosing cancer instead of voting for your own health and wellbeing.
Imagine choosing cancer instead of voting for your own health and wellbeing.
If anyone could accomplish this it would be a gay trouble talking about interior design. Nothing against the guys but man this
Almost feels cliche in a beautiful way
Almost feels cliche in a beautiful way
Is the Wall Street Journal normalizing white gay polyamory vis a vis interior design?
December 20, 2025 at 1:57 AM
If anyone could accomplish this it would be a gay trouble talking about interior design. Nothing against the guys but man this
Almost feels cliche in a beautiful way
Almost feels cliche in a beautiful way
Man workplace drama got a lot more interesting
new meaning to work wife
LinkedIn dating is gonna drop soon right ??
December 20, 2025 at 1:50 AM
Man workplace drama got a lot more interesting
I genuinely think part of it is knowing what you want and what you won't tolerate anymore
Why women be so horny after they turn 40. It's like yall get downloadable content for the cat! Extra maps, new guns and characters AND ALL NEW GAMEPLAY MODE "SURVIVAL"
December 18, 2025 at 9:02 PM
I genuinely think part of it is knowing what you want and what you won't tolerate anymore
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In 2025, the Trump administration ended several consent decrees and many more investigations into police departments with histories of misconduct and violence.
This is part of Trump's "unleashing" of police.
This is part of Trump's "unleashing" of police.
Analysis: Eliminating Consent Decrees Will Help Trump ‘Unleash’ Police
The Trump administration is fulfilling its promise to unleash police by terminating consent decrees in various major cities
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December 18, 2025 at 8:28 PM
In 2025, the Trump administration ended several consent decrees and many more investigations into police departments with histories of misconduct and violence.
This is part of Trump's "unleashing" of police.
This is part of Trump's "unleashing" of police.
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The obsession with debates, rather than careful analysis and argument, is very much a part of #TheStupidestTimeline.
December 18, 2025 at 3:48 PM
The obsession with debates, rather than careful analysis and argument, is very much a part of #TheStupidestTimeline.
These are individuals who if every single show never had a person of color in the writer's room they would say it was just about competence and then wonder why people assume they think everyone else is incompetent
My favorite part was where he claimed a TV show wasn't allowed to hire white writers because all their writers were white.
December 18, 2025 at 8:43 PM
These are individuals who if every single show never had a person of color in the writer's room they would say it was just about competence and then wonder why people assume they think everyone else is incompetent
There's a piece of this that people do not acknowledge: these ppl deeply believe white people are global and non-white people are meant to be contained. They belief that wealthy able bodied white people should be able to move & travel freely.
They don't comprehend *anyone* else doing so
They don't comprehend *anyone* else doing so
December 18, 2025 at 8:36 PM
There's a piece of this that people do not acknowledge: these ppl deeply believe white people are global and non-white people are meant to be contained. They belief that wealthy able bodied white people should be able to move & travel freely.
They don't comprehend *anyone* else doing so
They don't comprehend *anyone* else doing so
So I watched the Lemonhope episodes of Adventure Time and realized Lemonhope is a great analogy for
1) Solo poly communicating with KTP idealists, AND
2) siblings who escape abuse but don't want to be caregivers or tied to other siblings
1) Solo poly communicating with KTP idealists, AND
2) siblings who escape abuse but don't want to be caregivers or tied to other siblings
December 17, 2025 at 6:15 PM
So I watched the Lemonhope episodes of Adventure Time and realized Lemonhope is a great analogy for
1) Solo poly communicating with KTP idealists, AND
2) siblings who escape abuse but don't want to be caregivers or tied to other siblings
1) Solo poly communicating with KTP idealists, AND
2) siblings who escape abuse but don't want to be caregivers or tied to other siblings
#Polyamory Truth: Most folks need to challenge what they learned about relationships when they engage in polyamory, but that doesn't mean they have to give up everything resembling monogamy or monogamous culture.
What most matters is everyone is identifying their needs/wants & communicating.
What most matters is everyone is identifying their needs/wants & communicating.
December 16, 2025 at 5:47 PM
#Polyamory Truth: Most folks need to challenge what they learned about relationships when they engage in polyamory, but that doesn't mean they have to give up everything resembling monogamy or monogamous culture.
What most matters is everyone is identifying their needs/wants & communicating.
What most matters is everyone is identifying their needs/wants & communicating.
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My ADHD-friendly work flow has been:
1) Keep regular working hours and a meal routine. My brain REVOLTS against the schedule every day but it helps so so so much
2) Have several projects in progress at once, ideally different types of projects
3) Keep all active projects IN MY LINE OF SIGHT
1) Keep regular working hours and a meal routine. My brain REVOLTS against the schedule every day but it helps so so so much
2) Have several projects in progress at once, ideally different types of projects
3) Keep all active projects IN MY LINE OF SIGHT
December 16, 2025 at 5:21 PM
My ADHD-friendly work flow has been:
1) Keep regular working hours and a meal routine. My brain REVOLTS against the schedule every day but it helps so so so much
2) Have several projects in progress at once, ideally different types of projects
3) Keep all active projects IN MY LINE OF SIGHT
1) Keep regular working hours and a meal routine. My brain REVOLTS against the schedule every day but it helps so so so much
2) Have several projects in progress at once, ideally different types of projects
3) Keep all active projects IN MY LINE OF SIGHT
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BDSM, But Make It Accessible: A Guide to Requesting ASL Interpreters
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#BDSM #kink #kinksky #CNM #ENM #polyamory #swinging #swinger #lifestyle #ASL
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#BDSM #kink #kinksky #CNM #ENM #polyamory #swinging #swinger #lifestyle #ASL
BDSM, But Make It Accessible: A Guide to Requesting ASL Interpreters - National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
By Madam Interpreter Ëm Medina (she/themme), Certified ASL Interpreter and Leather Probie Some of you may recognize me from leather conferences or dungeons. However, for those who don’t know me, I am ...
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December 16, 2025 at 4:29 PM
BDSM, But Make It Accessible: A Guide to Requesting ASL Interpreters
Read the Article here:
ncsfreedom.org/2025/12/10/b...
Get more NCSF Announcements here:
ncsfreedom.org/category/ann...
#BDSM #kink #kinksky #CNM #ENM #polyamory #swinging #swinger #lifestyle #ASL
Read the Article here:
ncsfreedom.org/2025/12/10/b...
Get more NCSF Announcements here:
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#BDSM #kink #kinksky #CNM #ENM #polyamory #swinging #swinger #lifestyle #ASL
Hot #ENM Take: Ultimatums only cause problems when they're weaponized over mundane and small matters, and by those who have no respect for their partners autonomy.
In larger life matters like living together, child-rearing, physical safety, etc. they can be unavoidable.
In larger life matters like living together, child-rearing, physical safety, etc. they can be unavoidable.
December 16, 2025 at 4:55 PM
Hot #ENM Take: Ultimatums only cause problems when they're weaponized over mundane and small matters, and by those who have no respect for their partners autonomy.
In larger life matters like living together, child-rearing, physical safety, etc. they can be unavoidable.
In larger life matters like living together, child-rearing, physical safety, etc. they can be unavoidable.
You're partner not feeling/thinking the way you believe they should think/feel may not be gaslighting or lying.
It may be them having a different emotional experience than you.
It may be them having a different emotional experience than you.
December 11, 2025 at 7:09 PM
You're partner not feeling/thinking the way you believe they should think/feel may not be gaslighting or lying.
It may be them having a different emotional experience than you.
It may be them having a different emotional experience than you.
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“How can I show children that capitalism is bad? I know, I’ll make the villain in this cartoon named ‘Looten Plunder’”
November 25, 2025 at 5:08 PM
“How can I show children that capitalism is bad? I know, I’ll make the villain in this cartoon named ‘Looten Plunder’”
One of the most common things we learn about holidays is what is "normal". Often that involves obligation but we need to go beyond just assumption. We need to talk about expectation and why we get so hurt by the conversations we don't have
youtu.be/hF8mXeDNigM?...
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One critical tip for Surviving the Holidays: Polyamory, estranged families, and the Queer Community
YouTube video by Clinically Polyamorous, Naturally Black
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November 25, 2025 at 6:52 PM
One of the most common things we learn about holidays is what is "normal". Often that involves obligation but we need to go beyond just assumption. We need to talk about expectation and why we get so hurt by the conversations we don't have
youtu.be/hF8mXeDNigM?...
youtu.be/hF8mXeDNigM?...