Justin Hancock
@justinhancock.bsky.social
Sex and relationships educator. Resources and courses, not discourses. BISH. Doing a PhD. Solution Focused (SFBT). justinhancock.co.uk
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Justin Hancock
@justinhancock.bsky.social
· Nov 30
What do people do with BISH
A lot of you visit BISH every day, which is nice, but what do you think about it and how do you use it?
www.bishuk.com
Thousands of young people read Bish every day, but what do they like about it, what do they do with it and how does it help? 1. Vibe 2. Depth and breadth of content. 3. Inclusive (feminist, LGBTQIA and straight cis lads too) 4. Helpful tools to take away. Lots more 👇🏻
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I'd argue we need more conversation, not less. You can't build, sustain or grow communities, care, or resistance in isolation.
What would benefit us a great deal, however, is to end these confected 'debates' that are anything but. And the endless rehearsal of limited, hateful, inaccurate narratives
What would benefit us a great deal, however, is to end these confected 'debates' that are anything but. And the endless rehearsal of limited, hateful, inaccurate narratives
November 17, 2025 at 12:08 PM
I'd argue we need more conversation, not less. You can't build, sustain or grow communities, care, or resistance in isolation.
What would benefit us a great deal, however, is to end these confected 'debates' that are anything but. And the endless rehearsal of limited, hateful, inaccurate narratives
What would benefit us a great deal, however, is to end these confected 'debates' that are anything but. And the endless rehearsal of limited, hateful, inaccurate narratives
The thing with the phone ins is that it's 'pouvoir' Politics masquerading as 'puissance' micropolitics. As Petra says, make phone ins about people's actual lives, not their big P politics.
I'd say keep the phone ins but change the focus. Phone ins work very well in terms people connecting within their communities; raising awareness; sharing stories about nature, hobbies, pets; or swapping tips on DIY, gardening, baking and crafting. And advice phone ins can be lifesavers.
One way to take some of the heat out of politics, which is within the BBC's control, is to drop phone-ins and vox pops.
November 17, 2025 at 12:07 PM
The thing with the phone ins is that it's 'pouvoir' Politics masquerading as 'puissance' micropolitics. As Petra says, make phone ins about people's actual lives, not their big P politics.
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I'd say keep the phone ins but change the focus. Phone ins work very well in terms people connecting within their communities; raising awareness; sharing stories about nature, hobbies, pets; or swapping tips on DIY, gardening, baking and crafting. And advice phone ins can be lifesavers.
One way to take some of the heat out of politics, which is within the BBC's control, is to drop phone-ins and vox pops.
November 17, 2025 at 11:12 AM
I'd say keep the phone ins but change the focus. Phone ins work very well in terms people connecting within their communities; raising awareness; sharing stories about nature, hobbies, pets; or swapping tips on DIY, gardening, baking and crafting. And advice phone ins can be lifesavers.
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Alex Crawford: "The misery for those with no homes in Gaza just got worse"
Alex reports on the aid piling up in Jordan as Israel continues to block its entry into Gaza (including crutches and wheelchairs, which Israel has been blocking for months)
Alex reports on the aid piling up in Jordan as Israel continues to block its entry into Gaza (including crutches and wheelchairs, which Israel has been blocking for months)
November 17, 2025 at 6:39 AM
Alex Crawford: "The misery for those with no homes in Gaza just got worse"
Alex reports on the aid piling up in Jordan as Israel continues to block its entry into Gaza (including crutches and wheelchairs, which Israel has been blocking for months)
Alex reports on the aid piling up in Jordan as Israel continues to block its entry into Gaza (including crutches and wheelchairs, which Israel has been blocking for months)
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"... it goes after those of us who look like we could be immigrants. We have talked a lot about illegal immigration sitting at the heart of this debate, but what we are not talking about so much is race"
Shabana Mahmood condemning the hostile environment back in 2018
Shabana Mahmood condemning the hostile environment back in 2018
November 17, 2025 at 8:01 AM
"... it goes after those of us who look like we could be immigrants. We have talked a lot about illegal immigration sitting at the heart of this debate, but what we are not talking about so much is race"
Shabana Mahmood condemning the hostile environment back in 2018
Shabana Mahmood condemning the hostile environment back in 2018
Just to be clear, I'll coach any snooker player to almost immediate success. Apart from one. You'll have to guess
Mark Selby, give me an hour and you'll be winning world champs again. No win no fee
November 16, 2025 at 10:46 PM
Just to be clear, I'll coach any snooker player to almost immediate success. Apart from one. You'll have to guess
Mark, DM me
Mark Selby, give me an hour and you'll be winning world champs again. No win no fee
November 16, 2025 at 9:44 PM
Mark, DM me
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*jingles bells*
2025 cards are here! Check out the outrageously cute & playful design by @stuartcb.bsky.social - and join Patreon before 1st December if you'd like me to send you one!
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2025 cards are here! Check out the outrageously cute & playful design by @stuartcb.bsky.social - and join Patreon before 1st December if you'd like me to send you one!
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November 16, 2025 at 11:36 AM
*jingles bells*
2025 cards are here! Check out the outrageously cute & playful design by @stuartcb.bsky.social - and join Patreon before 1st December if you'd like me to send you one!
www.girlonthenet.com/blog/2025-ch...
2025 cards are here! Check out the outrageously cute & playful design by @stuartcb.bsky.social - and join Patreon before 1st December if you'd like me to send you one!
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According to the (awful) lobby hack / insiders / 'let me show you behind the curtain' / politics understanders Mahmood is also McSweeney's preferred future candidate. Labour, if you want any future, get bloody rid.
Congratulations to Labour who have won the coveted Tommy Robinson endorsement. Excited for sensibles to explain to me why I have to vote for the people enacting actual fascist policy.
November 16, 2025 at 10:53 AM
According to the (awful) lobby hack / insiders / 'let me show you behind the curtain' / politics understanders Mahmood is also McSweeney's preferred future candidate. Labour, if you want any future, get bloody rid.
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The Labour Government reeling off the same far-right talking points on immigration. And look who is celebrating. The far-right.
There is a political alternative that won’t ever scapegoat those fleeing war, persecution and torture
join.greenparty.org.uk
There is a political alternative that won’t ever scapegoat those fleeing war, persecution and torture
join.greenparty.org.uk
November 16, 2025 at 10:28 AM
The Labour Government reeling off the same far-right talking points on immigration. And look who is celebrating. The far-right.
There is a political alternative that won’t ever scapegoat those fleeing war, persecution and torture
join.greenparty.org.uk
There is a political alternative that won’t ever scapegoat those fleeing war, persecution and torture
join.greenparty.org.uk
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Congratulations to Labour who have won the coveted Tommy Robinson endorsement. Excited for sensibles to explain to me why I have to vote for the people enacting actual fascist policy.
November 16, 2025 at 10:18 AM
Congratulations to Labour who have won the coveted Tommy Robinson endorsement. Excited for sensibles to explain to me why I have to vote for the people enacting actual fascist policy.
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Bluntly, it’s no coincidence that we have spent fifteen years screaming in mortal terror at the same groups of Asian sex offenders, throughout the whole period when our ruling class has been exposed as inveterate arse grabbers and sex criminals.
November 16, 2025 at 9:27 AM
Bluntly, it’s no coincidence that we have spent fifteen years screaming in mortal terror at the same groups of Asian sex offenders, throughout the whole period when our ruling class has been exposed as inveterate arse grabbers and sex criminals.
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Shabana Mahmood on the BBC this morning talking about desperate people fleeing war and persecution as being given a "golden ticket" and "handouts" and saying she's got a "moral mission" to take them away from them
Indistinguishable from the rhetoric of Reform www.adambienkov.co.uk/p/shabana-ma...
Indistinguishable from the rhetoric of Reform www.adambienkov.co.uk/p/shabana-ma...
Shabana Mahmood and the Politics of Extortion
Labour's strategy of telling its supporters to back Reform-style policies, or get a Reform Government, is the politics of the protection racket and it is not going to work
www.adambienkov.co.uk
November 16, 2025 at 9:25 AM
Shabana Mahmood on the BBC this morning talking about desperate people fleeing war and persecution as being given a "golden ticket" and "handouts" and saying she's got a "moral mission" to take them away from them
Indistinguishable from the rhetoric of Reform www.adambienkov.co.uk/p/shabana-ma...
Indistinguishable from the rhetoric of Reform www.adambienkov.co.uk/p/shabana-ma...
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to safely dispose of these hats, eat them. natural fibers — such as cotton, wool, silk, and linen — breakdown in the digestive track. synthetics do not. thus, if you eat your hat, the synthetics will pass through the other side. smush through the poop to find the synthetic fibers and recycle them.
November 16, 2025 at 1:42 AM
to safely dispose of these hats, eat them. natural fibers — such as cotton, wool, silk, and linen — breakdown in the digestive track. synthetics do not. thus, if you eat your hat, the synthetics will pass through the other side. smush through the poop to find the synthetic fibers and recycle them.
I offer one-to-one SFP sessions to the general (adult) public. You can chat with me about any issues to do with sex, relationships, and just you generally.
"I described it to my pal as "magic". It honestly feels incredible that it worked after only session."
justinhancock.co.uk#coaching
"I described it to my pal as "magic". It honestly feels incredible that it worked after only session."
justinhancock.co.uk#coaching
Justin
I'm Justin Hancock, a sex and relationships educator, trainer, writer, and coach.
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November 15, 2025 at 9:09 PM
I offer one-to-one SFP sessions to the general (adult) public. You can chat with me about any issues to do with sex, relationships, and just you generally.
"I described it to my pal as "magic". It honestly feels incredible that it worked after only session."
justinhancock.co.uk#coaching
"I described it to my pal as "magic". It honestly feels incredible that it worked after only session."
justinhancock.co.uk#coaching
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At some point, for the love of God, will someone ANYONE at long last take the council funding crisis seriously?!?
Because THIS is what will break down a society, not some poor soul escaping incredible dangers, arriving on our shores.
Because THIS is what will break down a society, not some poor soul escaping incredible dangers, arriving on our shores.
English councils plan to sell off social clubs and sports centres to balance books
English councils plan to sell off social clubs and sports centres to balance books
Survey finds 60% of key cities councils are planning to sell assets to meet costs of adult and children’s social care
English councils are planning to sell social clubs, sports centres and shopping arcades as they bet on a fire sale of assets to balance the books, according to a survey of local authorities.
The key cities group of councils, which represents second-tier cities in England, said 60% of councils were planning to sell assets to meet the escalating costs of adult and children’s social care. Continue reading...
www.theguardian.com
November 15, 2025 at 8:03 PM
At some point, for the love of God, will someone ANYONE at long last take the council funding crisis seriously?!?
Because THIS is what will break down a society, not some poor soul escaping incredible dangers, arriving on our shores.
Because THIS is what will break down a society, not some poor soul escaping incredible dangers, arriving on our shores.
I think mine is that woke hasn't gone far enough. It was a line of flight that got captured by capital and became molar (producing woke/not woke break lines). We need to find new lines of flight, molecularise woke, to turn woke into a becoming.
"my least woke opinion is---"
That's enough. We've had enough people indulging in the "thrill of a little conservatism", as a treat. Of considering reactionary thought to be a salacious and taboo in a world descending into reactionary mania.
Give me your MOST woke opinions. We're bringing it back.
That's enough. We've had enough people indulging in the "thrill of a little conservatism", as a treat. Of considering reactionary thought to be a salacious and taboo in a world descending into reactionary mania.
Give me your MOST woke opinions. We're bringing it back.
November 14, 2025 at 1:16 PM
I think mine is that woke hasn't gone far enough. It was a line of flight that got captured by capital and became molar (producing woke/not woke break lines). We need to find new lines of flight, molecularise woke, to turn woke into a becoming.
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My most woke opinion is that "woke" at root is a beautiful concept: active socio-political consciousness in the context of the Black American liberation struggle. And the way it's been turned into a sneering pejorative is one of the ugliest things I've ever seen in Western political discourse.
"my least woke opinion is---"
That's enough. We've had enough people indulging in the "thrill of a little conservatism", as a treat. Of considering reactionary thought to be a salacious and taboo in a world descending into reactionary mania.
Give me your MOST woke opinions. We're bringing it back.
That's enough. We've had enough people indulging in the "thrill of a little conservatism", as a treat. Of considering reactionary thought to be a salacious and taboo in a world descending into reactionary mania.
Give me your MOST woke opinions. We're bringing it back.
November 14, 2025 at 12:54 PM
My most woke opinion is that "woke" at root is a beautiful concept: active socio-political consciousness in the context of the Black American liberation struggle. And the way it's been turned into a sneering pejorative is one of the ugliest things I've ever seen in Western political discourse.
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"I just want to say a massive thank you for your beautifully considerate, layered and moving response to my question. I knew that writing to you was a good idea!" #review
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November 13, 2025 at 11:11 AM
"I just want to say a massive thank you for your beautifully considerate, layered and moving response to my question. I knew that writing to you was a good idea!" #review
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Some sexual activities are more fun when you do a different kind of sexual activity just beforehand. (It’s not foreplay, it’s just different kinds of sex that change what our bodies do).
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Compromise and Sex
Life is about compromises right? And so is sex? I don't agree. Here'a how to go beyond just compromise to find 'win wins' from sex instead.
www.bishuk.com
November 13, 2025 at 4:42 PM
Some sexual activities are more fun when you do a different kind of sexual activity just beforehand. (It’s not foreplay, it’s just different kinds of sex that change what our bodies do).
www.bishuk.com/sex/compromi...
www.bishuk.com/sex/compromi...
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crazy
IG em_clarkson
IG em_clarkson
November 14, 2025 at 2:54 AM
crazy
IG em_clarkson
IG em_clarkson
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If your politics have become “We must do fascism-lite, or the fascists will win”, then the fascists have already won.
This is political blackmail dressed up as pragmatism. Justifying their nasty policies with “Reform will be worse”.
November 14, 2025 at 7:46 AM
If your politics have become “We must do fascism-lite, or the fascists will win”, then the fascists have already won.
Some sexual activities are more fun when you do a different kind of sexual activity just beforehand. (It’s not foreplay, it’s just different kinds of sex that change what our bodies do).
www.bishuk.com/sex/compromi...
www.bishuk.com/sex/compromi...
Compromise and Sex
Life is about compromises right? And so is sex? I don't agree. Here'a how to go beyond just compromise to find 'win wins' from sex instead.
www.bishuk.com
November 13, 2025 at 4:42 PM
Some sexual activities are more fun when you do a different kind of sexual activity just beforehand. (It’s not foreplay, it’s just different kinds of sex that change what our bodies do).
www.bishuk.com/sex/compromi...
www.bishuk.com/sex/compromi...
This 'waiting till after the disastrous elections to get rid of Keir' / 'we must get rid of Keir now because think of all the Labour councillors losing their seats' thing is deeply patronising to voters. Reform winning more councils will be a disaster for local public services, particularly for...
November 13, 2025 at 1:20 PM
This 'waiting till after the disastrous elections to get rid of Keir' / 'we must get rid of Keir now because think of all the Labour councillors losing their seats' thing is deeply patronising to voters. Reform winning more councils will be a disaster for local public services, particularly for...