Leaving and cutting someone out entirely after a breakup isn't always possible, so what does it look like to de-escalate a personal relationship instead?

Let's talk about it. I'll go first, in my new post on substonk. You know where to find 🔗 ❤️‍🩹

🫶🏻 New blog post just dropped 🫶🏻

The Ballad of Don't Do Invisible Labor in Your Relationships is live on substonk!
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#mentalhealth #invisiblelabor #relationships

Me to my long distance besties on a random Tuesday:

First post on new platform (sub stack) is UP
Happy 1am to those who celebrate ❤️

The link is exactly where you'd think it is

It took me a full week to come back to this draft and polish it up, but we got there. Honestly, I think it's forgive-able considering the topic that brought us here.

Implementing a "wait and see" strategy with some of the personal relationships I feel like I'm carrying alone. I want to see if they reach for me or if the friendship really only existed because I kept reaching for them.

Persimmons both look and taste like they have warming winter spices in them???

Are you under the impression that I allow everyone to treat me this way, or are you asking me to make an exception for you?

How it feels to love an avoidant attacher

Let's get pickled with mama

The wait is over. The time is now. You are ready. Right now.
You can choose who you want to be and how you will show up in every moment. You are not bound by your past choices or where you grew up.

Today belongs to you ❤️

Excerpts from this week's blog post

Nobody:
Literally Nobody:
Me when I receive a good gift: