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i need to calm down. everything's fine; im an adult
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curating a specific brand of horny

check it out I'm bi
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Director Tamar Levine knows something about Host Vic that we don't...😳
December 3, 2025 at 9:00 PM
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Back in 2016 Humble was literally the only mainstream storefront willing to carry Ladykiller as an 18+ game, which I thought was courageous of them and helped push other platforms. Seeing how far they've fallen since then in making this deeply embarrassing decision is really painful to see
December 3, 2025 at 5:24 PM
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We may have listeners who are not lesbians but I have never seen any evidence of this
yes i’m a man hating lesbian YES my favorite podcast of all time is two white dudes snarking for hours @notalawyer.bsky.social @michaelhobbes.bsky.social
December 3, 2025 at 5:29 PM
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Hey, can my deleted BlueSky post get re-posted?
December 3, 2025 at 12:45 AM
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really not looking forward to "the llm psychosis made me do it, your honor" becoming the default excuse for criminal harassment among guys of a certain age/background
Indictment says accused cyberstalker blames ChatGPT for condoning behavior
A Whitehall man accused of threatening and stalking more than 10 women on social media and in person was indicted in federal court on Tuesday on 14 counts. Brett Dadig, 31, is accused of cyberstalking...
triblive.com
December 3, 2025 at 5:24 PM
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yes, it’s really that bad.
If new proposals detailed in an FDA memo are put into place, experts told me it would mean the end of annual flu shots. And end of most vaccines for pregnant people. And maybe the end of updates to pneumonia vaccines. And more.

www.cidrap.umn.edu/childhood-va...
FDA official proposes ‘impossible’ standards for vaccine testing that could curtail access to immunizations
www.cidrap.umn.edu
December 3, 2025 at 2:30 PM
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This is one of those things that I think is quietly important – when these people are talking shit about cities, Portland or Minneapolis or New York or Charlotte or wherever, you have to loudly say, “no, fuck you, you’re lying, that town and its people whip ass and you’re the asshole”
December 3, 2025 at 4:46 PM
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I went to a community fed-resistance meeting where they asked people to mark their house on a map of the neighborhood. That is a "taking notes on a conspiracy" level bad idea.
I'm begging RESIST orgs to stop asking people to register for events
December 3, 2025 at 3:30 PM
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“I trust my immune system. I don’t need a vaccine.”

Ok, I trust mine to protect me too. Which is why I trained it extensively on what the virus looks like so it can handle it.

Boxers don’t enter the ring without a plan. It’s the punch you don’t see coming that knocks you out.
December 3, 2025 at 5:00 PM
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"it's not you champ, it's these ungrateful bitches" is definitely something more men need to hear in total isolation these days
December 3, 2025 at 5:34 PM
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OpenAI knows this is a problem. it knows hundreds of thousands of people are using their product to dig deeper into delusion and make the people around them miserable and unsafe. and it does not care www.404media.co/chatgpt-spot...
ChatGPT Told a Violent Stalker to Embrace the 'Haters,' Indictment Says
A newly filed indictment claims a wannabe influencer used ChatGPT as his "therapist" and "best friend" in his pursuit of the "wife type," while harassing women so aggressively they had to miss work a...
www.404media.co
December 3, 2025 at 5:27 PM
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this applies to everything you do, by the way.

You choose to go to the beach because the joy of the sunshine and waves outweigh the risk of skin cancer and drowning.

We do what we can to mitigate the risks (sunblock! swim lessons! staying in the shallows!) in order to experience the joy
this is a risk everyone has to weigh for themselves
December 3, 2025 at 4:05 PM
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You can distribute whistles and zines to your 1st amendment right's desire. It is both legal and ethical to do this!

But you may experience personal or legal consequences, because the legal system is made of individuals, and individuals can and will hold grudges and retaliate.
December 3, 2025 at 3:49 PM
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you can be 100% confident that everything you are doing and advocating for is legal. everything you're doing and advocating for CAN be 100% legal!

that doesn't mean that you and your participants can't come to harm for doing it
December 3, 2025 at 3:40 PM
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"come to our training about targeted government retaliation! but first, give all your contact information to a giant subpoenable tech company!"

what are we doing here
December 3, 2025 at 2:58 PM
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I'd rather they risk destruction than step aside and let the nazis win. We don't get to choose to survive by not fighting.
December 3, 2025 at 10:19 AM
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Speaking as the president of an NGO and as a trans woman: when orgs decide to abandon a group, to sacrifice them, it is not that group’s job to “understand how hard it would have been to fight.”

If trans people hope to survive, it is our job to make that abandonment costly as hell.

Make them hurt.
December 3, 2025 at 2:00 PM
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work from home, alt text on images at work, access to text to speech readers? wheelchair ramps? elevators that work for the disabled during emergencies? accessible water fountains, functioning bathrooms? access to chairs instead of being forced to stand all day? WHAT?
December 3, 2025 at 6:07 AM
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Surprise! AI-powered web browsers aren't nearly as capable as the industry is promising they'll be, as @vicmsong.bsky.social discovered after putting five of them to the test www.theverge.com/tech/837287/...
One day, AI might be better than you at surfing the web. That day isn’t today
For sale: walking shoes? Not with AI
www.theverge.com
December 3, 2025 at 5:13 PM
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But through it all, at least I wasn't disabled! At least I didn't get help someone was afraid I didn't deserve! Why? This is nonsense, it is foolishness, it is very clearly observed to be horseshit. I won't stand for it.
December 3, 2025 at 5:27 PM
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Medical, disability, financial, gender - no matter what it is, asking for help has only resulted in stigma and punishment. I found workarounds, I used other substances to mitigate the worst of my problems, I was isolated and didn't succeed to the best of my potential. I barely survived, in fact!
December 3, 2025 at 5:26 PM
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I think it's like - I've got disabilities but I learned to hide them, I wasn't properly diagnosed or treated, and as a result I've suffered. But I suffered less than if I had asked for help because any help I've ever asked for was used against me. That's the environment we're laboring in.
December 3, 2025 at 5:26 PM
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Anyway - i would be ashamed if i made my stuff by gambling with the slot machine
December 3, 2025 at 5:27 PM
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Can you just like, express some joy for the fucking craft? Can you stop focusing on 4% productivity gains achieved through burning energy and mass plagiarism and just write some fucking code?
December 3, 2025 at 5:17 PM
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Muscle memory took me back to hacker news again and after reading a handful of comments I'm really just at a point of feeling nothing but scorn and derision for programmers who use LLMs.
December 3, 2025 at 5:03 PM