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Wallflower Queen
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A weekly newsletter for single women* who will not compromise.
Romance is Tyranny!
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November 22, 2025 at 1:11 PM
I’m not “hard to love.” I just stopped accepting minimum-effort auditions for the role.

Wallflower Life is the art of Self-Partnering for women who refuse to settle for the norm. Check out our latest issue.
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#selfpartnered
November 20, 2025 at 10:48 PM
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November 19, 2025 at 9:02 PM
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Starbucks @sbworkersunited.org baristas are standing up to corporate greed and Starbucks’ unfair labor practices and demanding the fair contract they deserve.

No contract? NO COFFEE!
November 19, 2025 at 10:12 PM
I remember being in my family’s kitchen in December 2000 holding space for an Afrikaner unburdening his heart.

It had never occurred to me that Apartheid had hurt him, too.

Unburden your heart. Connect with your humanity. The relief and your community are worth it. Check out the event below.
November 20, 2025 at 11:04 AM
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November 19, 2025 at 12:49 AM
November 17, 2025 at 11:11 PM
November 16, 2025 at 2:43 PM
How not to do equity
Attempts at fixing gender equality at leadership level all tell us to adopt behaviours largely exhibited by men to ‘get there’: be more assertive& ambitious, less humble, sensitive & reflective etc. They don’t tell men to adopt any of our dominant behaviours. This messaging is in itself patriarchal.
November 15, 2025 at 1:56 PM
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November 15, 2025 at 1:11 PM
It actually boggles the mind. Just saw a documentary about Roy Cohn . . . which explains A LOT.
It cannot be remembered enough that these were the same people who got worked up about drag brunches
November 15, 2025 at 8:52 AM
November 14, 2025 at 1:11 PM
People in relationships ask if I get lonely. Sometimes. But I also get to control the thermostat. So who’s really winning?

If you believe romance is tyranny, you've found your people!

What do you love about being single?
November 13, 2025 at 11:11 PM
For a minute there I thought the Dems were playing checkers. Maybe it is chess after all.
#Epsteinfiles
November 12, 2025 at 6:09 PM
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November 10, 2025 at 4:21 PM
Respect.
My biological pronoun?
Ok I guess, but you better get comfortable, this is going to take a while.

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November 9, 2025 at 12:57 AM
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I used to think love stories started with two people. Turns out, mine started when I recognized me and myself.
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November 9, 2025 at 12:48 AM
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I've just put the finishing touches on Wallflower Life's second issue! It drops on 11/08 at 8am. Don't miss it. Subscribe!

In this issue: Can traditional masculinity survive the financially independent woman?
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November 8, 2025 at 3:55 AM
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it appears some need reminding:
1) indigenous peoples (native americans) are not immigrants
2) black americans are not immigrants
November 5, 2025 at 7:51 PM
Europeans recognize Zohran Mamdani’s supposedly radical policies as ‘normal’ - The Guardian

… big sigh …
November 6, 2025 at 6:58 PM
The phrase “just single” doesn’t apply here. Try “unapologetically single and thriving.”

New newsletter this Saturday. Yay!

Wallflower Life: More joy for single ladies who refuse to compromise. Link in Bio. Check it out! 💜
November 6, 2025 at 1:57 AM