Helen Mary
@thehelenmary.bsky.social
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TMEs get lost.
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anarchygoose.bsky.social
TIL that:

1) It's transmisogynistic to think it's gross to say trans women all share the same kinks.

2) M/F pairings need to be included in sapphic artwork because that's how you know they accept trans women.

3) Trans women who object to the above are dangerous and should be ostracised.
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mara.meangirls.online
saying this to a trans woman is extremely fucked up
Tankie is just "the slur that you're still allowed to say."
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valkyrieladyk.bsky.social
I don't think cis people, even "queer" cis people, really get how common it is for trans men and other AFAB trans people to degender themselves to female whenever it suits their social, political, or sexual interests.

The transmisogyny is neverending.
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itszoeallison.bsky.social
That’s why trans men are, regardless of their words and actions, always perfect and innocent and harmless.

It’s why they’re always worthy of respect and kindness and patience from us and don’t need to show any in return.

Because they are inherently good and we are inherently evil.
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sailorportia.bsky.social
It turns out that "transfems are uniquely morally compromised" is an idea that requires its proponents to believe that 1) only transfems are morally culpable for their actions, 2) violence against trans women is not immoral
sailorportia.bsky.social
Transmascs on tumblr can't stop radicalizing each other into terfism, MRAism, and *Zionism*, but it's not indicative of a pattern or a political tendency informed by their material circumstances or anything because uhhhhhhhhhh female socialization
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itszoeallison.bsky.social
This whole accusation is just the ideological version of the monsterfication trans women get subjected to.

Since the wider trans community is already perfectly fine with physically monsterizing trans women, it’s not surprising that they’re also eager to believe that we’re monsters in ideology too.
thehelenmary.bsky.social
No more pretensions about the existence of an egalitarian trans community. From now on we're being realistic and saying that there are employees (trans women who do the work of advocacy and culture building) and employers (TMEs who coasts on the value created by trans women).
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badambulist.bsky.social
would love some examples of when ‘hiding behind transmisogyny’ has actually worked as a strategy. like, people can’t even agree with us that it’s a thing that is real!

triumphantly laying down your get out of jail free card but no-one else in the game accepts it as valid.
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andria-girl.bsky.social
constantly seeing trans men referring to trans women as amab is actually fucking driving me insane. not to mention all of the other transmisogynistic shit from trans men. i just can't fucking take it anymore, just leave us alone
thehelenmary.bsky.social
A transmasc zionist with penis envy being a transmisogynist? Sky blue, water wet.
thehelenmary.bsky.social
Thinking still about that study that shows that the majority of trans girls are kept from transitioning until after puberty. The people who want and need it most are locked out of transitioning while the easiest transition socially & medically is handed to the cohort who detransition at high rates.
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infernatrixsophia.bsky.social
AVERAGE SOPHIA INTERACTION WITH A RADLIB TENDERQUEER

Sophia: "im a man hating lesbian"
Tendie: "even trans men?"
Sophia: "yeah men are men"
Tendie: "wow bigot for not putting trans men into a special category outside of all men"
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nizzy.cc
The screams of ten thousand "genderfuck" transmisogynists echo around the globe
taliabhatt.itch.io
Your identity is not and will never be your politics.

Your politics are your politics.
fireantprincess.bsky.social
I think acts can be radical, but being this way or that can’t be, so instead of being insecure about feeling like your queer identity is not radical enough, maybe build a bomb.
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bsky.app.darkwo.ke
transsexuals get lumped in with transgender ppl without our say in how we want to be talked about

and then people dont want to talk about the yucky transsexuals

so transsexual becomes a taboo word

so now we are all transgender

and now "most transgender people dont need hormones"
miawong.bsky.social
2. I want to gently ask you is this distinction between you and another trans person who is otherwise identical to you except one of you needs hormones and one of you doesn't actually doing anything politically? What are you actually getting out of drawing a hard

Moreover, ICE must be destroyed
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chthoniclesbian.bsky.social
misandry is not real. u cannot oppress men for being men in a patriarchal society, hurt feelings ≠ oppression. all men's issues come from that same patriarchal system, and any "misandry" or meaness towards men is a reaction to misogyny
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blindarachne.bioccult.social
Yeah trans mascs and trans men don't want to build community or infrastructure themselves because they fundamentally see it as women's work and will whine their way into learned helpless until a woman does it for them and then pat themselves on the back for all the work they do.
thehelenmary.bsky.social
My thinking is that while trans women can inflict pain on our equals (ie using transmisogyny on our sisters), saying we can be transphobic implies that we're punching down at TMEs and we're in a position of privilege over them. We can't oppress our oppressors.
thehelenmary.bsky.social
Controversial take maybe? I believe trans women can be transmisogynistic but they can't be transphobic.
thehelenmary.bsky.social
System working as intended: trans women are ostracised into accepting the biggest possible starting handicap vs the giftwrap pass for people who can fully pass after a year on exogenous testosterone at any stage of their lives.
thehelenmary.bsky.social
Theres something hateful about trans girls triangulated into delaying any transition after they've fully unwillingly gone through testosterone puberty vs the easy access pathways for bodies that can be masculinized at any age due to the lesser permanent impacts of an estrogenized puberty.
assignedmedia.org
3 Aug 25 - New study shows vast "over-representation of trans boys" turns out to be vast _under-representation_ of trans girls bec. they: a) come out ~10 years later; b) start puberty later; & c) delay transitioning longer because of deep social animus towards AMAB femininity.
tinyurl.com/yrwvmxws
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annatleigh.bsky.social
This is why "trans woman", "transfem" and "transfemininity" as terms must be defended with teeth and nails against appropriation.

Because once they're gone/neutralized, "AMAB" becomes the only way of talking about us specifically.

Stay on your lane, tumblr TMEs.
infernatrixsophia.bsky.social
Thanks for the study, in the future though: "deep social animus towards AMAB femininity", you can simply say "deep social animus towards transfemininity"
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valkyrieladyk.bsky.social
If "female socialization" was real, we wouldn't have a seemingly endless supply of young trans boys who parrot MRA talking points as much or more than all the cis boy incels.

The only meaningful difference is that the trans boys tend to be better at camouflaging their misogyny with feminist terms.
thehelenmary.bsky.social
Terfs don't hate trans people. They hate trans women. Trans men are collateral or objects of pity to be loved and saved. Be specific.