Ray
@raywithawhy.bsky.social
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they/she Math, art, knitting, data, books, cats.
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New Yorkers want a Mayor who will listen to them. Strength comes from the courage to listen and to learn and to dare to unite. I’ moved by Zohran’s words on listening and learning from Jewish New Yorkers.
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There is no anguish quite so sweet as learning about an apple that you hadn’t heard of and likely won’t taste
Futch already exists a different thing! I support Cool Bitch as the new term for feminine queers who are not binary-gendered lesbians although I would not identify that way myself.
Idk tangentially related but the prototypical bi woman is a cishet-passing, normatively feminine gal with a boyfriend, and yes that is a common and PERFECTLY VALID type of person. But I feel like a lot of the discourse around labels low-key assumes that is the only kind of bi gal! Which is weird!!
Also listen I know that plenty of people say "lesbian" has wiggle room already but idk I am not qualified to settle that one ok???
More Gender Thoughts: so I'm seeing people use "sapphic" and "masc" to mean something similar to "lesbian" and "butch" respectively, but with room for like enbies or gay-leaning bisexuals or whatever.

Anyway, why is there no alternative term for "femme"? Is the alternative just "normal lady"?
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Alt text: A sign in a bookstore or library reads "Fuck social media. Marry books. Kill AI."
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starter packs are old model. now we make finisher packs that liberate you from discourse
Yeah, I am Jewish and this drek is just SO transparent.
protesting genocide: we need to purge antisemitism from college campuses

praising hitler and gas chambers: boys will be boys, cancel culture is out of control
Fascinating. Politico notes that when notified of the texts, many state-level Republicans fired or condemned these cretins. Now Vance emerges to excuse the racism, and calls the reaction to it "pearl clutching."

He seems determined to purge the party of its last enclaves of decency.
Idk if I have like...deep thoughts on this but something that has helped my self-understanding a lot is that Nerd Androgyny and Queer Androgyny are two very different things.

I am married to a same-sex partner but my gender expression is not Queer it is Nerd.
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I'm just like a large language model in that I've read everything on the internet and it's made me effectively useless
Cooked broccoli is so good and raw broccoli is SO BAD.

Going to have to meal prep so I can unlock the Ultimate Synthesis (lightly steamed but still crisp broccoli)
Salad bar lunch is kind of a subtle art! Yesterday's salad was DELICIOUS but today's tastes like dirt
Actually the more I think about this the more I have MANY things to say after work!!!
I don't even know what to say about this, except that I spent my twenties doing a PhD and postdoc in math and affinity groups for underrepresented students and scholars were SO NORMAL and unremarkable at the time.
Very bad: OSU unilaterally cancelled the registration of grad students attending the joint conference of the National Society of Black Physicists and the National Society of Hispanic Physicists. And OSU won't fund recruiting at the Society for Advancement of Chicanos and Native Americans in Science.
Ohio State changes policy on group conferences after Trump administration threats
A federal investigation into potentially discriminatory practices at Ohio State prompted the university to change its policies regarding conferences.
www.dispatch.com
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yearly reminder to people insisting that we view Christopher Columbus as "a man of his time" that *the people responsible for the Spanish Inquisition* thought Columbus was out of pocket
Christopher Columbus was dragged back to Spain in chains by a crusading knight, convicted of tyranny and immeasurable cruelty, pardoned by Isabella but banned from returning to Hispaniola.

Fuck Columbus.
I am sure Garak would love living in a Walkable Neighborhood
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Derek, the menswear guy

Garak - a plain, simple tailor

All I'm saying is you've never seen them in the same room together
So glad Tig is back!!!

I really want more Mary Wiseman but like she is allowed to do other stuff with her life and career I GUESS
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"achillean" always amuses me as a descriptor because does it mean books about gay men being gay or does it mean more like oh you shot me in the leg you shot me in the fucking leg you fuck why would you do that, that's my goddamn ankle, my one weak spot, now I'm going to die you asshole
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if i've learned one thing from doing union stuff while also doing other forms of organizing, it's that you're better off with people you disagree with who are nevertheless trying to do the same thing as you than with people you agree with who aren't trying to do anything
I hate that I know this but he is very real
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Last week, one of my students said that she was compelled by law to draw pretty girls and she calls that “Yuri Duty” and the kids are all right.