Girls learned complex dress calculations (inches over corsets → yards of fabric, accounting for ruffles, trims, pattern matching).
But entered marriage unable to own the clothes they made.
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#VictorianHistory #WomensHistory
Girls learned complex dress calculations (inches over corsets → yards of fabric, accounting for ruffles, trims, pattern matching).
But entered marriage unable to own the clothes they made.
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#VictorianHistory #WomensHistory
But in her recipe book, each attribution mapped a supporter.
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#VictorianHistory
But in her recipe book, each attribution mapped a supporter.
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#VictorianHistory
→ Emotional distance
→ Extreme self-reliance
→ Vulnerability avoidance
Adaptations, not personality.
Video context: youtu.be/G2TGkACKgCA
#FamilyHistory #Psychology #Trauma #Attachment
→ Emotional distance
→ Extreme self-reliance
→ Vulnerability avoidance
Adaptations, not personality.
Video context: youtu.be/G2TGkACKgCA
#FamilyHistory #Psychology #Trauma #Attachment
Patterns make sense once you see origins.
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#FamilyHistory #MedicalHistory #Psychology #TB
Patterns make sense once you see origins.
Read articles here helenparkerdrabble.com
#FamilyHistory #MedicalHistory #Psychology #TB
The video shows Harry's institutional experience. Your family might show different contexts - war, poverty, displacement - but similar adaptations.
Patterns make sense once you see origins.
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#FamilyHistory #Psychology
The video shows Harry's institutional experience. Your family might show different contexts - war, poverty, displacement - but similar adaptations.
Patterns make sense once you see origins.
helenparkerdrabble.com
#FamilyHistory #Psychology
“No one believed me. ‘Children couldn’t have been treated like that.’ But we were.”
—Harry Drabble
youtu.be/G2TGkACKgCA
#FamilyHistory #Psychology #MedicalHistory #Trauma #Attachment #TB
“No one believed me. ‘Children couldn’t have been treated like that.’ But we were.”
—Harry Drabble
youtu.be/G2TGkACKgCA
#FamilyHistory #Psychology #MedicalHistory #Trauma #Attachment #TB
Patterns make sense once you see origins.
#FamilyHistory #Psychology #DisabilityHistoryMonth #TB
Patterns make sense once you see origins.
#FamilyHistory #Psychology #DisabilityHistoryMonth #TB
Patterns make sense once you see origins.
#FamilyHistory #Psychology
Patterns make sense once you see origins.
#FamilyHistory #Psychology
You're not betraying ancestors by choosing different patterns. You're honouring their survival while recognising you face different circumstances.
They did what they had to. You get to do what you choose.
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#Healing #Choice #FamilyPatterns
You're not betraying ancestors by choosing different patterns. You're honouring their survival while recognising you face different circumstances.
They did what they had to. You get to do what you choose.
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#Healing #Choice #FamilyPatterns
This is the power of oral history. Thank you for watching.
youtu.be/G2TGkACKgCA
#OralHistory #FamilyHistory #MedicalHistory #Psychology #Pasteurization
This is the power of oral history. Thank you for watching.
youtu.be/G2TGkACKgCA
#OralHistory #FamilyHistory #MedicalHistory #Psychology #Pasteurization
Attend in person at SoG or watch online. Book:
Attend in person at SoG or watch online. Book:
Harry's story illuminates patterns many families carry but don't understand.
youtu.be/G2TGkACKgCA
#Video #FamilyHistory #Attachment #Psychology
Harry's story illuminates patterns many families carry but don't understand.
youtu.be/G2TGkACKgCA
#Video #FamilyHistory #Attachment #Psychology
Harry's voice matters. These children's stories matter.
Watch: youtu.be/G2TGkACKgCA
#OralHistory #DisabilityHistory #Video #DisabilityHistoryMonth #MedicalHistory
Harry's voice matters. These children's stories matter.
Watch: youtu.be/G2TGkACKgCA
#OralHistory #DisabilityHistory #Video #DisabilityHistoryMonth #MedicalHistory
He was 2. It would be 7 weeks, and three hospital wards before he saw her again.
He didn't go home for years.
Full story: youtu.be/G2TGkACKgCA
#DisabilityHistoryMonth #Memoir #Disability #Genealogy #TB #Unpasteurization
He was 2. It would be 7 weeks, and three hospital wards before he saw her again.
He didn't go home for years.
Full story: youtu.be/G2TGkACKgCA
#DisabilityHistoryMonth #Memoir #Disability #Genealogy #TB #Unpasteurization
'Yet' my father’s incredible story of resilience in the face of childhood trauma & disability caused by bovine tuberculosis. It’s a story of hope, love, & transformation.
🎥 Watch here: youtu.be/G2TGkACKgCA
#Resilience #DisabilityHistoryMonth #Memoir
'Yet' my father’s incredible story of resilience in the face of childhood trauma & disability caused by bovine tuberculosis. It’s a story of hope, love, & transformation.
🎥 Watch here: youtu.be/G2TGkACKgCA
#Resilience #DisabilityHistoryMonth #Memoir
'Yet' my father’s incredible story of resilience in the face of childhood trauma & disability caused by bovine tuberculosis. It’s a story of hope, love, & transformation.
🎥 Watch here: youtu.be/G2TGkACKgCA
#Resilience #DisabilityHistoryMonth #Memoir
Someone was hurt badly enough that keeping distance felt safer.
Their children learned love doesn't include closeness.
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#FamilyPatterns #Psychology #Understanding
Someone was hurt badly enough that keeping distance felt safer.
Their children learned love doesn't include closeness.
tinyurl.com/mw6u7fvf
#FamilyPatterns #Psychology #Understanding
🟢 Secure → trust
🟡 Anxious → fear
🔵 Avoidant → walls
🔴 Disorganised → chaos
Your ancestor's style shaped your family's emotional culture.
More: tinyurl.com/yepa85pu
#AttachmentTheory #Monday #FamilyHistory #Genealogy
🟢 Secure → trust
🟡 Anxious → fear
🔵 Avoidant → walls
🔴 Disorganised → chaos
Your ancestor's style shaped your family's emotional culture.
More: tinyurl.com/yepa85pu
#AttachmentTheory #Monday #FamilyHistory #Genealogy
They were:
→ Once the best response
→ Passed down unconsciously
→ Still active today
→ Changeable NOW
You have the power to recognise and shift them.
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#FamilyHistory #Psychology#Genealogy
They were:
→ Once the best response
→ Passed down unconsciously
→ Still active today
→ Changeable NOW
You have the power to recognise and shift them.
helenparkerdrabble.com/blog/
#FamilyHistory #Psychology#Genealogy
helenparkerdrabble.com/blog/
This is psychological genealogy - where family history meets mental health.
Ready to see your family in a whole new light? #AncestryHour #FamilyHistory #Genealogy #GenHour
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This is psychological genealogy - where family history meets mental health.
Ready to see your family in a whole new light? #AncestryHour #FamilyHistory #Genealogy #GenHour
Genealogy that asks not just WHO your ancestors were, but WHY they were that way.
Using psychology, trauma research, and historical context to understand family patterns.
And break them.
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#Geneatherapy #FamilyHistory
Genealogy that asks not just WHO your ancestors were, but WHY they were that way.
Using psychology, trauma research, and historical context to understand family patterns.
And break them.
helenparkerdrabble.com
#Geneatherapy #FamilyHistory
How does trauma pass through generations?
Can we break the cycles?
Think differently about your family. Read
www.mdpi.com/2313-5778/6/...
#FamilyHistory #Psychology #Genealogy #GenHour
How does trauma pass through generations?
Can we break the cycles?
Think differently about your family. Read
www.mdpi.com/2313-5778/6/...
#FamilyHistory #Psychology #Genealogy #GenHour
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#LestWeForget #RemembranceDay #WW1 #FirstWorldWar #FreeStory #GenHour #AncestryHour
For me: Dad's self-taught violin. It represents a disabled child fighting back.
What object in your family speaks volumes?
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#FamilyHistory #Genealogy #DisabilityHistoryMonth #Disability #GenHour #AncestryHour
For me: Dad's self-taught violin. It represents a disabled child fighting back.
What object in your family speaks volumes?
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#FamilyHistory #Genealogy #DisabilityHistoryMonth #Disability #GenHour #AncestryHour