heather bussing
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writer, photographer, employment lawyer, ridiculous dog person, avid Sofalist I also wrote a book on Pay Equity called Get Pay Right
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heatherbussing.bsky.social
I'm visiting my birth family who I met 6 years ago. I also had lunch today with a friend I haven't seen in decades. He knew my adopted parents and college boyfriend.

I'm in some weird time loop. It's wonderful and more than I can process right now.
heatherbussing.bsky.social
Sometimes I also have to reassure my little wtf voice that it's okay. (You'd think the voices in my head would take my side, but noooo. 🙃)
Quiet is a necessity, not a nice to have.
heatherbussing.bsky.social
Yes! Kafka definitely gets it. 🙃
heatherbussing.bsky.social
I feel this way every conference, every family holiday, and right now. (I'm visiting a big group of family.)

I get full from all the activity and run out of listening and processing juice. I tell people I need to go introvert. It works.

If I pace myself and get quiet time, I do great.
heatherbussing.bsky.social
Tuesday?
I so understand this.
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banditelli.org
Probably gonna be too busy this week to do much nature posting so here's a baby dolphin 🦑
Three dolphins swimming, one is clearly younger. You can see the front of a 4th but it's kinda hard. The foreground and background have been blurred to let the baby pop out more , if that makes any sense
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drmichellelarue.bsky.social
Adelie penguins porpoise because it's efficient and it allows them to breathe while they are hurrying to wherever they are going which in this case was back to the colony at Paulet Island
🧪🌍🦑🦉
Full shot of dozens of Adelie penguins porpoising out of the water with an ice shelf in the distance
heatherbussing.bsky.social
It sounds like she would be pleased. How loving and considerate of you. And it's all a little weird and surreal.

I wish you a gentle time of grief. Hugs.
heatherbussing.bsky.social
I am in Texas right now! It is October. WTF‽

Fall is crisp and cool and involves sweaters.
heatherbussing.bsky.social
I tried to talk the PTA into doing a no show ball where people buy tickets and sponsorships, and there is an online silent auction, but no actual event.

They just couldn't do it. The party people needed their party. Sigh.
heatherbussing.bsky.social
I wrote a check at the beginning of each semester with a note saying I was buying my way out of guilt and fundraising and if there were ever any kids who didn't have money for a field trip or the book fair, I would cover it.

It worked!
heatherbussing.bsky.social
I couldn't do any of the mom groups. I just did not have more people talking and wanting me to go places and do stuff. I was already well beyond capacity.

It turned out I was desperate for some alone time.
heatherbussing.bsky.social
I also do the coin flip to see which side I am rooting for. But I also like this elevator pitch way of trying each choice on.
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heatherbussing.bsky.social
Lifespans were a lot shorter back then . . .
heatherbussing.bsky.social
Me too. This one was even in Japan!
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logicallyjc.bsky.social
I spent so much time studying a justice system that I no longer recognize.
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menestune.bsky.social
Come on in, the water's fine.

#ocean #photography #marinelife #sunset #scape #seascape #Maui #eastcoastkin
Waves crashing in front of setting sun.  Sea is blue, green and pink. Rocks close on the left as waves hit. Sky half orange and half blue with long clouds.
heatherbussing.bsky.social
Same. Good decision trees are really hard work.
heatherbussing.bsky.social
Two of my (new?) brothers went to Texas and are diehard fans. One was at the game. I was texting "go cows!" to them.

I am catching on to this whole big sister stuff. 🙃

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