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(this isn't targeted at op she's cool)
cishet women make fun of trans women taking 15 minutes out of their day to dilate as though that isn't exactly what you do, except with a man who hates you instead of a piece of plastic and a YouTube video
idk why "it's always been bad" and "it is now bad in a different way than it was before" are so hard to reconcile for people
there’s a subset of people who, if you point out something bad happening now, will basically reply “it was always like this and anyone who disagrees is just privileged.” it parades as savvy but nine times out of ten it’s just an ahistorical oversimplification.
"they've always been like this" is always a tempting savvy take but it is just not true that Republican staffers were 100 percent open Nazis back in 2004, or hell even 2014. they just weren't
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there’s a subset of people who, if you point out something bad happening now, will basically reply “it was always like this and anyone who disagrees is just privileged.” it parades as savvy but nine times out of ten it’s just an ahistorical oversimplification.
"they've always been like this" is always a tempting savvy take but it is just not true that Republican staffers were 100 percent open Nazis back in 2004, or hell even 2014. they just weren't
there have been a lot of responses to this arguing that young Republicans were motivated by such feelings but didn't express them openly

and I think a crucial lesson of the Trump era is that there is great value in people not expressing these things openly! that's a big and decisive change!
well, they're social conservatives lol
the seattle Mariners are challenging the longstanding belief that you get three chances in an inning of baseball
god forbid a bitch want to enjoy the moment!
sex acts being judged by their ability to realistically finish someone off in that moment is a consequence of patriarchy but we aren't ready for that conversation
they have played us for absolute fools
"scissoring isn't real/isn't fun/ is just a porn thing" is the biggest lie nuke of all time
One Way Or Another, You Oughta Know, Tik Tok
deadly serious question for transgender women: what are your go-to karaoke songs
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In social movement studies, we talk about how marches and protests expand the threshold of acceptable risk so that people take more and bigger social risks IN PUBLIC, EN MASSE. This is extremely important for the bourgeois white folks holding signs and building social rapport.
Not a shitpost: #NoKings is feel-good performative activism for comfortable mostly upper and upper middle class white folks and that’s good, actually. Millions of people in the streets protesting a fascist regime is good. It is good for the normie baseline to be massive displays of public dissent.
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the weirdest fucking thing about the old dying man we elected president is that the thing he wants more than anything, that he’s absolutely desperate for, it is to be liked by the people he is trying to kill
kinda? there is a significant contingent of people who aren't particularly political and some centrist dem types. but it's mostly nazis and the leftists that are still there hate liberals a lot more than they hate nazis
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I know it's a fool's errand to expect anything from the media but "President posts video of himself dumping diarrhea on America" is an important thing to call attention to for a dozen reasons
the left on the other site is so obsessed with trying to feel superior to the no kings protesters. it fuckin sucks
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> "trans women"
> look inside
> 12-13 year old trans girls

nothing nefarious about this framing, certainly