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I’m going to repost this as often as I ever reposted Tom Holland’s Umbrella dance

Do the thing please
New ARMYs arriving here! Remember to add alt text to your uploaded images. Alt text should be clear and descriptive, focusing on what’s visually in the image. There is no need to add extra narrative details. You're not writing a fan fic. Don't over-complicate it. 🙏💜
Ooh yeah, I remember that one! I’ll add it to the list. I’ll try to dig up the old list tomorrow, but I know there’s at least one hockey fic on it
*hand waving lots of history and important conversations in romancelandia about crimes of passion vs crimes vs passion vs the patriarchy etc
I think that part is different in fandom vs pro-fic, because in fandom if the MMC is doing crimes we’re usually actively opting into that experience 😹(thank you tagging conventions). So not a problem per se on our side*

But it’s like 99% more common than abortion in fic ime
I think about this all the time

The same is true in fic - I requested recs featuring abortion as a positive several years ago and got like 5. I’m always on the lookout for them if you happen to have some! I would love to be wrong about this in the modern era
Here is my most damning indictment of romance as a genre: we are currently living in a time when stalkers, rapists, and murderers are romance MMCs, but I doubt I could name more than 10 books in the whole history of the genre where an FMC has an abortion.
Do you have any extremely niche, but serious, ethical stances?
Managed yoga for the first time in months thanks to my new peaceful a*rbnb surrounded by trees and @glitteryv.myatproto.social ‘s consistently good recommendations
This is just what I need, ty!
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Thread (read all the posts) and quite true. Just ASK animal-related groups that are local: "I'm struggling, do you know of any pet food banks/options around?" because they usually have contacts and might run one themselves.
Gentle reminder: I am seeing more "I cannot afford pet food" posts & if you might face this in the near future/now, I recommend checking your local area's subreddit and posting if anyone knows of local programs for pet food. Many areas have small under-the-radar charities that give out pet food.
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Are you 18 or older with a fandom-related tattoo (or know someone who has one)? Please take 10 min to fill out this survey for my new book project on embodied fan identities and practices. Share widely! utexas.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_... Contact info: [email protected].
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If you want to help those fired from CDC over the weekend, the CDC Mutual Aid Network is helping folks with emergency rent, groceries, etc.

altCDC gets no funds from donations, but we can verify they are legit and funds go directly to those impacted.
We're collecting resources for furloughed CDC workers (and other feds!) on our new Shutdown Survival Guide page. Check it out (and let us know if we've missed something!) www.cdcresourceportal.org/resources/sh...
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The documentary I made with Miss Major 10 years ago is on Vimeo on Demand. If you want to spend some time with her on screen tonight and learn some abolitionist trans history while you're at it, it's free to rent with the code "shinebright" vimeo.com/ondemand/major
Watch MAJOR! Online | Vimeo On Demand
The award-winning documentary "MAJOR!" follows the life and campaigns of Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, a Black transgender elder who has been fighting for…
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I’m sorry friend 💙💙💙
I took Bébé for a walk during a break in the rain just now and saw a coyote also taking advantage of the weather!

We have a lot of city coyotes here, but it’s unusual to see one so close to a domestic dog and right in the middle of the day
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Don't forget to spend your FSA money. Lots of things that you can purchase using those funds will be of great use and interest to places like homeless shelters, domestic violence organizations, mutual aid groups & more.

Consider buying menstrual products for one thing.
I got a whole night’s sleep last night after a really rough week but maybe I need a nap too
This gif gets me every time, because Mikey slept tucked up under my chin most nights
I hope they have some good answers for you 💙
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My publisher’s been very patient. I’m not doing everything I said I’d do to promote this book (out in a few weeks) because I’m an organizer in a city under federal attack. My days are full and emotionally exhausting. Any help getting the word out means a lot. It's a book people need right now.
Read This When Things Fall Apart by Kelly Hayes | Pilsen Community Books
A bundle of letters to activists and organizers on the frontlines in catastrophic times from Let This Radicalize You co-author Kelly Hayes In social movements, some heartbreaks are all but inevitable.
www.pilsencommunitybooks.com
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Since it's Black Speculative Fiction Month, I thought I'd share a story I love by a Black author each day. Since I'm starting 10 days in, I'll post a bunch to catch up. I'm going to do 15 from the Top 80 of Best American Science Fiction and Fantasy and 15 from Lightspeed/Nightmare.