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Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 10h

Another, different member of the restaurant staff, handing me my bag: “excuse me, ma’am, you forgot your bag in the bathroom.”

Me: “omg thank you!!”

**End scene, eventually, but not before also being deadnamed at least once**

Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 10h

Me, leaving the bathroom and arriving at the table, tits barely contained in this top: “Hi, y’all”

My grandfather, to me: “Well hello, sir! How’re you doing!”

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Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 10h

My grandfather, speaking to my wife back at the table: “So, where’s your old man?” *chuckles to himself*

My wife: “My *wife* is in the bathroom”

My grandfather, slowly, as if he’s learning how words work: “Your…wife…”

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Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 10h

**Int. BBQ Restaurant in Small Southern United States town - Day**

Me, waiting to use the bathroom

Restaurant staff, squeezing past me: “Excuse me, ma’am; sorry to make you move”

Me, walking into the bathroom: “No problem!”

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SirFox @sirfox.bsky.social · 3d

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Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 3d

Content warning: if you don’t want to hear about a trans woman’s final year of erections, idk that sounds like a you problem, but maybe don’t listen

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Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 3d

I got to be on my friend Kerry Wee’s podcast to talk about my experiences during my first year of transition, both as an aerialist and as a person. I think it was a fun and interesting chat! You can hear it here!

Transitioning from HIM to HER with Jamiza Dar

Podcast Episode · The Expecting Aerialist · 10/21/2025 · 1h 2m

podcasts.apple.com

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Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 3d

and definitely before I spent Three Entire Hours on Saturday literally passed out in my bed due to a completely inexplicable exhaustion that just happened to coincide with some pretty intense abdominal cramping and an equally inexplicable bout of acne that’s all

Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 3d

Look I think it’s important to mention the fact that I was actively advocating for paid menstrual leave long before I ever began transitioning…

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the Mountain Goats @themountaingoats.bsky.social · 4d

just to break down the profoundly degraded discursive state we're in
PROTESTORS: the president is not a king! no kings in this country!
PRESIDENT: [posts video of self in crown, shitting on citizens]
PRESIDENT'S FRIEND: there is a king. King Jesus
NOBODY IN PRESS ROOM: you've missed the point

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Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 6d

And then later: “I do feel like a slightly terrible feminist for pointing out that you have PMS…”

WELL YOU SHOULD ACTUALLY NEVER MIND I’M SORRY I’M JUST MOODY FOR SOME REASON

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Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 6d

But even moreso, it’s extremely annoying that she was absolutely correct about it, I continue to be nature’s fool

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Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 6d

Ok yes, there’s something deeply affirming about being asked, after sending a three paragraph message full of hyper self-critical insecurities, “ok but is it possible that you’re just in the luteal phase of your new cycle?”

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Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 8d

Look, if I had visit the 2nd Amendment Fetishist Glory Hole (Black Rifle Coffee) for a meeting, at least I got the gender affirmation of the dude cashier giving me my drink for free

For real tho, that place is creepy af I do not think I will be returning

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ghostly gwen howerton @kissphoria.bsky.social · 15d

My dope friend Adrian, who is trans, interviewed 90 transgender Texans. His project is finally out: www.dallasnews.com/news/politic...

We surveyed 90 trans Texans. Most said they’re living in fear and weighing a move

Respondents said anti-trans policies have complicated their sense of home in Texas and pushed them to consider leaving the state.

www.dallasnews.com

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Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 10d

But now, if, again, totally hypothetically, I eat that same French toast in the same purely speculatively way yesterday morning, instead of dripping syrup onto the table, I might, theoretically, instead drip it directly onto my left boob. Five times. Hypothetically.

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Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 10d

Before transition, if I was eating, hypothetically, some French toast that my partner made for breakfast yesterday morning, and I dipped it in syrup, I would almost certainly have dripped syrup onto the table as I brought the toast to my mouth to eat it.

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matthew @pahuski.com · 11d

Happy Columbo’s Day

Screenshot from Columbo. He his talking to his dog, which is sitting is the drivers seat of a car. “Okay, I’m gonna put you in charge. You take care of the car. You’re a responsible dog. When I get back, if the car’s okay, I’ll give you another cookie.”

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Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 12d

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Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 12d

Debate bros when you decide you’re not interested in having a conversation about if you should be allowed to exist in society: a story in too many screenshots, including 1 screenshot your brother sent you immediately following the conversation

CW: misgendering in the message he sent to my brother

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Zohran Kwame Mamdani @zohrankmamdani.bsky.social · 13d

UNTIL IT’S DONE, Ep. 4: Sylvia Rivera

In the 1970s, queer New Yorkers had been pushed to the margins of NYC. Our trans neighbors faced immense cruelty. But in Sylvia Rivera, they found a champion.

As we combat Trump’s politics of darkness, her legacy can light the path forward.

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rahaeli @rahaeli.bsky.social · 13d

This is the kind of full and unequivocal defense trans people deserve to hear from more candidates for office

Zohran Kwame Mamdani @zohrankmamdani.bsky.social · 13d

UNTIL IT’S DONE, Ep. 4: Sylvia Rivera

In the 1970s, queer New Yorkers had been pushed to the margins of NYC. Our trans neighbors faced immense cruelty. But in Sylvia Rivera, they found a champion.

As we combat Trump’s politics of darkness, her legacy can light the path forward.

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Katelyn Boo-urns @katelynburns.com · 13d

I wrote a little about some of the little details you might have missed in this video and why it hit me so hard as a trans person this morning:

www.burnsnotice.com/you-have-to-...

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Miza 🏳️‍⚧️ @jamiza.bsky.social · 17d

Also, PHEW. I know that that absolutely could’ve gone much worse…