Fwiw when someone does actually apologise for saying something out of pocket, I also think it's garbage behaviour to keep holding it over their head, my vagueness is certainly more directed at people who just...pretend there was no harm done

Yeah, I'm very similar, it's why I don't re litigate old drama, I just hope people learn and do better

I just yk, sometimes feel like people sweep shit under the rug, and today I'm grumpy enough to vague post about it lol

If you think this is about you, it probably is

And no, I don't care about your guilt around it, this is *my* toxic male trait

If I said half of the shit many of you have I uh, don't know how I'd be able to profess solidarity and sleep after, just saying.

I wish my memory was worse.

Ah, cranky old lady ghosts, truly underrated spirits. I could 100% imagine a sitcom with some college kids living in a apartment with a grumpy old lady ghost who lashes out at them for leaving the place messy.

I'm glad some of the stories in here are very cozy/happy ones, a ghost that does housework is certainly not a scary thing lol

The first story is rly just a cautionary tale, be wary if someone tries to sell you a very nice house REALLY cheap.

Also this ghost sounds like a very grumpy roommate

I love writing and consuming media analysis, so yes! It's a show that I think is fun but is very thematically messy, so there's uh...a lot to pick apart

Oh my god, yeah, that show elicits a very long and complicated response from me too

you're correct, thankfully, I love doing art, so I'm sure I'll have fun with it!

but in directing my writing towards media analysis and how that impacts trans readers, it gives me a direction and a focus on something I actively read about/engage with and am interested in, so it's...not bad, and I'm not so snide about doing it.

It would drag me into intracommunity discourse, as in like people would use my writing for discourse (which could still happen), or I would be like, obligated to write about intracommunity discourse, and my view in it is that it's asinine, so obviously I don't want to and have nothing kind to say-

I have the day off work tomorrow, but I have some art I need to power through, so I COULD but if I do it'll be a reward for getting some stuff done

totally forgot to reply, apologies, iirc I got an email when you updated it, so I should already have the updated version, I'm looking forward to reading it!

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I just wanna like, sleep, but my art and writing won't do itself