It’s so hard to know what to do in these situations because it’s so unprecedented. I am sending immaculate vibes to you and to your friend. I hope very much that she can find her way back.

Only always.

I don't think I'm ever going to get over the fact Link was banned over fucking ALT TEXT. It wasn't the picture - it was the fact he did the right thing and described it.

Jokes, we all know it's because he embarrassed Jay by pointing out her transphobia. The alt was just an excuse.

And one of the biggest things we can do to help victims and survivors of violence is to make sure EVERYONE has a safe place to live.

UBI! Housing and healthcare for all!

So many people would be able to escape violent situations if they had a safe place to go. A place that accepted kids and pets.

And one of the biggest things we can do to help victims and survivors of violence is to make sure EVERYONE has a safe place to live.

UBI! Housing and healthcare for all!

So many people would be able to escape violent situations if they had a safe place to go. A place that accepted kids and pets.

The next time you hear someone has experienced violence, listen instead of rejecting their stories because the truth of this kind of violence in the world makes you uncomfortable.

Sit with your discomfort. Then use it the next time one of your buddies makes a “joke” and call that shit out.

was upended by violence, then come back and see if you still feel like making that joke.

Every time you post some tee-hee about the asshats, share a fundraiser for someone who is a survivor of violence.

Some specific suggestions:

I dunno, maybe don’t give anyone involved some kind of cute/funny nickname revolving around assault

If you’re tempted to tell some joke, stop, make a donation to your local shelter for victims of violence or directly to one of the many people on this platform whose life

Queerly beloved, I have a decade+ of experience in network systems administration and cybersecurity and will move anywhere it's safe for a trans woman to live. If you know of any openings, please pass 'em on

*puts some wool to spin in said fingers*