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@oxinabox.bsky.social
Minors DNI
Neurodivergent, queer, 30 something, EDS, POTS, hearing impaired. Lives in Australia.🏳️‍⚧️ she/it. Literally just a girl

If you know me IRL and see me horny posting be cool, ok?
Or stick to my professional bsky: @oxinabox.net
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I have the trans endocrinology autism.

Standing offer to (in DM or comments):
- explain exactly how HRT works and what it does
- help you workout how and what to DIY
- second opinion your doctors
- explain your blood test
- debug weird corner cases and interactions
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we all deserve family that cries with happiness over getting to be our family.
I remember reading a thing that was like "parents of trans folk, if you don't want to be involved in your trans children's lives you will be replaced. If you don't someone else will. Your loss"

Anyways, I asked a friend to walk me down the aisle for my re-wedding, and she burst out with happy tears
November 13, 2025 at 7:22 AM
My husband asked me to explain this post, and I had to show her Blanchard's transsexualism typology.
And she was like "wow, that's super transphobic. So you either like men, or being trans is just a kink?"

And I had to explain about Blanchard also thinks HSTs are more attractive in appearance.
I am more attractive than the other alters in the system because I am HST, not AGP. Once you can spot it it is easy to tell the difference. 💅
Sparking a discourse war by saying only systems can be bisexual lesbians
November 13, 2025 at 12:34 PM
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I am more attractive than the other alters in the system because I am HST, not AGP. Once you can spot it it is easy to tell the difference. 💅
Sparking a discourse war by saying only systems can be bisexual lesbians
Calling myself bi because the girl parts of me are gay and the boy parts of me are straight
November 11, 2025 at 11:41 PM
we all deserve family that cries with happiness over getting to be our family.
I remember reading a thing that was like "parents of trans folk, if you don't want to be involved in your trans children's lives you will be replaced. If you don't someone else will. Your loss"

Anyways, I asked a friend to walk me down the aisle for my re-wedding, and she burst out with happy tears
November 13, 2025 at 7:22 AM
I remember reading a thing that was like "parents of trans folk, if you don't want to be involved in your trans children's lives you will be replaced. If you don't someone else will. Your loss"

Anyways, I asked a friend to walk me down the aisle for my re-wedding, and she burst out with happy tears
November 13, 2025 at 7:03 AM
becoming hot was such a good plan
November 12, 2025 at 3:02 PM
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face + scent

(I actually wear a dupe, cos $400 is too much)
November 11, 2025 at 4:14 PM
you know it is proper australian summer, because it is 30C (86F) outside.
But the aircon is blasting so hard in my coworking space that i wish i had brought a jacket.
November 12, 2025 at 5:24 AM
a lot of mentally ill people and professional therapist etc have hangups about the word "broken".
I think this reflects disposable non-fix-it culture.

Just because something is broken doesn't mean it can't be repaired, or used for something else or even used for original purpose with challenges
November 12, 2025 at 1:12 AM
If you weren't meant to have w cheeky bit of bra showing some of the time them they wouldn't have put lace on on it
November 12, 2025 at 12:39 AM
I am more attractive than the other alters in the system because I am HST, not AGP. Once you can spot it it is easy to tell the difference. 💅
Sparking a discourse war by saying only systems can be bisexual lesbians
Calling myself bi because the girl parts of me are gay and the boy parts of me are straight
November 11, 2025 at 11:41 PM
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no way in hell is my perfume junkie ass getting this down to one scent so here's my top three:

• Imaginary Authors "In Love With Everything"
• Imaginary Authors "O! Unknown"
• DedCool "Fragrance 01 Taunt"
November 11, 2025 at 10:35 PM
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"hate the sin but love the sinner" sure is nonsense when you have defined a core part of someone's identity as a sin.
You cannot love someone while hating who they are
November 11, 2025 at 2:17 PM
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face + scent
November 11, 2025 at 5:33 PM
An idea i think about a lot is a post apocalyptic setting, but the apocalypse was a few hundred years ago all humans shrunk to 3.5mm tall.
But whole thing is presented as military fiction. With like squads of shock troops jumping off side of trained dragonflies.

"Welcome to the moving city of Dog"
You never see, like, a hard sci-fi Redwall. Like, this cute little stoat has a robot arm and pilots a mech the size of an office trash can.
November 11, 2025 at 4:34 PM
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You never see, like, a hard sci-fi Redwall. Like, this cute little stoat has a robot arm and pilots a mech the size of an office trash can.
November 11, 2025 at 3:32 PM
face + scent

(I actually wear a dupe, cos $400 is too much)
November 11, 2025 at 4:14 PM
It's nice to remember occasionally that when people do clock me they see me as a trans woman which is a kind of queer woman.

They assume I have always been a trans woman -- while it is intrinsic in its nature that I was at least at some point presenting as a man. That isn't how they think.
November 11, 2025 at 3:58 PM
"hate the sin but love the sinner" sure is nonsense when you have defined a core part of someone's identity as a sin.
You cannot love someone while hating who they are
November 11, 2025 at 2:17 PM
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We sell croissants! Here they are under the CROISSANTS sign. Ooh, we now sell pan au chocolat. Pop them in the same area of the shop and change the sign to PASTRIES so everything is included.

Transphobes: THIS IS CROISSANT ERASURE >:(
November 11, 2025 at 1:43 PM
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👁️ Concept: girl who is loved.
November 11, 2025 at 1:03 PM
💃Concept: boyfriend
November 11, 2025 at 12:59 PM
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Time fools us

We fancy ourselves historians,
Or perhaps oracles,
But the past is no more real than the future
Shadows on the wall of the cave

To be, is to be now
To live, is to exist only in one moment
Trapped in the present like an insect in amber

There is no escape without escaping life
November 11, 2025 at 11:33 AM
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Their parents, who were radicalised by hate propaganda from the: Daily Mail, Telegraph, Times, Guardian, Sun, BBC, Conservative Party, Labour Party and more besides. Get the parents off social media, that will do more good than isolating children to be further indoctrinated by radicalised parents.
And how do those children typically access the media they've been radicalised by? 🤔

Measures like this are not intended *instead of* measures to keep trans kids and adults safer, but they're not at odds with those objectives either.
November 11, 2025 at 11:31 AM
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Calling myself bi because the girl parts of me are gay and the boy parts of me are straight
November 11, 2025 at 11:43 AM