Laura Foster
lauramfoster.bsky.social
Laura Foster
@lauramfoster.bsky.social
Tired middle-aged woman, likes cats. Has strong opinions, may or may not share them. Transitioned in the long-ago years of the early 00s, not that it's any of your business.

"Gender is a performance and mine is The Gong Show."
This popped up on FB and it feels like rage bait. How To Write A Post As A Trans Man Without Explicitly Saying So.

Other folks have called them out on the second paragraph: it's not "discomfort", it's TRAUMA. Trans women grow up learning what men are really like when they think women aren't around.
December 9, 2025 at 1:37 AM
"I don't believe that anybody feels feels feels, fee-fee-fee-feels."
November 15, 2025 at 1:00 AM
November 10, 2025 at 10:04 AM
Any trans woman with any sort of online platform: "Having dysphoria is different than not having it - in this essay I will...".

The Online Trans Discourse, immediately:
October 29, 2025 at 8:32 AM
"I need language to describe and define my experiences with dysphoria and having had to fight most of my life to get medical care to alleviate that dysphoria, and how the views of society towards access to that care have changed from hostility to indifference & back to hostility again... Oh no."
October 29, 2025 at 8:24 AM
I'll just leave this here.
October 21, 2025 at 12:12 AM
Just outside of Vancouver BC, temperatures are expected to climb to 21300 degrees C, many times hotter than the surface of the sun. Due to high humidity it will feel like nearly 58 trillion degrees C - the laws of physics may no longer apply. We expect hotter tomorrow, returning to normal on Friday.
August 17, 2025 at 2:56 AM
Had a neat "it's a small world!" moment when meeting up with a friend and her kids at the local library this afternoon. I did a double take when I saw what was in their checkout pile. "Whoa, hey, I know that author! I've known them for years!" @stephcherrywell.com , you made it to Canada.
July 22, 2025 at 2:51 AM
July 1, 2025 at 10:03 PM
Without downloading new pics, describe your gender
July 1, 2025 at 8:01 PM
I used to run with pretty tough gang when I was younger.

(They said I could - they had everything I needed and they were free.)
June 24, 2025 at 1:53 AM
I tried to rewind the video while paused, and now I'm scared.
May 22, 2025 at 6:25 PM
What’s a movie you think nobody but you and a handful of people have heard of, that you think's a fantastic film?

PONTYPOOL (2008)

A bottle-episode-type zombie film except the virus is carried in the English language.

"Please do not translate this message."
May 12, 2025 at 1:13 AM
Okay, I can exhale now that it's slightly less likely that my rights are going to be taken away. And I know people vote, land doesn't...

...but a reminder that the political landscape of western Canada now looks like this. (Blue = Conservative, Red = Liberal, Orange = NDP.)
April 29, 2025 at 5:34 PM
April 19, 2025 at 5:13 PM
April 14, 2025 at 5:06 PM
Post the first video game you ever played

(I am old)
March 28, 2025 at 4:57 PM
Without downloading any new pics, describe your gender
March 9, 2025 at 9:10 PM
Yummy.
February 11, 2025 at 10:23 PM
Got bored, played around with Picrew again...
February 7, 2025 at 5:56 AM
Laura-coded characters.
February 1, 2025 at 6:58 PM
I haven't done a Picrew in for-freaking-EVER. This would be if I could rewind my age to my mid-20s again. I look like a lost member of Gorillaz. 😅
January 15, 2025 at 5:29 AM
I see this posted to various social media every now & then, so I'll be the one to ask because nobody else has: where are their littermates Val & Debbie? IYKYK.

(With some digging I found the original post, & OP has no idea of the significance, implying they were probably named by a shelter worker.)
January 8, 2025 at 4:23 AM
Without downloading any new pics, what's your energy going into 2025.
December 28, 2024 at 4:55 AM
Greetings from Canada.
December 4, 2024 at 10:38 PM