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EDSisSUCHaMESS
@edsissuchamess.bsky.social
Former professor, #hEDS sufferer, and Oxford comma user.

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No, I was lazy. I’m reading A Short History of Nearly Everything by Bill Bryson and eating cereal in bed instead.

And I took the time to watch Vampires vs Brooklyn, which was charmingly bad, with my partner.
December 1, 2025 at 5:11 AM
So I’m almost positive he can’t just unilaterally and arbitrarily “close down” international waters, since the whole point of international waters is that NOBODY OWNS THEM! 🤦🏻‍♀️

Also, is he saying that the Trump administration is going to start shooting down planes now too?
November 30, 2025 at 10:22 PM
Just because they’ve been very clear doesn’t mean it’s not very illegal!

Seriously, enough with these people. Just because Trump & Co. are openly committing crimes and engaging in corruption doesn’t mean they’re not committing crimes and engaging in corruption!

This is not a difficult concept FFS.
November 30, 2025 at 10:12 PM
It’s really gross watching them try to treat reporters the way Trump does.
November 30, 2025 at 9:17 PM
We’re just going to move the bowls so you can’t see them easily. 😊
November 30, 2025 at 6:18 PM
They actually brought a dead bird onto to porch and ate that once. I didn’t realize squirrels ate meat. It was…disturbing.

Luna doesn’t usually care about the squirrels but Freya freaks out. They’ll sit there and chatter at her and she keeps trying to claw the window to get out at them. 😂
November 30, 2025 at 6:17 PM
Thanksgiving Dinner at Sunny Pines.
November 30, 2025 at 5:15 AM
I’ve never heard of him and now he’s added to my year’s playlist. Thanks!!
November 30, 2025 at 1:26 AM
I’m not sure why you spent the entire statement discussing Trump’s broken promises.

I’m a voting CA resident. I want to hear you condemn these extrajudicial killings.

And if you want my vote for governor, tell me how you’re going to fix this mess.
November 30, 2025 at 1:02 AM
That’s awesome!
November 30, 2025 at 12:48 AM
When we went to see Modest Mouse and the Flaming Lips, the lead singer of the Flaming Lips kept trying to pump up the crowd more and more and more after every song and it was exhausting.

There’s only so much hype available in my 45-year old, Gen X, disabled body FFS.
November 29, 2025 at 9:21 PM
So beautiful! I wish I lived closer to the ocean. It’s only like 20 miles away but in LA that means an hour and half drive, with most of it being stuck in traffic on the freeway.
November 29, 2025 at 9:18 PM
😂

I feel like that can apply to pretty much anything that comes out of his mouth lately.
November 29, 2025 at 9:15 PM
Seriously!! 🤦🏻‍♀️

Even the Founding Fathers knew that a two-party system would be divisive and disastrous.

Sometimes wish I had enough energy (and a less checkered past) so I could go into politics and try to do my part to fix things, but most of the time I’m like, “Nah, I’m good.”
November 29, 2025 at 9:00 PM
Exactly! Just because there’s a difference doesn’t mean one person is right and the other wrong or that one person is better than another. It’s just a difference. That’s it.

We’ve got one side trying to pretend we’re all the same and another that any differences are evil. Utterly insane.
November 29, 2025 at 8:53 PM
I don’t know if you saw the conversation I had the other day with someone about ageism, but this idea that everyone, regardless of age or disability, is equally capable of all things is misguided.

We should be striving for equity, not equality, and differences should be celebrated.
November 29, 2025 at 8:45 PM
I swear, this whole pull yourself up by your bootstraps, where’s there’s a will there’s a way crap is part of what’s wrong with this country.

No matter how hard I try, I can’t make this go away. Trust me, I tried. I went through the stages of grief about this.

Sometimes people just need help.
November 29, 2025 at 8:31 PM
Oh nice! I’m hopeful that if I have to end up getting a lawyer that they’ll be able to help. I was just hoping not to add yet another expense I can’t afford (although I know they take it out of your benefits if you get approved).
November 29, 2025 at 8:19 PM
She’s been amazing (as have you - thank you again!).

That’s the crazy part. They denied me because they “couldn’t confirm” that my conditions are truly debilitating. Then they listed the 15+ conditions I have.

How many people are able to work who have that many different medical conditions FFS??
November 29, 2025 at 8:17 PM
I’m sorry it took so long! I can’t imagine they’ll be any faster here. 🙄

I’m still waiting on my appeal and then if they deny my appeal, I will have to get an attorney, because the next step is a hearing before a judge.
November 29, 2025 at 8:12 PM
Bukowski always seems to manage to be deeply depressing and sad and yet beautifully profound.
November 29, 2025 at 8:10 PM
Oh absolutely. I just wish we could fast forward to the time when they learn the consequences of breaking the law!
November 29, 2025 at 8:06 PM
I think it’s especially frustrating because I didn’t recognize how disabled I was at first and so didn’t go about this the “right” way.

I tried for years to get well enough to work & lived off what savings I had before finally giving in to the inevitable & applying for disability.

And now I wait.
November 29, 2025 at 8:03 PM