Cody Daigle-Orians
@dadstoyevsky.bsky.social
Writer and queer sexualities educator. educator. Also: Books. Horror. Hockey Theatre.
Not hard to believe. It’s been happening to Black citizens for ages.
Still hard to believe that there are videos and witnesses to someone shooting a woman in the face three times. Yet the shooter has not been arrested even though the police know who and where he is.
January 19, 2026 at 2:44 AM
Not hard to believe. It’s been happening to Black citizens for ages.
What if, instead of worrying that someone else is doing what you do, you support them and amplify what both of you are doing?
January 18, 2026 at 4:59 PM
What if, instead of worrying that someone else is doing what you do, you support them and amplify what both of you are doing?
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Aside from the bad faith mischaracterization of their content here, this also messes up the chronology. The “woke” social movements of the 2010s were strongest from 2014-2020—so, mostly while Trump was in power. Covid killed them.
what the hell is this revisionist nonsense? This *did not happen*—except in the minds of the far-right. You're buying their bad faith bullshit. MAGA called for and now is building a white ethnostate b/c *they are white nationalists*. That's what they do. FFS
January 16, 2026 at 10:35 PM
Aside from the bad faith mischaracterization of their content here, this also messes up the chronology. The “woke” social movements of the 2010s were strongest from 2014-2020—so, mostly while Trump was in power. Covid killed them.
Drag king that does hockey drag: Shotson Goals
January 16, 2026 at 1:47 PM
Drag king that does hockey drag: Shotson Goals
I think we spend too much time policing each other's queerness in an attempt to appease straightness. It's a battle we won't win.
They are always going to hate us. Stop seeking straight approval.
Queer people policing other queer people's queerness will never make the straight world accept you.
open.substack.com
January 15, 2026 at 5:26 PM
I think we spend too much time policing each other's queerness in an attempt to appease straightness. It's a battle we won't win.
Becoming a hockey fan is the most I’ve cared about straight men in years.
January 14, 2026 at 11:09 AM
Becoming a hockey fan is the most I’ve cared about straight men in years.
When the critique is “well that’s not representing *real* gay life!” And then they point to something they consider represents “real” gay life and it has nothing to do with any gay life I’ve ever lived.
January 14, 2026 at 9:56 AM
When the critique is “well that’s not representing *real* gay life!” And then they point to something they consider represents “real” gay life and it has nothing to do with any gay life I’ve ever lived.
This semester is likely going to kill me, but I am so stoked to do the mountain of work this semester requires.
January 13, 2026 at 10:59 PM
This semester is likely going to kill me, but I am so stoked to do the mountain of work this semester requires.
Soul Ace Day is a month away. Get to know the day’s creators.
Celebrating Black Ace Community... with the creators of Soul Ace Day
Marshall Blount, Alyshia Rodgers and Kimberly Butler created Soul Ace Day to uplift Black ace voices and experiences.
open.substack.com
January 13, 2026 at 3:16 PM
Soul Ace Day is a month away. Get to know the day’s creators.
The lady said go home.
The Blue Jackets have fired head coach Dean Evason and assistant coach Steve McCarthy.
Veteran NHL coach Rick Bowness is the club’s new head coach.
Veteran NHL coach Rick Bowness is the club’s new head coach.
January 12, 2026 at 9:50 PM
The lady said go home.
irrational pet peeve: When people post things like, "I hated this TV show, can someone explain to me what I'm missing?"
Nothing. You're missing nothing. It's just not for you. Go find what is for you.
It just feels so self-important. "Share your thoughts I diagree with so I can not agree with it."
Nothing. You're missing nothing. It's just not for you. Go find what is for you.
It just feels so self-important. "Share your thoughts I diagree with so I can not agree with it."
January 11, 2026 at 5:30 PM
irrational pet peeve: When people post things like, "I hated this TV show, can someone explain to me what I'm missing?"
Nothing. You're missing nothing. It's just not for you. Go find what is for you.
It just feels so self-important. "Share your thoughts I diagree with so I can not agree with it."
Nothing. You're missing nothing. It's just not for you. Go find what is for you.
It just feels so self-important. "Share your thoughts I diagree with so I can not agree with it."
New year new vibes on Bluesky. In my “Dadstoyevsky” era.
January 11, 2026 at 2:53 PM
New year new vibes on Bluesky. In my “Dadstoyevsky” era.
Finally watched One Battle After Another last night. I don’t think it was for me. Stuff I thought was brilliant. Stuff I thought did not work at all. Mostly felt frustrated by it.
January 11, 2026 at 12:52 PM
Finally watched One Battle After Another last night. I don’t think it was for me. Stuff I thought was brilliant. Stuff I thought did not work at all. Mostly felt frustrated by it.
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Also, frankly, if you're wondering why books by/about gay men get fewer movie deals than books about gay men catered to women, it is because when straight women love a story, they force everyone they know to read it. When gay men love a story, they post a shirtless pic with it once & never again.
January 11, 2026 at 4:19 AM
Also, frankly, if you're wondering why books by/about gay men get fewer movie deals than books about gay men catered to women, it is because when straight women love a story, they force everyone they know to read it. When gay men love a story, they post a shirtless pic with it once & never again.
Digital workshop in two weeks, focused on helping ace/allo relationships become more affirming.
Skills for Affirming Ace/Allo Relationships
Register now for Skills for Affirming Ace/Allo Relationships on crowdcast, scheduled to go live on January 25, 2026, 12:00 PM EST.
www.crowdcast.io
January 10, 2026 at 5:39 PM
Digital workshop in two weeks, focused on helping ace/allo relationships become more affirming.
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I wrote about the proliferation of nonconsentual and child pornography on Elon Musk’s X, and the way AI has accelerated the use of porn to push women out of the public sphere.
"Elon Musk’s reckless and degrading AI could be built differently. But Americans will have to speak up," writes @moiradonegan.bsky.social.
Grok is undressing women and children. Don’t expect the US to take action | Moira Donegan
Elon Musk’s reckless and degrading AI could be built differently. But Americans will have to speak up
www.theguardian.com
January 9, 2026 at 5:16 PM
I wrote about the proliferation of nonconsentual and child pornography on Elon Musk’s X, and the way AI has accelerated the use of porn to push women out of the public sphere.
Gay men, stop fetishizing cops.
January 9, 2026 at 2:12 PM
Gay men, stop fetishizing cops.
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This is what Dem leaders need to understand. The murder yesterday and the shootings today in Portland are the result of POLICY. This is exactly what they intend. If you collaborate with the GOP in any way, blood is on your hands too.
January 9, 2026 at 1:27 AM
This is what Dem leaders need to understand. The murder yesterday and the shootings today in Portland are the result of POLICY. This is exactly what they intend. If you collaborate with the GOP in any way, blood is on your hands too.
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Everything happening now has a precedent. This is not new. Please understand that everything happening now is very American. The only change is that it is happening on camera to middle income white people. Ask BIPOC and low income white people about abuses by the state.
January 8, 2026 at 3:22 PM
Everything happening now has a precedent. This is not new. Please understand that everything happening now is very American. The only change is that it is happening on camera to middle income white people. Ask BIPOC and low income white people about abuses by the state.
Reposted by Cody Daigle-Orians
The murderer’s name is Jonathan Ross. www.startribune.com/ice-agent-wh...
Star Tribune identifies ICE agent who fatally shot woman in Minneapolis
Jonathan Ross was dragged in a separate incident last year by a fleeing driver, according to court records.
www.startribune.com
January 8, 2026 at 7:07 PM
The murderer’s name is Jonathan Ross. www.startribune.com/ice-agent-wh...
What happens when asexual microlabels get "allofied?"
The allofication of fictosexuality
When asexuality is removed from ace microlabels, we get harder to see.
substack.com
January 8, 2026 at 6:48 PM
What happens when asexual microlabels get "allofied?"
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They’re trying to cover up a murder that is playing on a loop on every phone.
The state Bureau of Criminal Apprehension says they've been informed by the FBI that US DOJ has said FBI will solely lead the investigation into Renee Nicole Good's killing by a federal officer. State investigators no longer have access to "case materials, scene evidence/investigative interviews"
January 8, 2026 at 4:37 PM
They’re trying to cover up a murder that is playing on a loop on every phone.
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🚨 The White House is now actively covering up a murder.
January 8, 2026 at 4:25 PM
🚨 The White House is now actively covering up a murder.
If you’re saying to yourself, “I don’t know what to do or how I can help,” start by caring for the people around you.
Provided care to the humans you are able to. In any form. If you don’t have the skills/spoons to do anything else, perform acts of care for your personal community.
That matters.
Provided care to the humans you are able to. In any form. If you don’t have the skills/spoons to do anything else, perform acts of care for your personal community.
That matters.
January 8, 2026 at 3:46 PM
If you’re saying to yourself, “I don’t know what to do or how I can help,” start by caring for the people around you.
Provided care to the humans you are able to. In any form. If you don’t have the skills/spoons to do anything else, perform acts of care for your personal community.
That matters.
Provided care to the humans you are able to. In any form. If you don’t have the skills/spoons to do anything else, perform acts of care for your personal community.
That matters.
This is how they’ve spoken about the many innocent Black American police have killed.
Rep. Randy Fine: "If you impede the actions of our law enforcement as they seek to repel foreign invaders from our country, you get what's coming to you. I do not feel bad for the woman that was involved."
January 8, 2026 at 3:43 PM
This is how they’ve spoken about the many innocent Black American police have killed.