i believe the lady at the vintage store who always remembers me and shows me things she thinks i’d like is my friend, much the way you believe the stripper who calls you by name is yours
December 8, 2025 at 6:04 PM
i believe the lady at the vintage store who always remembers me and shows me things she thinks i’d like is my friend, much the way you believe the stripper who calls you by name is yours
There is a new book on Sulpicia, "one of the very few female poets of ancient Rome, to the foreground of public awareness by acknowledging her as the author of part of Corpus Tibullianum 3." NB: women in antiquity did write—and there is more than just Sappho, y'all! academic.oup.com/book/61623?l...
(The flip side is when you get a diagnosis- EDS in my case- and everyone starts reading about it because they’re curious and half the family goes “ah shit”)
December 7, 2025 at 6:41 PM
this has been my (youngest of many!!) experience both with bipolar and hEDS. everyone has a little bit! I somehow have the most, with both… :)
#OnThisDay - 7 December - in 43 BC Marcus Tullius Cicero was assassinated at Formia. Cassius Dio (47.8.4) also notes that Mark Antony’s wife, Fulvia, spat upon Cicero’s decapitated head and stuck her hairpins into his tongue, in vengeance for his speeches against her husband. #AncientHistory 🏺
December 7, 2025 at 12:28 PM
#OnThisDay - 7 December - in 43 BC Marcus Tullius Cicero was assassinated at Formia. Cassius Dio (47.8.4) also notes that Mark Antony’s wife, Fulvia, spat upon Cicero’s decapitated head and stuck her hairpins into his tongue, in vengeance for his speeches against her husband. #AncientHistory 🏺
I have to go to a party tonight and my heart is in menswear but all of my on-hand tie + button down combinations is appropriate for a chic EVENING in the West Village. All daytime.
December 5, 2025 at 11:20 PM
I have to go to a party tonight and my heart is in menswear but all of my on-hand tie + button down combinations is appropriate for a chic EVENING in the West Village. All daytime.
Frank Sinatra is such a fucking coward for cutting the cocaine verse from “I Get A Kick” — but his rendition is dull as dishwater, generally, and misses the point.
December 5, 2025 at 11:17 PM
Frank Sinatra is such a fucking coward for cutting the cocaine verse from “I Get A Kick” — but his rendition is dull as dishwater, generally, and misses the point.
Just now, unsought, a memory: I twirled in the school parking lot, six years old. My arms wide, my cheeks split with a smile. I offered my best friend’s mother Shakespeare: “parting is such sweet sorrow!” Now, too, I remember her charmed surprise, some confusion as well. That’s all. The mind!
December 5, 2025 at 4:15 AM
Just now, unsought, a memory: I twirled in the school parking lot, six years old. My arms wide, my cheeks split with a smile. I offered my best friend’s mother Shakespeare: “parting is such sweet sorrow!” Now, too, I remember her charmed surprise, some confusion as well. That’s all. The mind!
FUCK THIS. If the officers didn’t do any of the things they are supposed to do to determine whether force was necessary, they cannot be justified in using force! Absent A, no legitimate B. Not sure why the AG can’t figure that out! I feel deeply for the kid’s family. An unending horror.
FUCK THIS. If the officers didn’t do any of the things they are supposed to do to determine whether force was necessary, they cannot be justified in using force! Absent A, no legitimate B. Not sure why the AG can’t figure that out! I feel deeply for the kid’s family. An unending horror.
Framing GenAI as a battle between teachers and students is a red herring. Students and educators are on the same side. The real opposition are the data extraction firms and brokerages and their allies among the managerial class.
December 4, 2025 at 11:28 PM
Framing GenAI as a battle between teachers and students is a red herring. Students and educators are on the same side. The real opposition are the data extraction firms and brokerages and their allies among the managerial class.
How many bubble tea places do the NYU student need, seriously can we not have just one fucking coffee shop that is quiet and inexpensive and not trying to be anything other than what it actually is, where the grown-ups who don’t have access to the massive library a block away can get some work done?
December 4, 2025 at 6:35 PM
How many bubble tea places do the NYU student need, seriously can we not have just one fucking coffee shop that is quiet and inexpensive and not trying to be anything other than what it actually is, where the grown-ups who don’t have access to the massive library a block away can get some work done?
Once again, ILL remains the purest representation of scholarly community. I use it so much I often write little notes back and forth with the librarians when I’ve borrowed a lot from their library. It’s the closest you can get to those old penpal schemes and I love it.
Requested a book through ILL over break. It arrived today. Libraries man.
December 2, 2025 at 10:56 PM
Once again, ILL remains the purest representation of scholarly community. I use it so much I often write little notes back and forth with the librarians when I’ve borrowed a lot from their library. It’s the closest you can get to those old penpal schemes and I love it.
Every time I see someone describe ChatGPT as a first-resort search engine it makes me angry all over again at the destruction of Google search. It speaks to the carnage of our digital information infrastructure more so than being a point in favor of the LLM.
November 29, 2025 at 8:12 PM
Every time I see someone describe ChatGPT as a first-resort search engine it makes me angry all over again at the destruction of Google search. It speaks to the carnage of our digital information infrastructure more so than being a point in favor of the LLM.