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ChiTheMonkey 🏳️‍🌈 watches the days grow shorter❄️🐦‍⬛
@chithemonkey.bsky.social
Books and games and stories and gender and motherhood

Still Haerzhal Irynbergasyn (Aether-Faerie)

Likely older than you.

Wife of @gosmrwngz.bsky.social

Cocktails at #chidrinks

Elder Library Person. Yes, that one

*Very* pretty woman. Ook (she/her)
Pinned
Just a warning for anyone who wanders in here because I said something cool somewhere about comic books, RPGs, or libraries... my feed here is mostly me babbling about videogames (or my transition) 🤣
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Did I mention she's a bit of a goth?
gothed-up south asian wear for halloween (or: morticia addams if she were south indian)
November 11, 2025 at 3:57 AM
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Good gravy, isn't she lovely?
Say "thank you estrogen."

(also please be nice to me this level of self-celebration is quite outside of my comfort zone)
November 11, 2025 at 3:57 AM
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I mean c'mon
anyway I deleted this because I was emotionally self harming. I want to try sharing it again, if it's ok, and hope it's not too bad
November 11, 2025 at 3:56 AM
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Look at this
didn't share this yesterday but 5 minute eye makeup that is still very impactful so it's getting added to my quick makeup repertoire
November 11, 2025 at 3:56 AM
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Any other lesbians (or non-lesbian varieties of Sapphic) out there think my niece Asha is pretty?

I'll reskeet some of her photos in the comments if you're unfamiliar.
I am just hoping that the other lesbians will find me at least a bit pretty
November 11, 2025 at 3:55 AM
<checks DHL tracking page>

You know, somehow I don't think this prescription is showing up today.
November 17, 2025 at 9:27 PM
Okay, that was a lovely bath (credit, as always, to @memelessmischa.bsky.social) I feel nice and clean and relaxed but I still haven't done my stretches, so please hold me accountable to doing my dang leg and back stretches.
November 17, 2025 at 6:33 PM
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Bluesky has finally, quietly posted a position for a one-year remote contract Policy Lead, Trust & Safety position.

Trans people who qualify, apply here: jobs.gem.com/bluesky/am9i...

We need someone competent in this role if this place is going to survive.
November 17, 2025 at 3:46 PM
I'm really bad at copying over those 'quote this with' prompts when I do them, aren't I 😅
November 17, 2025 at 5:22 PM
EARTHBOUND/MOTHER
QUEST FOR GLORY
MANIAC MANSION
GABRIEL KNIGHT
Name 4 dormant/dead franchises you want to be brought back
November 17, 2025 at 4:13 PM
Getting out of bed before dawn to the sound of the child screaming about how they spilled their fish crackers and some went down the vent and they don't want to go to the kitchen for more...

May have been part of why I crawled back into bed.

Maybe.
November 17, 2025 at 2:35 PM
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1 like = 1 line of poetry chosen randomly from 1 book within arm's reach of my desk chair, pls like, pals, so I can read poems instead of mh spiral. we can make a random cento together
November 14, 2025 at 12:30 PM
<crawls out of bed>

<feeds and prepares her child for school>

<crawls miserably back into bed and messages work, informing them she is calling in sick>
November 17, 2025 at 11:03 AM
I swear, almost every time one of you mentions celebrating a birthday or a milestone or something I feel the bit in my bio about 'older than you' carve out a bit more of the cartilage between my bones.
November 17, 2025 at 4:18 AM
It should be easier than this.

But fuckit, we'll support each other if we're all we have. 😤
November 17, 2025 at 3:38 AM
We all start somewhere.
November 17, 2025 at 12:21 AM
I have to wonder if there was some obscure gender reason I used to carefully collect all my finger and toe nail clippings and keep them in an empty 32oz bottle of IBC root beer.
November 17, 2025 at 12:03 AM
Last night's poor sleep has left me in a weird headspace today.

If nothing else, it should make going to bed tonight *super* easy 😅
November 16, 2025 at 11:19 PM
Good gracious is it nice to sometimes just take a day and not do *any* eye makeup.

<she returns to rubbing her eyes rapturously>
November 16, 2025 at 10:08 PM
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When you're chatting with an old (pre-transition) coworker you ran into at work recently, and discover they didn't realize *who you had been before you changed your name*
June 1, 2025 at 2:15 AM
Big thanks to everyone who weighed in, but especially @buchans.bsky.social who suggested the one that I ended up getting.

It may be black, but at least I was able to make the logo pulse an ominous pink.
<screaming>

All I want is a symmetrical 5-button mouse, with one button on each side, ideally corded USB connectivity.

Do these rare beasts exist any longer? (for under A Lot Of Money in price?)
November 16, 2025 at 7:56 PM
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you should go out of your way to use your trans friends' names when you talk to them

they chose their names and they feel it in their chests when they hear or see it

we waited our whole lives to hear our real names and it doesn't get old
November 14, 2025 at 7:18 PM
Had an old photo pop up of a program I used to do at the library, where people would use our mobile laptop lab and a projector to play ARTEMIS, a multiplayer spaceship bridge simulator.

Crivens but that was a fun program to teach/watch
November 16, 2025 at 4:38 PM
I really need to remember that a Mai Tai is already like a drink and a half, so a double is more like three drinks than two.

This post brought to you by waking up at 430, where we fell asleep on the couch, to actually go to bed 😅
November 16, 2025 at 3:50 PM
So, back shortly after I came out, my friend @zzzzaeriz.bsky.social told me one of the reasons he thought I was probably trans was because when I've had a little bit of alcohol I'm prone to getting all 'I love you guys, you're my friends' and let me tell you I am there 🤣😅
November 16, 2025 at 3:39 AM