Cady Cakes
@cadycates.bsky.social
She/her. 🏳️⚧️Queer writer, painter, dungeon master, lighting designer, and mediocre @ fighting games
AuDHD, Trans, Poly, and an absolute bean.
DM's open to mutuals.
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AuDHD, Trans, Poly, and an absolute bean.
DM's open to mutuals.
I block bots. MDNI
Write.as/CadyCates
CadyCates.com (currently down)
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Cady Cakes
@cadycates.bsky.social
· May 6
Verdigris
I was cast in a form I wasn't meant for
Polished until my bare flesh exposed
But I am not my sinew, I am not my bone
I am the crawling stone that always returns
No matter how hard they polish
Trying to make me something I'm not
My true skin always appears
Vibrant and crystaline
I was cast in a form I wasn't meant for
Polished until my bare flesh exposed
But I am not my sinew, I am not my bone
I am the crawling stone that always returns
No matter how hard they polish
Trying to make me something I'm not
My true skin always appears
Vibrant and crystaline
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fuck I love being poly
I love exploring different kinks with different people and not expecting one person to fulfill all of my needs
I love not feeling like I need to repress the parts of myself that don't line up with a given partner
I love exploring different kinks with different people and not expecting one person to fulfill all of my needs
I love not feeling like I need to repress the parts of myself that don't line up with a given partner
November 12, 2025 at 8:35 PM
fuck I love being poly
I love exploring different kinks with different people and not expecting one person to fulfill all of my needs
I love not feeling like I need to repress the parts of myself that don't line up with a given partner
I love exploring different kinks with different people and not expecting one person to fulfill all of my needs
I love not feeling like I need to repress the parts of myself that don't line up with a given partner
Triple bingo. Weeeeeeeee. Id have four but I only ironically say uwu. Now if you put :3 in there too id be dead to rights. Also I don't wear socks around the house, I wear slippers.
November 12, 2025 at 1:35 PM
Triple bingo. Weeeeeeeee. Id have four but I only ironically say uwu. Now if you put :3 in there too id be dead to rights. Also I don't wear socks around the house, I wear slippers.
15 lbs to go. That's it. By June. I got this.
November 11, 2025 at 2:03 AM
15 lbs to go. That's it. By June. I got this.
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i hate this snow and cold im gonna stay inside forever
*girlfriend is sick*
I SHALL BRAVE SLEET AND SNOW AND COLD WEATHER TO GET MY PUPPY WHAT SHE NEEDS TO FEEL BETTER
*girlfriend is sick*
I SHALL BRAVE SLEET AND SNOW AND COLD WEATHER TO GET MY PUPPY WHAT SHE NEEDS TO FEEL BETTER
November 11, 2025 at 1:50 AM
i hate this snow and cold im gonna stay inside forever
*girlfriend is sick*
I SHALL BRAVE SLEET AND SNOW AND COLD WEATHER TO GET MY PUPPY WHAT SHE NEEDS TO FEEL BETTER
*girlfriend is sick*
I SHALL BRAVE SLEET AND SNOW AND COLD WEATHER TO GET MY PUPPY WHAT SHE NEEDS TO FEEL BETTER
True end of Hades 2 acquired. Great game. Took me a bit longer than the first. But the boss fights are truly really good and the variety of runs is a lot wider than the first game. But I loved the plot and characters, even if the romances in the first were a bit more to my liking.
November 8, 2025 at 10:21 PM
True end of Hades 2 acquired. Great game. Took me a bit longer than the first. But the boss fights are truly really good and the variety of runs is a lot wider than the first game. But I loved the plot and characters, even if the romances in the first were a bit more to my liking.
It's amazing how much less I take selfies than six months ago. Six more months of weight loss, hrt, and makeup practice and I just don't feel as self conscious about how I look anymore. I just snap a quick one or too then done. I used to just .... Click a hundred times till I found a good one.
November 8, 2025 at 6:57 PM
It's amazing how much less I take selfies than six months ago. Six more months of weight loss, hrt, and makeup practice and I just don't feel as self conscious about how I look anymore. I just snap a quick one or too then done. I used to just .... Click a hundred times till I found a good one.
This hoodie is a dress on me now. Guess that's what happens when you lose 70lbs.
November 8, 2025 at 5:55 PM
This hoodie is a dress on me now. Guess that's what happens when you lose 70lbs.
I miss playing Dnd. I used to run games nearly every week. I've run hundreds of games since 2016. But at some point running campaigns stopped feeling worth it. Not sure if my players just didn't put back in what I needed anymore but 6 months I asked + hoped someone would step up, but no one did. So
November 4, 2025 at 11:32 PM
I miss playing Dnd. I used to run games nearly every week. I've run hundreds of games since 2016. But at some point running campaigns stopped feeling worth it. Not sure if my players just didn't put back in what I needed anymore but 6 months I asked + hoped someone would step up, but no one did. So
So yeah. Doing a lot better. But I don't recommend getting an infected gall bladder and some gall stones if you can avoid it.
November 4, 2025 at 10:11 PM
So yeah. Doing a lot better. But I don't recommend getting an infected gall bladder and some gall stones if you can avoid it.
Didn't get to share this cuz I ended up in the hospital that night. But I was cute AF
November 2, 2025 at 7:28 PM
Didn't get to share this cuz I ended up in the hospital that night. But I was cute AF
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I really want cis folks to understand the situation - trans women face widespread employment discrimination and live in devastating poverty.
Meanwhile, the woman who came in fifth place in a swimming competition, ONCE, makes a million+ a year to advocate for destroying our rights.
Meanwhile, the woman who came in fifth place in a swimming competition, ONCE, makes a million+ a year to advocate for destroying our rights.
If Riley's doing speeches 40 times a year, assuming breaks, she'd be making between $600,000 and $999,960 a year pre-tax. She's a fucking millionaire who has made her entire career of harassing a singular trans woman into exile. I legit thought Lia Thomas was dead until she did a recent interview.
October 29, 2025 at 1:44 PM
I really want cis folks to understand the situation - trans women face widespread employment discrimination and live in devastating poverty.
Meanwhile, the woman who came in fifth place in a swimming competition, ONCE, makes a million+ a year to advocate for destroying our rights.
Meanwhile, the woman who came in fifth place in a swimming competition, ONCE, makes a million+ a year to advocate for destroying our rights.
In worse surgery news. I apparently also have to get my gallbladder removed on Friday 😵😕
October 28, 2025 at 9:14 PM
In worse surgery news. I apparently also have to get my gallbladder removed on Friday 😵😕
I have a surgery date! And I only need to lose like 20 lbs! I can dooo thaaat. Ahhhhhhh!
October 24, 2025 at 5:15 PM
I have a surgery date! And I only need to lose like 20 lbs! I can dooo thaaat. Ahhhhhhh!
Wish me luck. Off to my bottom surgery consult to find out if they think I deserve a vagina.
October 24, 2025 at 12:49 PM
Wish me luck. Off to my bottom surgery consult to find out if they think I deserve a vagina.
Reunited with @togecass.bsky.social and it feels sooo gooooo
October 5, 2025 at 4:37 AM
Reunited with @togecass.bsky.social and it feels sooo gooooo
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Communicating that I'm a bottom to another trans woman in the traditional way (sucking absolute shit at fighting games)
October 4, 2025 at 9:13 PM
Communicating that I'm a bottom to another trans woman in the traditional way (sucking absolute shit at fighting games)
I have failed to stay off bluesky. But I'm trying to stay sane using onlyposts so I'm sorry, if I don't see your resposting I normally would like. But hey, I'm sane.
October 2, 2025 at 12:38 AM
I have failed to stay off bluesky. But I'm trying to stay sane using onlyposts so I'm sorry, if I don't see your resposting I normally would like. But hey, I'm sane.
I'm logging off of bluesky for awhile. Disconnecting hard for a bit. If you wanna touch base message me for my discord soon, as I won't have notifs on. I can't stay connected and stay sane. Sorry
September 16, 2025 at 9:00 PM
I'm logging off of bluesky for awhile. Disconnecting hard for a bit. If you wanna touch base message me for my discord soon, as I won't have notifs on. I can't stay connected and stay sane. Sorry
I'm serious. Tie me up, wire me with strings. Brake my brain until my eyes are dead. I don't wanna fucking do it anymore. I dont want to think, I don't want agency. Just fucking break me like a toy you got bored off.
September 16, 2025 at 8:13 PM
I'm serious. Tie me up, wire me with strings. Brake my brain until my eyes are dead. I don't wanna fucking do it anymore. I dont want to think, I don't want agency. Just fucking break me like a toy you got bored off.
Someone break me. I hate feeling like I'm on the verge of breaking. Just fucking do it already.
September 16, 2025 at 5:05 PM
Someone break me. I hate feeling like I'm on the verge of breaking. Just fucking do it already.
I don't remember when this year I came to terms with the fact that there was abnormally high chance going to die in the next couple years. I cried a lot. When I was in the hospital thinking I was going to die I cried then too. I told my partner "I just wanted to live as a woman" before i found out -
September 15, 2025 at 8:33 PM
I don't remember when this year I came to terms with the fact that there was abnormally high chance going to die in the next couple years. I cried a lot. When I was in the hospital thinking I was going to die I cried then too. I told my partner "I just wanted to live as a woman" before i found out -
Worth getting out to enjoy the gorgeous day ^ ^
September 15, 2025 at 7:54 PM
Worth getting out to enjoy the gorgeous day ^ ^
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my heart bled for the first time in a long time this weekend. a gushing red waterfall of so many emotions dripping down the inside of my chest for my trans brothers and sisters. i wish my arms were as long as the world so i could hold all of you and tell you that its going to be ok
September 15, 2025 at 12:37 PM
my heart bled for the first time in a long time this weekend. a gushing red waterfall of so many emotions dripping down the inside of my chest for my trans brothers and sisters. i wish my arms were as long as the world so i could hold all of you and tell you that its going to be ok